Posted by sunshine222
Aries female here
Yes contact him, but try to call if you can..avoid Facebook.
I would keep it light and ask what he's been up to.
And I agree with you this generation does take everything the wrong way...not sure how old you are, but dating used to be different...we just went with it..none of this "don't contact" or "don't stalk", (that's the one that gets me, the stalking thing!) If you stop into to visit someone you have in interest in, its now perceived as "stalking" or if you kiss, they say oh my God he justs wants sex!", or you're a booty call..riduculous. Or if he calls you late you're a booty call...my old boyfriend always called me late to talk I never considered it a "booty call" I think it means if he wants to come over late after the bar closes, and thats different..it's gotten too casual in some ways. And social media ruined it for all of us. Bring back face to face..there is a man I work with who has been married 40 some years, you should hear him talk about his wife..he adores her..and guess what "SHE PURSUED HIM!" Asked him out to the movies, called him all the time at first etc..
No wonder no one has a decent dating life anymore.
Posted by happykitsune
Thank you DXP for making me realize how messed up the dating scene is. I needed a refresher on the crap that goes on and appreciate how good I have it with my aries. We had been taking a break for a few weeks, but after reading all the posts on cheating, mind games, and miscommunications I realized "Wow I am so lucky"
So thank you to all the posts that inspired me to appreciate the good things in life
Posted by rachelsnow12
So, as you all know, I've been giving my Aries bestie space. I was busy at work and it helps withe not texting or responding right away. After my soccer game today, I didn't call him like I normally would. I just sent him a quick text saying we won and that I scored. He texted me a few other times and I responded. Then he asks me if I want to go eat with him and a mutual friend, I said sure, I'll get ready. He texts me back that he is just playing and that they are going to a strip club. What the hay? What is the point of even texting me those things, I mean... Do your thing. i jjust sent him a text back and told him to have fun and make it rain like PAC man jones. Yeah, I guess I'm just posting to share, I'm bored and didn't really get why he even bothered texting me that.
Posted by AriesSweetness
My Taurus guy has me spinning. I'm usually in control of my feelings and pretty keen on how someone feels about me. This guy does enough to get me interested, and then disappears for a few days. Sneaks back into my life and leaves again. I try not to respond but I eventually give-up because he keeps texting and calling begging me to talk to him, he's so persistent. When we're together, I have so much fun, and feel really loved. I'm beginning to loose respect for him, because he may be playing head games. How do you handle a guy like this.
Posted by Gemini772
When we first met he instantly connected with me, and I really wasn??t very into him, he called me every single day, asked me to be with him all the time and he actually asked me to be his gf 3 times and I said ''no'' and explained that this was my answer because I only knew him for about 2 weeks and that I think he is kind of a player =/ and that If we were going to be together I wanted to be sure about my feelings and his too. Well, time past by, and there were times that he just stop texting and calling me...He actually onde day told me that he was seeing his ex and one friend at the same time that he was seeing me , I was so sad. He told me everything, he told me that he really like me and care about me, that i'm not like the others that he have been with but he wants to enjoy life and don't want to be serious with someone right now and also that he doesnt want to hurt me...it's really strange because he told me that he liked me and then told me that doesn't want me as gf...and when I say that it's best for us to step apart of one another he comes back again =/.
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Posted by Gemini530
Little update... It's amazing how right he can play his cards and how wrong he can. After expressing unhappiness he's come out of his shell. He told me he thought my former friend is hot so I have him her number and said "here ya go, I'm not going to hold you back. Besidrs I have ten men in my phone dying to get in my bed and you know what they're missing out on." well, that did the trick but it also made me realize that calling my friends hot isn't ok.
Posted by feb16aqua
As an aqua female, I can say that there is a very good chance she has no idea how you're feeling and would be surprised to know that anything is wrong...do you feel like talking to her about how you feel?