It works by us. Strength is the same concept, it's derived from faith and hope. I suppose everything in this world is filled with a bit of faith... which in a sense is disgusting. We gnaw at ourselves and never realize the scars we shed.
Sometimes I think love is just a necessity for surivival. So at times, I think, it's just the feeling of love we crave, we want that security to find that meaning. Einstein once said something along the lines of we find the meaning of life when we live for others. But this I question, more like we find the meaning by living through others but hey! Maybe I'm just being cynical? It would make sense if you found your meaning by the happiness of others but this is something I wouldn't associate with humans nowadays.
OH MY FRIGGIN FRAGGIN GOD IM GONNA GO INSANE, WHY DO YOU HURT THEE, DXP?! DONT YOU KNOW MY HEART IS ACHEING?! actually no. nvm.
but you do need to give us SOME advantatges..such as letting us upload pictures onto our info page again...i promise, i wont take it for granted ever again! As alice quotes:
"?Curiouser and curiouser!? Cried Alice (she was so much surprised, that for the moment she quite forgot how to speak good English). ?Now I?m opening out like the largest telescope that ever was! Good-bye, feet!? (for when she looked down at her feet they seemed to be almost out of sight, they were getting so far off). ?Oh, my poor little feet, I wonder who will put on your shoes and stockings for you now, dears? I?m sure I shan?t be able! I shall be a great deal too far off to trouble myself about you: you must manage the best way you can?but I must be kind to them,? thought Alice, ?or perhaps they won?t walk the way I want to go! Let me see. I?ll give them a new pair of boots every Christmas.?
maybe soul mates can be defined in a different way, such as people who find another person who can fill the gap that they desperately "need"(and this can be described in many ways, such as someone who admires someone for something, or someone who needs them for something). And the other person may provide, but along the way that person may feel unappreciated, that she/he may be doing everything, and that's where the relationship grows since one will be hanging on. Just trying to look at situations ^^