Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by lovehurtsalot
I am in love with a cancerian woman. She loves me too. But her priority is her family. And her family does not want us to marry. And she has genuine reasons where her family needs her support.
Tell me who is selfish in this relationship:
a) Me? For wanting her to choose me for marriage so we can live our lives in love and together.
b) she? For choosing her family over me and giving them priority?
And, the fact that you don't know this and are trying to apply "sefish" to a situation that does not warrant it, is extremely unattractive.click to expand
Posted by NeshamaPosted by lovehurtsalot
Why don't her fam want her to marry you??? I bet they will come round.
I can understand it hurts to fall in love if you feel the final commitment can't be yours etc. I get that.click to expand
Posted by Neshama
She will come round. So will fam. These things have a way of working themselves out.