as to your questions...i have introduced him to my parents....they know him already way back as my co worker...... but i havent told them yet that we are bf and gf... though they know it even im not talking.... and my parents and him are in good terms...
we've been together like 1 year and 7 months... together as in everyday because of we are workmates and he also brings me home everyday upto this period of time... but just this april we opened up our feelings to each other... so if you are asking me how long are we having a relationship officially.... its just like 3months... but the togetherness, its 1 yr 7months..
im having a dilemma with my virgo guy...he is my boyfriend and im just wondering,,,and we are inlove with each other... i dont know yet any of his family members...i havent met his mom... and im wondering why he havent introduce me yet to his mother? are virgo usually of quiet type upto this extent? uhmmmmmm i just want to know does this mean anything... why this virgo havent introduce me yet .... or am i just being paranoid?
okay...mslibra.. update me on whats happening to u... my virgo guy is also like that... he puts so much value to work first and hate being unproductive... u will just have to observe his likes and dislikes and soon u will be able to learn of his personality better... just an advise... have control of ur emotion... our emotion with virguys will be up and down...
thanks diamond and sorti..... upto when will i struggle... oh i love this guy so much that i want to give everything to him just to make him happpy... but his out side coldness.... somewhat is stoping me from doing things..sweetness etc... im not sure whether he'll likes it that is why...
mslibra... u know... we are somewhat the of the same situation...if u have read my other posts... we are really somewhat alike.... but i have overcome the jitters i have and finally told him how i feel for him... and he answered back also... i love u too... and thats it.. i think we really have to initiate.... i just got enough courage in confessing my feelings because of this DXP.... their convincing power and advises persuaded me to do so... give it a try though
i agree with u amandus... well i just have to learn to be contented with what he has to offer.... i just have to overcome my insecurities and it sucks... u know whats running in my mind and what im stupidly feeling?? its when he is not sweet or showy to me....i felt like he is taking me for granted a bit... but thats studpidity i know... but how to overcome this stupidity of mine??? lol
your situation was the same dilemma as i had before with my virgo guy... and its been one year since i got the courage to finally speak up to him feelings... i told him i love him and he answered back i love u toooo.... that response of him made me feel comfortable and assured of his love.... though he really is not affectionate and emotional.... you ask he will answer back... you show him your love... he will be receptive... that is if he like what ur doing... but you see.... you might try to give it a try in telling how you feel for him... i just realize that being a male or female is not an issue whether who is to do the first move... what matters is that u were able to express ur feelings for him..... and if worst comes to worst.... he did not reciprocate.... let go.... at least u did ur part... and u will not regret because u gave ur all... its like a game... a game that should be taken seriously to win....winning with all ur heart
about his past relationships.... i didnt dare ask.... and he also dont open about it... actually... i dont know if how many girlfriends he had in the past... well... i think there's no reason in asking him anymore... im just afraid it might make him uncomfortable if i ask him about that.... this virgo guy of mine... he is just so secretive and discreet and conservative in some sense..... whoa
well... we got intimate last week and we did have some fun together... we slept together... and before we finally sleep, i hug him tight and said i love him...and i want to be assured.... then he told me that he loves me too and hug me tight and slept together hugging... when we are in bed,, he is so caressing and caring and sweet.... but why is it when we are already outside the real world,,everything just seem to be normal... not sweet but caring in his own way... is that really virgo?? i supposed when he said he loves me... he mean it right?? virgos are not liars u supposed?? lol