Thank you all so much, I needed to hear this! However, I confronted him for the last time on the same day I wrote into this website and he finally confessed. My intuition was 100% right, all the things I thought were lies are actually lies... He explained his situation and that he's different now.. blah blah ..begging me to stay
I know your can call me foolish but seriously when I love, i love deeply that's why it wasn't easy for me from the 1st place.
Ever since we were dating he use to say he has "this thing" or talk about some friends etc. But I never really saw any of the things he use to talk about. I was very honest with him and as things got serious I introduced him to my family and friends. He knew every detail of my life. While I knew very little about him. He didn't introduce me to anyone from his side nor show me all the things he said he have done or own. Honestly I didn't realise he's lying until in one of the arguments we had he said " I'm not all I told you I'm " and when we broke up I finally saw the bigger picture, with no emotions attached. I obviously began to doubt everything he told me, because his stories are unrealistic and seems to me like a gas lighting tools.
Yes you're right, he seems miserable to me . It's almost like he enjoys playing the "helpless" role and I'm a helper by nature so I can't not help him get on his feet. The most irritating thing is all of this, is his big lies. For example he told me he worked with Russian mafia and he have been in the woods for months living in harmony with dangerous animals.. and once he made 8 million dollars from trading..etc He described these stories with details and actually play them so well that you can not believe him. Being with him always gets me confused, while with other men I'm more certain and in control. I seriously don't know what to do about him! Should I walk away once and for all ( believing my intuition) or continue with him to see where this goes.