Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Does he have a Gemini moon too?
Aries venus...first warning flag.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
6 months is like 6 mins in the eyes of a Taurus, OP. I suggest you get to know him and build a solid friendship first...
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by LolaRed
But why did he say "you aren't going to fall in love with me, right?" ?
Also last night when we went for dinner, he pretended like we didn't even have the convo about Paris. When I asked him directly, "was he serious when he mentioned us going to Paris" he said "not really, but I should be" before going to the restroom. and that was it. After that I was really confused and a bit hurt. When he came back he started saying that he's going away for the summer with his kids (it's something that they do every year) and he hasn't decided where they should go. So I'm speaking with him about that and tell him about my plans to go to Vancouver for the summer (which until now he didn't know anything about) so he asks how long I'll be gone and I tell him June- August. Then he tells me I'll have a great time and that I should "go to Vancouver and STAY in Vancouver"! It seemed like he was a little upset about me leaving. I just laughed his comment off and said "I can't stay in Vancouver" and he asks me why. I tell him "for starters my whole life is here". We finished a great dinner and went back to his house to drink wine. We talked for hours about everything until we were both exhausted. He wanted me to stay the night, but I had to get home so I left. Oh, and he also told me that I should start bringing comfortable clothes to his house so that I can get comfortable while I'm there.
I'm trying to gauge his level of seriousness about me. Because one minute he seems like he wants to no with me and then the next he's telling me I should stay in Vancouver!
How long have you known this Taurus?click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by LolaRed
While there's been a lot of push and pull during the first six months of this "relationship"... I think my Taurus may be coming around.
I spent the last few days kind of blowing him off a bit and genuinely throwing in the towel i get random messages from him asking where I am, what im doing, who am I with... Sometimes I'd tell him sometimes I'd be pretty vague.
So the.last night he messaged asking if I'm free to call. I was busy so I told him I'll call him when I get done in about an hour. So we talk on the phone for almost an hour...our phone conversations never seem to be able to last under 40 mins. While talking I tell him about a business idea I have and he loves the idea. He tells me to write up the business plan and he'll fund it. (He has the ability to easily do so). Then he reminds me that his bday is coming up in two weeks so I ask him what he's doing. He tells me he has nothing planned so I ask if I can do something for his bday. He says sure! Then says me, you, and Paris sounds perfect for my birthday. Will you come with me? I try to contain the excitement in my voice as we talk about minor details. But by the end i get control it and let all of my excitement show and then he gets really excited about how excited I am. But then he says while laughing, "but you're not going to fall in love with me in Paris, right". Then he tells me we should discuss the details over dinner on Friday and that I should pick any restaurant that I want to go to...
Is this a sign that he's coming around? And possibly over the age difference?Thus far, he has not shown much generosity. Outside of taking me to nice dinners or ordering in expensive meals (which is what he would've ate whether I was there or not) he hasn't spent any money on or given me any gifts. So do you think he's coming around and finally falling for me?
Are you interested in because of his money and what "gifts" you can get out of him?click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by LolaRed
I have an update for those who have followed my last thread "Taurus Guy Asked Me If I Love Him....What does this all mean?
For those who haven't here's a quick recap. Long story short...dates a much older Taurus for four months towards the end of 2016. Things appeared to be getting serious but he would increasingly mention how he's too old for me. Then he finally tells me he loves me thru a text. And then adds "that's why I know I'm too old for you". He started to back away i ask him about it and he tells me he's trying to do what's best for me. I take it as he's just not interested so I walk away.
Here's the New part:
After a month of no calls or texts between us, I realize that I really do miss him and that there was a true connection we share. Figuring it'd be a shame for that to go to waste, i put a hook out thereby sending a text that said "hey". He called me 5 mins later and first thing he says is "is that a hey like how are you or a hey! treetrunk you?" I tell him it's a friendly hey how are you. So we end up chatting for forty minutes. We make plans to see eachother that weekend. When we see eachother we pick up right where we left off we spent the whole day together and had the best time. He made it really romantic by taking me to a nice restaurant, we go back to his house and share a great bottle of wine he has the music and fireplace going. It's all very romantic. We end up sleeping together. And the next day he sends me a text saying "This was the best Sunday I've had in a really long time. Thank you". We've continued to talk and now speak on the phone daily vs texting. We got together last night and watched movies and again he ordered in fine dining and opened a great bottle of wine. It was all very romantic. We didn't sleep together and he told me he thinks the night was even better because we didn't have sex. This afternoon he texted me saying he had a lovely time with me. He called tonight and wanted to know if I'm free. But I wasn't.
The lessons i think I've learned is that I may have been too quick to judge his intentions and that I may have worked myself up over small things. His concern about my age was bothersome to me but I think if o just give him to to get used to the idea he'll come around.
What do you guys think? He has mentioned the age thing a couple of times. But I usually just ignore that he even said it. Sometimes I'll address it, but make light of it like "we're just enjoying our time together, right?!" Is this an effective strategy with Taurus men who have some sor t of reservation about a relationship with you?
He sounds like a really lovely guy. A little like my Taurus fella. He's 45, I'm 37. I think you're getting hung up about the age thing. I don't think he has an issue with age despite what he was saying before but I think he's just concerned if you do and that's how he's bringing it up.
How old are you both?
Age can be a factor just like anything else between two people but it's how you deal with it, where you are in your life, what you're looking for etc that matter too. If you're, for example, 20 and still in education but he's 35 and looking to get married and have kids then it's not a match no matter how much you force it.click to expand
Posted by TaurusVenusGirl
If he loves you like he says he does, you would know.
You wouldn't be on here asking us if he loves you. How do we know? If he loved you, the first time he should be saying it, is while looking into your eyes. Eyes never lie, text message on the other hand.. well... we all know how electronic communication gets so misconstrued.
Actions speak louder than words ANY day!
But if it helps you, then NO he doesn't love you at all, EVER!
Posted by LibrajeanPosted by LolaRed
Thanks everyone for your cyber support. Last night he rushed me off the phone, never followed up with a call or a text. This morning at 6am I get a call from him- it rings twice but then hangs up. A butt dial I'm guessing because I haven't heard from him all day. So I've concluded that he's shown himself to be a huge dick or a huge coward... I don't want to be with either of those. He's shown himself for who he is and guess is really not the man that I thought he was. Oh well, glad to have learned that now rather than 6-12 months down the road. Men like this are ridiculous...I'm too young to have his heart, but not to young for him to have my body. Dude, treetrunk you.
Just read the latest post. He butt dialed at 6am that makes him a coward?click to expand
Posted by HamburgersPosted by LolaRedPosted by Gemoodeye2
They keep trying to come back. Persistent little treetrunkers. Mine even said "I'm tired, I'm DONE". Then the second I said ok and disappeared I started getting the "I miss you" and "I'm sorry" texts. Spent two days convincing me it could still work.
Soooo funny lol. They ALWAYS come back and at that point they might as well be dead to me ...shrug
If a Libra feels like they are dead to you, we just move to one of the seven other fine women waiting in the wings.. No big deal. AT ALL!click to expand