Posted by GODZ
treetrunk him, your story with the cap is more entertaining
Posted by GobbyPosted by lilyofthevalley
Hey Scorpios or anyone with experience. So a Scorpio man and I (a Libra) have a blooming friendship mostly made of intellectual discussion and small talk. We went out on a date once and true to form, talked until we bored each other to tears (at least I was bored, can’t say anything about him!). Yes, it can be a bit dry sometimes. But there’s a part of me that looks forward to his regular messages and occasional calls.
Recently, however, he’s been sending me songs. They’re always love songs. Not sexy songs but these jazzy love songs saying things like, “Silence in my heart and my poor bones are tired, I was lost in the crowd, I was a fool before I met you. But my heart started and I never want to stop again..” “The way I want to love you could be against the law, come dance with me in my world of fantasy...” etc.
So my question is, do Scorpio men just do this in general with women to flirt in a not-serious way? Do you think these love songs mean anything? Thanks!
You've already stated that you're not interested.
All you're interested in is the attention... and, quite possibly, the potential accompanying drama...click to expand
Posted by peachy06Posted by Som
Scorpios are very romantic.
The men perhaps, not women.click to expand
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by KimboSlice
Crazy ass Truman and his Scorpio moon
This man took one look at Hiroshima and said “another one”
Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
All those dark, brooding, monosyllabic types, who fill the pages of cheap romantic novels with their strong jaws and piercing eyes, are Scorpios. You know the story: boy meets girl. Boy tortures girl because of a series of very silly misunderstandings and because he enjoys it. Girl becomes a psychological wreck. Boy sweeps girl into his arms and mumbles something about undying love. (He has to sweep her into his arms because by this stage the poor woman has completely fallen apart.). This is where the book ends. There is a very good reason for this. Mills & Boon know what is to come is far too awful to be published. Yet, this paperback ideal of love still manages to override the common sense of most women. We find the strong, silent, manipulative type irresistible. And we sit prettily on our hope chests with our long auburn curls in charming disarray, waiting breathlessly with much fluttering of eyelashes for Scorpio to stride into our lives. (NB: Romantic heroes never walk, they always stride – manfully and purposefully. Its dreadfully tiring for them, and its one of the reasons why they are so moody and irritable.) And once a Scorpio bastard arrives? Well, there’s nothing like a spot of good-old-fashioned-bodice-ripping to get things started. Just swoon gracefully into his arms and let him have his wicked way with you. Then have your head examined.
The strong, silent type is what you should look for when purchasing white goods. Whilst these are desirable attributes in a washing machine, you won’t enjoy them in Scorpio. He is strong. Much stronger than you. Which means when there’s a fight, you’ll lose. And he is silent. Which means communication within the relationship is going to be a little one-sided. Holding back information is actually one of his favourite pastimes. Mostly because it upsets you. Well, what did you expect? Anyone described as “dark” and “brooding” is not going to be a naturally open, caring, sharing person. And Scorpio has a dark side that makes Darth Vader look like Mr. Whippy. As for brooding ability, he leaves Heathcliffe out on the moors: he’ll hold a grudge against you until the day you die. And your death will only appease him a little. However, you’ll never even know he has a grudge against you. A Scorpio bastard won’t confront you openly. That would be too much like fair play. He’s more likely to watch and wait – decades if necessary – for the chance to launch an attack when you’re not paying attention. And when it finally hits, it’ll make a stealth bomber look weak and clumsy.
Unfortunately, because of the amount of literature (if books featuring Fabio on the cover, count as literature) you’ve absorbed, you’ll class all his behavior as normal. You’ll revel in all the angst. Being miserable all the time must mean it’s true love. This is all so romantic. You’ll even be flattered by his possessiveness (despite the fact that you’re not allowed to go anywhere of see anyone). It means he can’t bear to be without you. Of course, he can’t bear to be with you either – not when there are still so many things wrong with you.
He’ll manipulate you until you become exactly what he wants you to be. Then he’ll lose respect for you, as you’re so easily manipulated. Then he’ll start looking around for someone else to manipulate. This is when you start looking around too. For reputable psychiatric help. Because, in the midst of torturing you, Scorpio will suddenly turn into a model of gentleness and consideration. He’ll even be kind to animals (standard behavior for all romantic hero types – designed to suck you into believing they have a soft, sensitive side). Don’t be fooled. Its just part if the callous game he’s playing with your mental and emotional health. His objective is to annihilate you. But if he can make you believe he is capable of such an act, it makes it all so much more fun when he actually does destroy you.
