Posted by saggurl88
I’m a Sag sun Cancer moon and was in a relationship for half my life. I was made for relationships, as long as I don’t get bored of a person.
If someone appeals to my emotional side, I’m in. If they hold back, I’m out.
Posted by MysteriousDreamer
Eh I’ve been dating a Cancer Sun/Moon for almost 4 months now and he is nowhere near ready to commit. He claims we are more than fwb, but not quite in a relationship. WTH is that nonsense?
Posted by virgoOPPP
talked about anniversary plans this weekend with my cap bf and he was like 'okay, yeah.'
but i had to change my mind and cancel coz i feel like crying about something that he did last year
that's life dealing with me
Posted by LithiK
I believe so. I'm Cancer sun who should love to settle down and comit easy, but i have Sag moon, and i have real hard time committing in relationships, i date 1year minimum before i'd go in boyfriend girlfriend status, and that's not to say that's exactly the time, but that's aprox how much it takes for me to get comfy with someone and see if they are not going to take away my freedom, it's really important for me. Moon represents what you need, instead of what you want, so i'd say moon is good indication of what you need in life to trully feel fulfilled instead of what you want .
Posted by Arinoaqua
Talking about settling down and marriage and kids is foreplay for cancer placements. Nothing more. I’m not saying they can’t or don’t want to settle down but I would take it with a grain of salt if you’re newly dating. This is their weird seduction techniques and the reason there’s so many cancer man threads. They get off on talking about your future.
Posted by pooface222Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Hi all, I want to make this as short as possible to avoid confusion so I’ll just start out with the question
Do Aries men usually keep coming back ?
I met an Aries man a year ago and things didn’t work out it was mainly inconsistency he would become reclusive and then I would walk away thinking he wasn’t interested and then he would message me asking me why I walked away and it would just become a cycle and We’ve never really lost contact since then we kinda drift apart and then back together
Recently He told me the reason he was reluctant before was because he was going to move away and he didn’t wanna start something serious with me and then have to leave me if I wasn’t interested in going with him or he would think I’m just better off without him
He said he needed to be honest with me and say he did not give it his all in the past and he is sorry for that
I told him let’s just give it time before we’re sure about each other and he told me he is all in because he isn’t planning on moving away anymore
This would all be great if he wasn’t so difficult to read
I cannot physically see him yet due to COVID 19 restrictions So it’s mainly texting, but he always seems so distant and it’s like I have to carry the conversation
He really isn’t a technology person so I guess that could be to blame for his bad texting
I’m just frustrated because I feel like he tells me he wants things to work out between us and he doesn’t want to be with anyone beside me
But then he doesn’t show it
Do Aries men typically act this way ? Like are they usually more open in person or what ?
I was married to an Aries man.
He was also very difficult to read. Very closed too. However he had a great sense of humour, very funny, and a lot of energy and drive and enthusiasm like a typical Aries Man.
However, I had to do ALOT of the communicating with him, and it was draining sometimes. If he had an issue with me he would go silent, and pretend he was fine.
He would sulk. Something I find irritating and childish!
I really had to work hard with him to find out what was wrong, otherwise I'd end up with an entire DAY (usually a Saturday), of Silent Treatment!!
So for you I think you're going to have to be patient with him and take your time getting to know him, then you may get used to him bring like that, and handle him how you feel is best.
What is your sign?click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03
Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by lilliverpoolsangelPosted by GemitatiPosted by lilliverpoolsangelPosted by ErineldaPosted by lilliverpoolsangelPosted by Erinelda
I don't see the part that has you confused? How much can he even know after two dates, let alone a bunch of strangers on the internet?
I completely get that.
The progression seems normal if that is what you are asking?
yeah that's what I was wondering just cause in my opinion it hasn't gone as "traditionally" as it would normally. I just was not expecting to meet his closest friends so soon
Gurl!!! It means he finds you good to introduce to your friends.
We are here more used to more sexual quicker but you have a traditional dating.
Keep on going and keep us posted!
Nothing wrong is going on. Keep your eyes open and ears as well. But don’t read too much into nothing. Ok?
hey guys, for those who are still following the thread there has been progression !!
he has since invited me out to a music competition that his friend was judging so I met more of his friends. one of his other friends also mentioned how they have been pushing him to meet me or to get him to ask me to join them when they are out. he also told him to keep "dragging" me along to thinks to which my Libra man responded "I plan on it" so that felt good. he also finally helped out with the body language thing as he did hold my hand throughout the evening and had his hand on my leg other wise.
there was an issue at the end of the night as he was arguing with his friend and it got tense so I left because I am a crab and I do not know how to handle conflict. I did apologise the next day and told him I would make it up too him for just leaving him alone, he then told me I can make it up to him by letting him cook a meal for me..
honestly feel like things are headed in the right direction now
He seems like a good man into you...
Keep updating us. Too many bad stories here. Hopefully yours will be a breath of fresh air...
Sorry to disappoint anyone who was rooting for this union but it was too good to be true
He stood me up twice and then kind of brushed it off and half apologised as if it didn’t matter
Walking away now before any of this gets worst literally can not afford to be hurt againclick to expand