And before anyone says "if it's been 2 years she's not interested then I'm sure she would've told you" yes I know that. But like I said it's a personal complicated situation I can't explain if it was that simple I would've told her or she would've told me but yeah.
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are you waiting for her to humiliate you like she did to others?

you are a libra? don't you appreciate a woman who is capable of letting another down easy and not being crass? doesn't seem like a kind person to me

unless it's inappropriate sexual advancement, then i think f off is just fine lol


Lol no it's just that if she wasn't interested she would've told me because I don't push things as much other people have done to her I honestly will keep my distance I don't force her too rush or anything I do what mostly everyone's said I don't rush her into anything, I let things go as they come between us so I act normal, I have gaven her mixed signals which is what she's done to me and I've gotten some feedback from her. Like at first I was the one falling hard for a cappy who I felt was out of my league and she didn't think about even care to look my way (or anyone's) but she started to warm up to me we've had our times of playful flirting and such and honestly I've just been courteous. Because even tho people think libras always flirt and what not I actually am a lot like her I'm not the type to show interest it would be a shock if I even considered anything but if I can't see a future with anyone I don't bother wasting my time but there's something special about her. From time knowing her she's made me a better person and I love her for that I have the upmost respect for her I don't see her as some object I want in my bed. (Personally I don't see how guys are like that I was taught better.) I see her as someone I see a future with someone I want to grow old with achieve great things with all of that. I never felt anything for anyone that I do for her. (And yes people may be like "oh well didn't you guys meet not long ago. It's actually now been considered 2 years and I still feel the same but things are still complicated for us to exactly be together in a sense) but yeah other than that I would just wish she can tell me the truth and if she doesn't like me to let me down easy. But with our history of things I think my brain still finds it hard to think she's not interested because she's just done and shown so much to make me think that and I've tried to move on but never could I try and tell my brain to stop maybe she's not interested but then everything comes back and it's hard to just say "she's not interested" when there's just been too much to believe that
Posted by CAPS_LOCK
She's not interested


Lmao..I didn't talk about everything that's happened between us that's too long of a story but I know she stops and confronts people if she doesn't like them (this guy that's attempted flirting with her she cut off after a while and told him to stop because she doesn't like him) so I mean she's probably quiet on this. Her behavior over periods of time towards me have been questionable to not just me others too, I'm not saying she's not interest. But I'm saying there's a possibility something is there that she not going to admit or express. Because for her if she sure as hell wasnt interested she would've humiliated me like the last guy but she hasn't.
Posted by lnana04
If she's inconsistent that could be a way of her signaling slow down. She could very well be a bit cautious of the signals she's sending out, so to not make it seem more than what it is she acts aloof. Personally, If I think someone is developing interest I press on the brakes hard. That's not exactly what she wants, possibly.

I'm confused ๐Ÿค”
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lol it's okay just hang in there and if you really wanna know then try giving her mixed signals ๐Ÿ˜œ

Seriously


Lol other this that I guess patience is key ๐Ÿ”‘ lol

Unfortunately it can work.

I will be persistent in letting you know I like you or I will be persistent in disappearing or letting you know that I'm not interested

I believe she would tell me but we're kind of in a difficult situation where a realationship right now is not the time and I already see her as the one I wanna spend my life with and if I'm honest I rarely even like or fall for anyone and she has put me through some tests but even a couple mutual friends I have that KNOW us both and stuff have told me she looks upset when I'm gone and randomly asks about me and found it odd because she doesn't show interest or care for people like that because it's and I quote "none of her business anyway" she's surely a cap she has sass to her

What's the difficult situation if you don't mind me asking?


It's kinda personal between us but all at once I think fear is what's making this confusing. Plus is it true caps aren't touchy people like you'll be lucky if any cap let you touch or hug them??

Not necessarily. About the touch, it varies based on the individual.

I'm not a touchy person or a hugger. I still give people hugs even though I'm npt interested romantically.

If you 2 work together, that could be a dealbreaker.