And destroy you he will. This is what Scorpio does best. And besides, its how he likes to spend his spare time. Once you are a broken mess on the floor he’ll pick you up and glue the pieces, so you are whole once more, and he can start all over again. He takes his hobby very seriously. It brings him hours of enjoyment and allows him to explore his destructive talents. And you’ll get something out of it too. A hobby of your own: a lifelong obsession with him. Which allows you to spend your spare time in expensive 12-step programs undergoing extensive counselling. Check into group therapy when you find yourself getting upset just because he is sleeping with other women. It’s really none of your business. You are only his girlfriend / wife / mother of his children. And anyway, you’ll meet his mistress soon enough when she joins the group after she discovers he is doing the same thing to her. Then you can console each other about your mutual stupidity. You’ll both be introduced to a nationwide Unhealthily Obsessed Co-dependant Support Network for Women who have dated Scorpio. It comes with a 24-hour hotline, which you’ll put to very good use. (This is a free-of-charge service, one of many sponsored by the Aspiring Romantic Novelists Association who use it for research purposes.)
The reason Scorpio inspires such obsessive behavior is because he is so obsessive himself – about sex. He thinks about it twice as much as other men, which basically means it’s on his mind all the time. Which makes him the blueprint for the complete and utter bastard. Which in turn, makes women think he’s sexy. Which therefore means he really can’t help but catch one or two of the airborne little-black-dress-clad oestrogen packages continually heading his way. (Warning: Don’t be tempted to have an affair yourself to get back at your Scorpio bastard. Right now, you’re in no emotional state to witness a jealous streak the size of the San Andreas Fault. This is probably unnecessary advice, as you won’t have time between those ever-increasing therapy sessions and that compulsive shopping habit you recently developed. And, lets face it, the nervous twitch and chronic alcoholism aren’t exactly going to be attracting men in droves.)
If it helps your sanity, blame the other poor, obsessed women. Or their therapists. Or the government. Or, better yet, blame yourself. No one forced you to read all those ridiculous love stories. You wanted a club-wielding, hair-dragging, heroic bastard. You’ve got him. Now you have to live with him. So, just throw yourself into his arms or under the next passing truck. Either way, the ending will be the same.
HOW TO SPOT ONE
When a Scorpio bastard looks at you, you will feel a strong urge to shed your underwear. He will have this baffling effect upon you, even if you’re in a very public place and you find him most unattractive.
WHERE TO FIND ONE
Follow the trail of emotional wrecks to his door. Or, better still, let him find you. Because then, at least, you won’t be the one who started the relationship which ruined your life.
HOW TO INTRIGUE ONE
Be sunny and happy and full of life. He won’t be able to resist the challenge of luring you into the pits of hell. Once there, just be whatever he wants you to be. Holding onto your personality will only cause you a lot of unnecessary pain.
THE FIRST DATE
Scorpio will charm you into submission. Or else he’ll worm his way into your life and affections without you noticing – like cancer or some other terminal disease. And after just one date, he’ll know everything there is to know about you, and you’ll know absolutely nothing about him. This sets the tone for the entire relationship.
WHEN TO DO THE DEED
Because Scorpio has so many hidden agendas, you’ll never be able to pick the right time. So go to bed when he wants to, generally just after you’ve been introduced. (Tip: When you do it, make like a porn star, but somehow give the impression you’ve never done it before.)
WHEN TO POP THE QUESTION
When you feel the inclination to do this, have yourself committed.
IF HE DROPS YOU
Trying to exact revenge will only serve to amuse Scorpio, as your attempts will seem so amateur. Besides, he’ll be flattered he still has total control over your emotions and your life. On the other hand, running after him, doing your best impersonation of a doormat will only invite him to clean his boots on you. Don’t waste your energy. You’ll need it over the next few years, just to get through therapy.
IF YOU DROP HIM
He’ll get over it. If, however, he thinks you’ve slighted him, its best to watch out for yourself and take extra precautions for the next ten or 20 years – at least.
Posted by Mamita91Posted by peachy06
You challenged him and told him you couldn't trust him so don't be surprised that he left.
