Posted by Ariangirl
I have been reading about this: when Virgo men are in love, they push you away. I don't get the logic behind this.
My Virgo guy was like that when he first admitted he loved me. He just ran away!!! And I had to do the searching and chasing.
Also, why are you hot and suddenly cold and so distant?
I don't find it logical that thing..isn't it, when you love someone, you try your best to be with the person and not push her away?
Posted by sand
immature virgo= gives criticisms
mature virgo= takes it
Posted by ninjamu
You probably care too much about what your friends think. If they judge or reject you it would be a lot more painful than some random person. I know exactly where you're coming from. I am a performer and I feel much more comfortable in front of an audience full of strangers.
Posted by RomancingA
Just let her know you want her....that you are into her, that you wanna hear from her when she finds the time. Give her space...but don't drag it out in any kind of dramatic fashion that you want her to know you are giving her space lol...like don't make it a big deal...just let her do her thing.
One mistake people seem to make with Virgo people is that they are constantly questioning each and every single move...they are not aliens, just very calculated people. They are not that complicated....they like good food, relaxation, sex, snuggles, laughing, someone that makes them relax and also tons of time to think and be nerds.
Posted by LoveSeeker
I need help with this virgo girl because i'm still wishing that we can stay together and if i have her i will feel that i'm the happiest man ever!!!! Because she was very lovely,kind,caring,supporting and gave me moral support!! and because of her i was saved from a big fail...well I'm still grateful and i really love her badly that i see her picture daily in my mind
But suddenly she started ignoring for a long times and that made me upsets a lot so i sent her a message telling her i dont want to be her friends anymoreee (because i was too hurt and couldnt take it anymore) she replyed to me late at night telling me all the happiness and sucess but nothing else i felt that she didnt care about me anymore...Now 4 month have passed and i miss her badly :/ I need some helps to get her back and some explanation to changes in her mood
...thankx in advance
Your sad fish.
Posted by Chachacha
Through my experience with virgos it scares me how quickly some become interested. I don't want to hurt them because they can be so dreamy I would just conquer them. I remember being with a virgo or too they tend to move as fast as me in physical gestures like holding hands and acting like a couple before we even establish a strong connections. Now i'll be thinking far into the future like them about marriage and all that but doesn't mean i go and say it so early. Ive heard marriages from virgos within the first week or 2. It's so easy to fall into their trap im scared of hurting them. How come their so emotionally attached quicker than me? or is it just all talks?
Posted by zosopage17
Lindavi - I personally wasn't offended by what you said, my shell is back up and stuff just bounces off. I can, however, see how it could have been offensive, and I think serves as a prime example for how crabs get hurt. A lot of times people either don't care, or don't realize they've said something hurtful. Crabs notice it every time - nothing slips by us in the ways of emotional manipulation.
See, this is what I like about you guys. Honesty. Very good points... and I agree.. cheers! Though my words may have sounded critical, I genuinely didn't mean to hurt or offended, but I did. I have a lot of respect for a crabs ability to feel and express so much. I have my own shell that is good to come out of, learn and grow. We live, we learn.
Now I'm going to drink a cold brew, just not while I'm commenting on dxp. lol
Posted by Crabmoon
All of us can be markes at some point, it is human nature. We can try to avoid it most of the time, but come on, we all get out of the line sometimes.
Posted by shellshockerPosted by ZenBearPosted by shellshockerPosted by lindavi20
wOw.. is this ever a virgo thing to say...
My Cancer version..
Wow.. are you really this flippant and obtuse right now? I'm a Cancer... and your comment sure lacks emotion. Ouch! love you guys, but I have to remember that Virgos say stupid stuff all the time. you just have to learn to ignore. Analyze all i have written, and figure out what I'm trying to say to you. Think hard, I know it's there.
The Cancers will let you know when the happy lovey side comes back... so you can be more comfortable with them
@lindavi20: We get angry, and we need to vent it. Don't take the "cold virgo world" comment personally, it's just irrational emotions talking not anything genuine or serious.
@shellshocker: I get you're angry but don't take it out on lindavi20. She was actually trying to cheer yall cookiemonsteres up, and you smacked her in the face. Don't be immature.
@OP: I know what you mean about the "nice guy" syndrome and all that BS. I hate it too. Not in a bad enough mood right now to yell and scream and cuss about it, but I get there often enough and I may come back to this thread at a later date to do just that.
@ZenBear... I'm not angry at all. I thought I would re-word her comment so she could see how her words could also be viewed as a smack in the face. Hers were unconscious... mine were conscious
and seriously little man.. stop telling me what to do, say or how to say it. You are not wearing a badge... that butter must be earned
I do apologize. I was not trying to be hateful and I meant no offense. Have whatever opinion of a virgo you want. As for my post, I was more noticing a shift in behavior in cancer threads lately in general. I'm not uncomfortable with the negativity, just trying to bring a little lightness and cheer into the room. I hate seeing people sad or unhappy. Realize that not everyone is out to get you.
"flippant and obtruse", huh? lol.. Have to say I've never been called that one before. I realize I did sound a little like a space cadet..guess that's what happens when you mix wine and dxp.
Zen- You knowclick to expand
Posted by tickledpink11
So I dated a cancer man off and on for two years, we cut contact fir the padt year due to work & school schedules. In the padt 2 mos he has initiated contact and I have avoided him. I am still in love with him and just dont know if I want to open a can of worms. I fi nally agreed to see him and ut was as if no time had passed. The comfort level as if we never lost touch. I contemplated not sleeping with him, but am grown and decided to because its what I wanted, the timing perfect. We waited 6 mos the first time around. He held me all nite, a real cuddler.
Its been 3 days and nothing, should I have waited as if starting all over with him? What do cancer men think? Confused and curious.
Im a virgo btw
Posted by zosopage17
Yeah - it is fire sign-esque. It's just that I think she envies the kind of household she was brought up in, and feels a lot of pressure or desire to have that "perfect" life her parents have. She knows I have two children, and I mean - it hasn't seemed to bother her, IDK. I've never in my life met a girl like this - I can always tell instantly (I'm a cancer and extremely intuitive) if a girl is into me or not - but this one just throws that whole game out the window. I want to let her know that I like her - because I see a lot of potential in who she is as a person, and who I am as a person. I am just so nervous of getting the whole "Oh, we're just friends" and then we never talk again situation. I have learned women want to have their own sense of freedom and kinda like to have the reigns when it comes to which guy they decide is "worthy" enough. Is this something I tell her in person? Over the phone? I'm big on eye to eye contact, because it can reveal truth or lies instantly. I know that they hide their emotions, but on our first get together I saw it in her. We were talking about music, and I showed her a song that I wrote - I'm a creative person and have a LOT of soul in my music - it's how I express the passion inside of me, when words won't do it. I saw a tear from her. It was..special. . I'm bad about blowing up phones cause i just like to talk - I'm a socially inclined person and can have eloquent conversations with just about anybody. I don't want to scare her off ... that's my number one thing.
From a broken crab, much love to you all