If 1 or both of you are married or in a relationship that might be also

Anything outside of that is possible, with variances based on her own personal preferences ie: job, money, house/living arrangements, habits, car, etc.
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Well depends what you mean I guess in way we actually do work together
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lol it's okay just hang in there and if you really wanna know then try giving her mixed signals ๐Ÿ˜œ

Seriously


Lol other this that I guess patience is key ๐Ÿ”‘ lol

Unfortunately it can work.

I will be persistent in letting you know I like you or I will be persistent in disappearing or letting you know that I'm not interested

I believe she would tell me but we're kind of in a difficult situation where a realationship right now is not the time and I already see her as the one I wanna spend my life with and if I'm honest I rarely even like or fall for anyone and she has put me through some tests but even a couple mutual friends I have that KNOW us both and stuff have told me she looks upset when I'm gone and randomly asks about me and found it odd because she doesn't show interest or care for people like that because it's and I quote "none of her business anyway" she's surely a cap she has sass to her

What's the difficult situation if you don't mind me asking?
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It's kinda personal between us but all at once I think fear is what's making this confusing. Plus is it true caps aren't touchy people like you'll be lucky if any cap let you touch or hug them??
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lol it's okay just hang in there and if you really wanna know then try giving her mixed signals ๐Ÿ˜œ

Seriously


Lol other this that I guess patience is key ๐Ÿ”‘ lol

Unfortunately it can work.

I will be persistent in letting you know I like you or I will be persistent in disappearing or letting you know that I'm not interested


For example she'll be nice to to today but next time you see her she'll act aloof and distant lol
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Not gonna lie she does do that

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lol it's okay just hang in there and if you really wanna know then try giving her mixed signals ๐Ÿ˜œ

Seriously


Lol other this that I guess patience is key ๐Ÿ”‘ lol

Unfortunately it can work.

I will be persistent in letting you know I like you or I will be persistent in disappearing or letting you know that I'm not interested
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I believe she would tell me but we're kind of in a difficult situation where a realationship right now is not the time and I already see her as the one I wanna spend my life with and if I'm honest I rarely even like or fall for anyone and she has put me through some tests but even a couple mutual friends I have that KNOW us both and stuff have told me she looks upset when I'm gone and randomly asks about me and found it odd because she doesn't show interest or care for people like that because it's and I quote "none of her business anyway" she's surely a cap she has sass to her
Posted by Capricorn10
It hardly takes a look for capricorns to know if you like her or not. They raise walls if they dont like you. Until she is sure, be around her.

However, this relationship might not work on a long run as you are and air sign, and she is an earth sign.

I get that a lot of people believe an air sign and earth sign are a hard match but she acts off she's not the type interested in love and I feel like I made her wonder I have some Capricorn on my chart and I'm afraid of the humiliation of rejection Idk if she is but I do have s lot of crappy attributes and if I may add we both are very similar and share similar insights and likes so I mean.. but she's shown a lot of off actions but she's for sure a Capricorn with the same traits it's uncanny
Would any cap women say that when it comes to liking someone you hide your feelings for them and act like you don't care or love them to their face and show the love an care behind their back? Because if yes, doesn't that suck because you would possibly drive away the person you're falling for or like because of that?? What would your advice be to a person who is probably a Capricorns interest and is confused by their abnormal persona behavior like this??
Not threat / the** oops :/
I feel like caps have an effect of being a good influence to certain people and bring out threat truth in a person and that's amazing
What do you Capricorn women out there tend to do when you like someone?
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Posted by Capri-sun
She sounds like a typical cap who was hurt or offended by your avoidance of her & when you ignored her & walked away. Not to sound rude, youโ€™re lucky she's even still glancing in your direction tbh. She could avoid any eye contact with you at all & just act like you never existed.

I'm not really sure what you're specifically looking for or would like to know. She is the only person who knows whether she likes you or not.


He got hurt because the cap girl stopped hugging him in public and started avoiding him.

I would be traumatized also I think.

Really hard to find a guy that likes a cap women for who she is and not her good looks and cute ears!

