Posted by sweetpea2977
You equate effort to kisses, hugs, the look in his eyes, chocolate and coffee? 🤔

Have YOU MADE IT CLEAR what you want and expect out of whatever this is called?

If not, then it shouldn't be surprising to you that he's sending "mixed signals."

It's your ROLE to seek clarity and to also be DIRECT so that confusion is kept at a minimum



Hey so I asked him and he said he never wanted to give me friends with Benefits vibes and Asked if he should propose now 😂
He said that he likes me and he isn’t speaking too or seeing anyone else

usually I wouldn’t put too much into it
But I know forehead kisses are usually a little more Intimate in my opinion than other kisses
So is this normal especially early on into dating
I’m trying to scope him out a bit

Thanks in advance

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by lilliverpoolsangel

Sun Aries 12°40'
Moon Scorpio 25°06'
Mercury Aries 28°50'
Venus Taurus 18°04'
Mars Gemini 29°56'
Jupiter Leo 3°34'
Saturn Aquarius 5°17'
Uranus Capricorn 13°43'
Neptune Capricorn 16°42'
Pluto Scorpio 19°57' R
Lilith Sagittarius 27°21'
Asc node Capricorn 24°57'


All of these should be accurate I did not enter a birth time though

Would be much appreciated
Many thanks

literally my ex´ planets
how do you know him?


We met a few weeks back and I’m just trying to get a better understanding of the type of person he might be

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Sun Aries 12°40'
Moon Scorpio 25°06'
Mercury Aries 28°50'
Venus Taurus 18°04'
Mars Gemini 29°56'
Jupiter Leo 3°34'
Saturn Aquarius 5°17'
Uranus Capricorn 13°43'
Neptune Capricorn 16°42'
Pluto Scorpio 19°57' R
Lilith Sagittarius 27°21'
Asc node Capricorn 24°57'


All of these should be accurate I did not enter a birth time though

Would be much appreciated
Many thanks

Apologies for the lack of puntuation I typed this out on my phone

I've been friends with a Taurus man for almost 2 years now when we started talking it seemed as if we had known each other for years after 5 months he asked me out on a date after the date he send me a msg asking if I understood why he didn't pursue a relationship then told me I was too young what would people think our age gap is quite big 7 years but I believe myself too be very mature I was hurt and we decided to be friends my feelings started to numb out after the months went by non of our personal relationships worked out but we always spoke everyday
Suddenly he told me about a msg he got from a friend that has visions saying that he was going to meet the girl he wants to be with really soon I laughed and said I was happy for him
But now all of a sudden his tone towards me has changed he's sweeter and when we hang out I catch him staring at me through the corner of my eye
He spoke about how he calls his guy friend "friend" and I laughed and said its funny that they're so formal with each other and then he said
"Atleast I don't call you friend so you know you're not friendzoned or anything"
I told him I was glad that I wasn't but he goes from acting like he really likes me back to being cold and friendly
I don't know if I should ignore this I'm afraid of investing feelings again

Any advice would be much appreciated
Blessed be -

He is Cold and he gets distant but he always replies and he does it in a way that the only reason he comes online is to reply to my messages
Im a cancer myself and I feel maybe im being too sensitive he still keeps the nicknames like angel or boo or anything it's not like he switches of completely I suppose I just can't understand how he can go from being super sweet to friendship
I waited for a goodnight msg and he woke up and sent me one at 1 am saying
"Haha sorry angel I passed out way too early hope you have amazing dreams keep warm and keep safe will talk tomorrow 😚 "

I met a cancer man and he seemed to really like me complimenting me all the time generally being really sweet he asked me out on a date and then told me his friend and girlfriend wanted to come with which I was okay with then he started acting really cold when we went on the date he was the perfect gentleman and gave me a peck on the lips once during and one before I went home
When I got home the coldness started again and it was the same the next day I decided to be honest with him and tell him how I feel that I had been hurt and I can't invest feelings if nothing's going to happen I told him that if he wants me to walk away all he has to do is say so now I also said that I know its early days but I don't want to continue on it its just going to be me getting hurt
He replied saying that it is early days and he understands investing feelings because he does it too he says he does see a future with me and he can't give me an actuall answer as it is too soon but he is ready to work toward it
I was okay with this but after sending me that he went cold again and started once again replying 3 hours apart

Any advice ?

Aries 17°36'
Moon Libra 26°34'
Mercury Pisces 19°56'
Venus Aries 8°16' R
Mars Cancer 20°54'
Jupiter Libra 8°47' R
Saturn Aquarius 27°12'
Uranus Capricorn 22°02'
Neptune Capricorn 21°06'
Pluto Scorpio 25°06' R
Lilith Pisces 19°17'
Asc node Sagittarius 13°59'

Pigeon hole?