Idk if u read the comments but he kept asking me and when I suggested several dates he turned me down, then said he wanted me to go but it was more of an expression and he wouldn't be able to see me this time.click to expand
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by LikeABOSSPosted by thatlibralifePosted by LikeABOSSPosted by thatlibralife
I would never tell the one I’m in truly love with that it’s just a friendship love. You are a “fill in” until she meets “the one”. Something about you in her mind believes you’re not it. I have to say I’ve dated one Virgo and chatted with a Virgo suitor in my time and what I didn’t like was the aloofness. I never knew if they really liked me or not. I couldn’t “feel” it. With my Scorp there is no doubt. I know it without words.
If you want her, bring your “real” self to the table. Maybe she’ll change her mind.
P. S. I loooovvveee attention from my guy in all forms. I’m not getting from what you wrote a whole lot of attention vibes. This is a mistake....I wonder if that’s my leo moon though....hmmmmm...
Are you sure?? She's talking marriage, made me move in with her, introduced me to all her family and friends. Do Libras typically do that with "fill ins"??
Well heck you didn’t mention all that lol...How is she talking marriage but is not in love with you? Something’s missing here in your story...Did you guys break up at some point, see other people then get back together? Why are you giving her love in dribs and drabs like its a reward for being good?
You’re holding back something about this story as it doesn’t make sense...
Now that's a Libran response...lol. Back in the day in high school she had a crush on me so much so that she literally first sent a guy to tell me she likes me. I hadn't any clue who she was, so she boldly came up to me and introduced herself. We talked for a little but I had been going through a lot that year and I ghosted her. I just wasn't at an age in my life where I thought I could believe in people. Perhaps that's a typical Virgo thing, but instead of trusting in her I just walked away. We didn't separate on bad terms. But she holds it against me to this very hour. She had been Libra single for the past 6 years..😂 And then our paths crossed again. We hit it off immediately and she was talking seriously with someone else at the time. Well I couldn't fight what I felt for her. She stayed in the back of my mind forever. I would be in a relationship and when things would be less than perfect, I would close my eyes and see her face. I think I manifested her back into my life. Who knows, but yeah.. I came here to get an answer or at least a better understanding of her inner thoughts. Is she in love with playing hard ball??
“I would close my eyes and see her face”. I bet you never told her that. She’s holding back because you are. We mirror very well.
Words mean a lot to me. I never forget loving words or heartfelt sayings whether verbally or written. My boyfriend has given me cards which I treasure, told me how great he thinks I am in text or actual conversation. This is confirmation that he loves me and makes me want to reciprocate.
I think she needs to hear from you more on how much you love her. If you two are living together and talking marriage there’s deep love on Libra’s part. Maybe she’s making you pay for a perceived lack of interest on your part and still hurt behind the past ghosting...click to expand
Posted by LittleStar_IIPosted by lilyofthevalleyPosted by LittleStar_II
It’s not so much that you have to be high levels of all three but that you are on compatible levels of it.
Yes. I think semi-high to very high is a good goal in the first few years. And after that, it should still stay above average.
Nah. You should match each other’s energyclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune
I'd argue that the way you argue and approach and resolve/compromise over disagreements will tell you more about whether your in the right relationship.
Also your long term goals need to align.
You can have a 10/10 on the emotional, intellectual, and physical level. But if they are... for example... highly religious and you are not, or if they don't want kids and you do... etc etc... long term just isn't going to work out.
Posted by LittleStar_II
It’s not so much that you have to be high levels of all three but that you are on compatible levels of it.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by lilyofthevalley
I’m talking with this guy who’s a Cap Sun, Scorpio Mars, Aqua Venus and Taurus Moon.
He’s got me on edge. We’ll talk for hours about intellectual things (and we get along really well in this regard) but he’s starting to go really heavy on the blunt flirting and sexual talk. The longer he knows me, the more it happens. We’re still talking intellectually, but now it’s always ending with sex talk, no matter if I try to discourage him..
I want to know, what does it mean? Should I be concerned about his intentions for me? Or is this normal Scorp Mars behavior after the intellectual door has been opened and he feels comfortable?
By the way I’m Libra sun, Virgo Venus, Aries Mars and Cap moon
As a scorp mars, the mars is a very small part of the zodiac picture. I would think more about his venus, there's probably truth in the venus being the man's idealised woman. Is he into quirky girls? Or save the planet idealists?
It sounds like you have the brakes on. Maybe for a justified reason.
I don't do sex talk unless I comfortable with someone. The way the mars could manifest itself during sex is about pushing boundaries. Maybe he is gauging your comfort level. Personally I wouldn't want to be with someone who was on a different level sexually.click to expand
Posted by DMV
That would depend on your level of comfort.
Are you okay with the conversations?
If you are....proceed
If not...speak up