Mostly he talks 😂 About absolutely everything but I've been on the dating scene long enough to know that if a man is really interested, then he'll want to meet up asap and not drag it all out (unless there's a suspicious reason). There's no emotional investment.
So I got chatting to an Aqua online...turns out we'd been in touch (never met) a couple of years ago. We've been in touch regularly..he phones me everyday, usually for like an hour or two hours. We were supposed to meet in Wednesday but plans fell through and he hasn't mentioned an alternative but keeps phoning and texting all the time. We're in our 30s...what does he want?
Have you considering just leaving your immediate environment for a while? Being stuck in one place can lead to be being stuck in our heads...a whole change of scene/country/culture can be amazing. I did it when i was just 24, I didn't speak any other languages..I just left with £500. I stayed away for 7 years and came back a different person.
Buy a ticket to change and remember there's always a brighter future.
Thanks guys! But I'm against going against my feelings and denying my sense of what's acceptable to appeal to any man. I accept that we just weren't a good match..nobody did anything wrong. He might need space, be a "mustang 😂 and that's all fine by me...but he'll never be my man!
There's no way he'll try and come back...he didn't take the opportunity he had so why ask for more?!!!!
Mostly I feel like he doesn't value my time, and one of the things I said from the start is that I hate anyone trying to waste it. He's late every time we meet, he changes plans at the last minute and these things might be petty to some people, but to me it shows lack of respect. I don't wait around, that's not the point.
I think there might be someone else on the scene..not that he's necessarily seeing, but in communication with. He's just feeling really shady, I need to see him and tell him. I don't think texting it is a good idea. That's the other thing, he's definitely colder in his communication now.