Posted by L-E-N-OPosted by ellesbellesPosted by L-E-N-O
So just thought I would ask, how do cappy men feel when being ignored through text or in public ? I broke up with my ex a few weeks ago and told him we aren't suited for each other but last weekend I ran into him and he tried to come my way and said hello but I just ignored him, he has also tried to text me but I have not responded... how do you guys react to being ignored ? Or doesn't it bother you ?
I'm curious....why do you care?
If you cut ties...you cut ties. You shouldn't be concerned about his reaction or lack of.
Are you doing this to get a reaction?
Not being snarky.
You are right I shouldn't care, I guess I just though he would react the same way I did and just leave me alone.... I wasn't expecting him to speak to me again so when he did and I ignored him I felt bad like maybe I should have just said something but it's exhausting going back and forth with him the whole time which is why I cut ties completely.... I don't want him to think I'm a rude b#### or that I'm heartless which is why I was asking how cappy men would feel being ignored... hopefully he didn't care and let it go... make sense ??click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GobbyPosted by LadyNeptune
Wow, rude much?! He was being polite, relax.
Another example of someone reading far too much into a situation, while assigning an almost universal reaction to a sun sign they obviously know very little about...
Sounds like shes hoping for a reaction. She doesnt want him anymore but she does want him to be grieving and hung up on her to feed her ego. So childish!click to expand
Posted by GobbyPosted by DiannaPosted by GobbyPosted by DiannaPosted by GobbyPosted by Dianna
In my experience, he is probably out of his mind right now. Caps hate to lose and you ignoring him means that you won the breakup game. If you were clingy or emotional at seeing him, he would be walking around in his glory.
Rubbish. Everyone has pride, to a certain degree.
Your post makes it sound like men of the other 11 signs would react differently, which we know is completely untrue...
The question wasn't about the other 11 signs, it was about Caps.
Are you going to tell me that Cap man aren't competitive?
You're touching on qualities that could easily apply to most of the other 11 signs. That shows how little you really know about Caps or are willing to learn about them.
Competitiveness... Leo? Aries? Scorpio? Virgo? Taurus? These (and other signs) can be just as competitive. The differences are in the nuances, which you've woefully failed to acknowledge.
Maybe try and be more specific, next time. But, then again, without relevant experience and insight, that's going to be somewhat of a challenge...
Its 9am on a Sunday. I cant even pretend to care enough about the topic to argue.
You are feigning outrage over a very noncontroversial post. Drama much?
I choose not to engage with a stranger on the internet over an issue that I give zero treetrunks about.
Maybe you should spend your Sunday at church. Jesus may help with those anger issues.
And I have plenty of experience with Caps. Married one, two cap sons, cap close friends.
Why don't you stick your projecting tactics where the sun doesn't shine...
You've proven, over the years, that you're a bona fide drama queen, so don't even try projecting your issues onto me.
At least when I comment on Scorpios, my opinions are based on personal experiences with at least eight of them. What are your Cap viewpoints based on? One... maybe two Caps (one of which is probably an ex)? How very logical and rational of you.
I have no problem with dxpers butterting on Caps. There are many Caps I've met that I am highly critical of as well. But when someone starts speaking butter, because they obviously don't know what they're talking about...
Jesus? Church? Most people of the faith are nothing more than hypocritical scum. Thanks but no thanks...
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Posted by FishyDude
A few of you have mentioned that Cap women are selective, and quality over quantity. My wife is a Cap, she married me, so that must say something, right?
She's not a gold digger, as far as I know, even though before we met, she had on her dating profile (yep, we met on a dating site) that she was looking for a man who's 'average to wealthy'. So I thought I would take a chance with her. I'm not wealthy, I'm doing okay but I'm not rich, and I'm more independent than my wife, and I'm the bread winner in the family, although she does contribute a percentage of her salary to household things and towards our daughter.
She can be fooking cold at times, to the point where I wonder why she married me and to the point where I wonder why I married her. I work for my families company, and I will be the next in line to run the family business, and she knows that, and sometimes I wonder if she's still with me because of that. As I said earlier, as far as I know she's not a gold digger, but sometimes I think about the things I've read about Cap women being gold diggers - and as I've mentioned, she can be cold, ie: not very loving at times. So, why did she marry me and why is she still with me? C'mon Caps, can you shed some light on the subject?
Posted by Andalusia
Are they sure it was suicide? I know they said apparent suicide, but in this instance, something just doesn't add up to me...
Posted by Parkourler
I gotta rant here:
So you guys are fearful when it comes to vulnerability. No offense, but you are covering. You gotta take a risk.
You cannot be super aloof, difficult and dressed like Marlene Dietrich and not get some kind of negative reaction.
Why do woman expect us to handle their defense mechanisms, their cookiemonsteriness etc and get through that bs to your true self?
Why are there so many (seemingly or actual) masculine cap woman, who secretly yearn to be outmanned and make feel like a womanß
Why dont you gals face your fears? Vulnerability makes people likeable and relatable. Its not that dangerous.
The older I get, the less Patience I have for that kind of crap. Life doesnt have to be difficult. We all
want to love and get loved. What about being nice and playful?
Posted by FishyDude
I don't know about poison, but maybe cold and at times, evil.
Posted by GemLover
Sorry I don't agree to the op. I think water signs tend to age the worst. And if you doubt me, just take a look at bill Cosby for example.
Posted by besarlalluvia
oh and please wake up lolol he came back to you because everyone else left his ass and you must be the only one he knows that’s hooked on him. don’t be the last resort. respect yourself.