Posted by PGirl
I guess we have been friendly for three months talking everyday and i just think if there is another girl, why lie? he told me about the other girls before?
thanks for saying you think it was just about sex. I disagree, cause if it was, we could have. he just kept saying he was scared. Now, i'm sure there is a girl visiting him or something, but should i push the issue and ask why he won't tell me? i don't want to push him away further, but i don't understand what happened to him being open and honest either.
let me know, you seem smart.
Posted by saweetz1988
..My venus is gemini n his venus is libra ! This is a lively combination in which communication doesn't just flow, it bounce and leaps. Together, you will enjoy some fabulous conversations. You will certainly fill your partner's need for communication, as he/she thrives on feedback. There can be considerable respect between you. You enjoy plenty of social and mental stimulation???the more variety, the better??? and so does your Venusian Libra partner!
this is NOT in the topic but now that explains why OUR conversation just flows. and cooperating with each other is a piece of cake!!! interesting !
Posted by Mayze22
Hey, how is your communication? I don't mean communication like talking heavy about relationships...I mean, having conversations about anything - current events, music interests, personal stories, etc.
It's very important for Virgos to have a partner they can have a mental, not just emotional, connection with - particularly if his moon or mercury is an Air sign. It's true that Virgos take a while to make up their mind and commit, and he's probably testing the waters (no pun intended for the water sign haha) , and this includes whether you are compatible on a basic conversation level. Because considering commitment, for a Virgo, means considering the practical growth of a relationship; i.e, will we support each others' ideas on the long run? are our ideas realistic to sustain us?
Since you two met online and built something from online chatting I'd imagine you do have a mental rapport. If you have a habit of having him make the first move, make sure it's not translating over to your conversations. Bring up your interests. Be yourself and talk about what you want. He will most likely appreciate your individuality and input. (If he doesn't, screw him! lol).
The good news is I know a very happily married Cancer/Virgo couple. Both signs are family and home oriented. I know a Cancer guy and had I not moved far away, I think something great could have happened between us. Of all the earth signs, I believe Virgo is the most compatible with water signs - they enjoy being the ones to supply logic and grounding and helpfulness to their dreamy water partner!
But I agree with the other posts. Take it easy for now. Good luck
Posted by cobielc9466
very well said by lunar maiden . get on with yourself, strap your heels on, and do you cuz he damn sho doing him. i currently date a cancergirl, and she continuesly remind me how emotional, and insecure she is...Sheesh! can a Virgo ride a different ride instead of the emotional merry-go-round?...dont get me wrong i tend to her needs emotionaly, but everyday is exahusting...sorry i kinda made about me for a moment....what we Virgos like is assertiveness, so if you willing to pursue go for it, if not lose his number, and belive you cant find it anywhere...nuff said.