Id be completely lost if it weren't for the feedback
I appreciate it

i appreciate the feedback

Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Cancer 12°44'
Moon Scorpio 17°13'
Mercury Leo 6°06'
Venus Gemini 12°23'
Mars Gemini 29°02'
Jupiter Pisces 27°48'
Saturn Taurus 2°10'
Uranus Aquarius 11°52' R
Neptune Aquarius 1°17' R
Pluto Sagittarius 5°46' R
Lilith Libra 22°34'
Asc node Virgo 2°27'

Planet Aspect Planet Orb Orb/Value
Sun Trine Mars 3°08' 68
Sun Opposition Jupiter 5°17' -87
Sun Conjunction Saturn 5°28' 80
Moon Trine Mercury 2°26' 154
Moon Square Jupiter 5°17' -22
Moon Trine Uranus 3°22' 90
Moon Trine Neptune 0°32' 133
Moon Opposition Pluto 5°41' -144
Mercury Conjunction Uranus 0°56' 399
Mercury Conjunction Neptune 2°58' 282
Venus Square Pluto 3°53' -42
Mars Trine Saturn 2°20' 106
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 3°54' 122
1434 -295 1139

Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Aquarius 3°55'
Moon Taurus 14°28'
Mercury Capricorn 12°03'
Venus Aquarius 24°03'
Mars Gemini 0°47'
Jupiter Leo 9°11' R
Saturn Capricorn 28°26'
Uranus Capricorn 11°06'
Neptune Capricorn 15°00'
Pluto Scorpio 20°09'
Lilith Sagittarius 19°43'
Asc node Capricorn 28°10'

dont i have to find out what time he was born to check his chart ?
all i know is he's birthdate on the 24 of jan which doesnt tell me much

i've met an aquarius man but he's not cold towards me actually the complete opposite he invited me out to coffee he joked around alot and then touched my hand while laughing he then asked me why my hand was so cold and proceeded to hold it to warm it up later on i asked him to play thumb wars and i was looking down at our thumbs but i glanced up and he was just staring at me
he gave me a huge bear hug almost lifted me off my feet and then proceeded to give me too long hugs when the night was over he sends me goodmorning texts every morning and texts me everyday and when we dont chat he says he missed chatting to me he compliments me and says im and i quote "too fine for life" and says i make him laugh and he thinks its amazing

i've only read articles where people say that if an aquarius man is interested he becomes really cold ?
is this true is it always like that or are there exceptions ?

i've met an aquarius man but he's not cold towards me actually the complete opposite he invited me out to coffee he joked around alot and then touched my hand while laughing he then asked me why my hand was so cold and proceeded to hold it to warm it up later on i asked him to play thumb wars and i was looking down at our thumbs but i glanced up and he was just staring at me
he gave me a huge bear hug almost lifted me off my feet and then proceeded to give me too long hugs when the night was over he sends me goodmorning texts every morning and texts me everyday and when we dont chat he says he missed chatting to me he compliments me and says im and i quote "too fine for life" and says i make him laugh and he thinks its amazing

i've only read articles where people say that if an aquarius man is interested he becomes really cold ?
is this true is it always like that or are there exceptions ?

im very concerned about a taurus man that i really admire well when we started speaking we hit it off really well we live in different cities and so we we're just texting after 3 days of texting me non stop he sends me a message saying that he has a girlfriend and he really likes me and wants to meet me but he didnt want me to find out about his girlfriend and hate him ...i laughed it off and acted like it was okay he then proceeded to tell me that im still not allowed to put him in the "friend zone" then the next day he was texting me non stop again ...but then all of a sudden he's replies are like hours apart but he still replies no matter what so no ignoring me ...and he sometimes explains why he couldnt chat but he stopped flirting too,,,and then all of a sudden he'll flirt with me ....but hes just always hot or cold with his texts and behavior i know his busy most of the time and cant reply right away but then yesterday i figured that he'd lost interest in me and wanted to get over it till i got a call from his cousin asking me who i am their saying "(his name) has only got good things to say about you so i called because i wanted to know what was going down between you two" so i said friends ..good friends and then we went on about how you can have different kinds of friends and things ....and then when i asked him he said he was speaking to his cousin earlier and didnt know what they did or how they got my number he would never be so childish he then started with his 2 hour inbetween texts and when i told him i'd speak to him some other time if he was busy he said
"nooo" and when i spoke about how i always reply in paragraphs hes like "but i like your paragraphs" im so confused ...i want to understand i know its long but please help me