joined November 29, 2017
  • Need help with my Libra lady

    We've been married over 15 years now, Im a scorpio male, and she's a wonderful lovely Libra female that I recently hurt badly. She feels I betrayed her and our marriage by being somewhat unfaithful.
    I've been doing my research on how to win her heart back, and I'm doing everything in my power to change her view of a monster that I am.
    In the beginning of the problem she was furious, but stone cold.Told me she was DONE with us and verbally lashed out on everything I ever did that hurt her since the beginning of our relationship so many years ago. She wants a legal separation, and to move away after the holidays, but I'm not willing to let her go. Its been about 6 weeks since I hurt her, and she still is vicious towards me, but were doing baby steps.
    Last night got ugly because she cant let go of this hurt and she says she cant help feeling anger, almost hatred towards me.She said she wants revenge and cannot forgive me. She says she doesn't know how to let go of the pain.
    Might be too soon, but I'm trying my best to win her love back. Its been many years of us together in a blissful marriage, we have kids together, and I'm still totally in love with her. I took responsibility, been very apologetic and taken her shopping to concerts, writing her poems and am doing all I can to prove my love, your site has been very helpful but...
    I'm concerned because I keep reading that when a libra is done, they are DONE.
    (she told me this in the beginning of our problem)
    I'm going to therapy for sex addiction, been to NA & AA and asked if she's willing to go for US, and she's open to it. . .
    Is there hope, or am I holding on for nothing? Should I just let her go? I don't want to.
    If I give her too much space, I risk losing her to another, since she has a lot of guy friends and her charming ways comes off as flirty (to me) and im sure them too . I try not to smother her, but its hard to stay away.
    What do the Libras think? What can I do? ? ?