The hahahha part was me thinking how stupid and ridiculous this situation is. We broke up but he is helping me out a lot too. And he never did it before! Suddenly bought me a gift and brought me food when I was ill. Every time he wants give me a hug ( a long one) when he is leaving.
Im 32 and he is 31. I have been married to Virgo man before. Been in relationships for 11 years. After divorce Virgo man moved on very fast and got a gf. No contact since then. But this guy is so different. It was his decision to break up.
Met this guy and he moved on really fast. He was a player type who goes on a new date every day.. but he kind of wanted to start a relationships me very fast - after a month he asked me to be his gf, after two months to move in together. He talked about marriage very fast and wanted a child. First two months where our honeymoon and then it got worse. I don't blame him (except for being on Tinder and acting like he is single, telling lies about his life to look better in other people eyes), I admit there were a lot of my fault too and he knows that. Arguments all the time, he being aggressive and so on. After a while we realized we want to be together in our hearts but we just cant be in a real life. Its not healthy. He moved out. But he said he still wants to be in touch with me (and we have to, cause we share business together ). Its been only a month but he calls me every day and he is very controlling - asks me where I am, what Im doing, why Im not at home. he wants to find out if Im seeing some one, makes some comments about it all the time. I'm not allowed to ask him theses questions, but he can... One day he admitted (for the first time he was honest with me and who knows why!) that he spend all day with a woman... I asked him - how it went? He told me than not so good.. she asked him over at the end of evening but he went home... He comes over almost every day.. always find some excuses.. i make him lunch hahah he calls me everyday.. and theses conversations where strictly professional at the beginning but now they becoming more domestic - how too clean, how to cook and so on. Whenever he sees that I'm happy and not crying in the corner of the room, he gives me this weird look and askes - why are you so happy? Are you seeing someone? Who gave you flowers? So what the hell he wants from me? cause we met few days ago and I was feeling very bad health wise and asked him can he stay over the night.. I don't want to be alone and he said he doesn't want me to get used to him..(?).. he likes the way it is right now - not more and not less.. so why the hell he doesn't leave me alone? Why all theses questions? He says he is just curious.. if I'm seeing someone. So its like he doesn't want to be with me, but he doesn't want me to move on with my life. P.s. we are not sleeping together. We didn't even have sex in last few month when we lived together.
I am Libra lady. Been in couple of relationships for a couple years. 2 years with Aquarius (one of the best, but shame we were so young), 1,5 years with Libra (nooott, i felt like living with my best friend and not in good meaning) and 6 years with Virgo (although I am Libra with Virgo moon and Virgo rising... he is too fussy, too negative and too... well he always kills my dreams form very beginning. He is just to negative from inside and throughout). Dated for while a Scorpio - ohh mysterious man, but too dark for me and wayyyy toooo stubborn. He drove me insane. We argued all the time. Don't get me wrong, I live Scorpio ladies - my mom and my best friend is one. Love them to bits. But the men.. Then I was seeing Aries man for a while. O gosh, what a man! I love Aries. They are manly men. Love them. If I am having a night out with my friends and I spotting a cute guy across the bar, I is Aries for sure! But now my eyes are on Cancer man and they been there for more a year. I am in shock, cause normally I loose interest pretty fast. And I know it is really reaaalllly bad match, but the heart wants what it wants ) p.s. I secretly believe this could be my soul mate, couse I never ever in my life felt like this. We were seeing each other a year ago, but it didn't work out. He had a break with his ex and I had a break with mine. But i will never give up on him, although everything says i need to. Oh well..it is my life and I know I am making mistake
But when I am falling in love and falling in love for real and not some "oh that guy is cute"... Well first of all we all know that Libras loves to be in love and I hate to be on my own. I love when there are people around me, so I think that being on our own is just a waste of time, cause when someone is besides you he can give you some much happiness and new experience and you will never be bored But when I really really like someone, I loose my balance. I am starting to feel so much emotions and feelings that I never been aware of, so I am starting to loose my charm and self confidence. I might be flirtatious and charming around people I barley know, but when there is someone I am really falling for my scales just go wild and I am totally out of balance ( and out of this space as well). And then I am starting to run away, but not to far. I will keep my loved one pretty close, so I could control situation until I am on track again. But meanwhile I might be quite and for others I might seem disinter