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Lol. I mean. Honestly she would alway point out her flaws when I complimented her but I always told her otherwise that she's gorgeous and perfect and she would just kind of look away smiling. Honestly I can name millions of things to describe how amazing she is and her beauty would be a bonus I never noticed her beauty until after I fell in love with her qualities I really need to apologize and tell her the truth she means the world to me and if I messed up for being an idiot and let her ever fall into someones arms it would kill me I was just kind of hurt at how she was acting and I didn't mean to hurt her i just have a bad habit of repeating any action that was kind of done to me. So I felt like butter and wanted to apologize but never could.
Posted by Capri-sun
How about have an open honest conversation minus the playfulness to apologize and let her know that you're interested.

Why don't you ask her out on a date?


I haven't seen her in a while plus I don't want to feel like an idiot asking her something if I feel she may not feel the same way or she might feel the same way I'm just kind of looking to see a clear understanding or point of view to this and see if I'm not the one seeing that she's acting a little out of charactaer because she does have her exact Capricorn traits but it's kind of confusing
So I've been in love with this Capricorn woman for..around 2 years? And I still am. So we've had our awkward rough patch at first where she would just kind of think about things like if she was just analyzing me. So over the time period we've gotten closer to eachother we have a form of flirting that seems like we're just goofing around or being sarcastic and sassy with eachother but we both consider it our way of flirting and we love it because no one sees that it's just flirting. We always get close and then there's a drift. We used to hug like nothing when we got closer. But lately she's been acting different with me. Before she used to always mess around with me and we just got along then things went off. She wouldn't hug me in front of people like she used to (which had me thinking she didn't like me) but I remember one time I was gone for a while kind of a long while she noticed more and more and would ask my friends and a whole bunch of people if they know where I was and if they had talked to me lately. So for her character she isn't the type to show she cares. Other people around her she knew would be gone long periods too and she wouldn't know where they went or anything either but she never asked about them or anyone but she always asked for me and showed that she was worried or upset and concerned but when I'm around she never shows that to me as if she's hiding a part of her that she feels makes her seem weak. So she would kind of push me away and I got hurt and I wondered why she worried and asked for me when I wasn't around but treated me coldly when I came back. I then didn't talk to her and I kind of avoided her and I would just walk away if I saw her coming towards me. I remember that we have our way of flirting which is playful and we just pick on each other playfully and she tried to do that after talking with a friend that was with me she looked at me and I was avoiding her and she made a playful joke picking on me about something and I just looked at her and she stopped smiling and just said "why aren't you saying anything.." and I just walked away to another friend that was near by I felt bad and I still do that I treated her kind of crappy ish but I was just so hurt she kept pushing me away and stuff before all of this and I thought maybe she didn't want me around. I would catch her looking at me and she didn't look away she just kind of kept watching me with a kind of sad look on her face she looked like she wanted to go up and tell me something but she was hesitant. I looked at her making eye contact for a while and I walked away. I remember one of my friends telling me that she seemed quiet and sad one time and it wasn't like her she seemed kind of off and they told me to go apologize but I really didn't do anything and they don't know the whole story and that I'm in love with her. So I never exactly apologized I remember I did apologize when I was in a bad mood and we were both stressed and I went off and she laughed it off and hugged me and she didn't let go until I did. But this was before this whole thing happened honestly I miss her, everyday. And I hate it. Cause I really fell in love the first moment I laid eyes on her and it had nothing to do with the way she looked she's perfect to me for who she is I fell in love with her attitude and personality she's the person who can piss me off at time and make me sad but she always makes up for it because she makes me the happiest I've been in my entire life and I've tried to date and move on but only leave the people I date because I can only think about her it's always her. I remember my friend mentioned me and told her I had said hi but I never did tell my friend to tell her hi from me but then my friend told me that when she heard my name first be mentioned she smiled and and looked surprised about the fact that I said hi and my friend thought it might of had to do with what happened with us. BUT IM SO CONFLICTED I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK BECAUSE PART OF ME IS LIKE YOU IDIOT SHES FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU TOO AND PART OF ME IS LIKE IDK..HELP!!!!ยกยกยกยกยกยก