Mr Cap is so deeply deeply kind inside, even so he exudes a tough cookie type of exterior. He is afraid to get hurt or get rejected..but by God its been 9 months now. Not much has evolved. I cannot wait on a bus that I sense will not come or that will take ten years to come. Time is precious. My new aqua guy cooks dinner for me. He is VERY thoughtful. He is giving ...with his time, money and his heart. THAT Is hard to find in a guy. He wants a family.. He wants children. He really likes my son. He is attentive to him. There is great potential. I feel that I have 'accepted' the half-ass interaction with Cap for so long.. and now I need to change things up. I am tired of half ass. I have put the brakes on aqua just to slow it down a notch but he is a very emotional type of aqua I guess? He has alot of scorpio in him. His venus is in Sag mine is in Pisces.
Hey Shaka ARe you still with that vir-girl? I havent been on here in ages!!
Zenalchemy thank you so much for the input.
My ex mr cap is aware of this and he is not happy about this. He is still in my life and we still hang out often despite the fact that he and I broke up many months ago. He bonded with my son and my son adores him. We have still remained friends. BUT we are still very sexually attracted to each other. Cap and I had sex about a month ago. Then I met this new aqua guy. This is someone who can give me all the things cap could not. For instance.. a REAL relationship. So I was honest with cap and he doesnt believe that Im really into this new guy. Cap said to me.. "You are mine cookiemonster'' and dont forget it" This was our last heated conversation. But truly Im tired of his on and off...crap. I want something real. I want intimacy and not the sexual sort. I want a relationship. CAp was too contained emotionally. Was NOT giving emotionally AT all. This aqua guy is extremely open and willing to get real. CAp is not adjusting to this well..but I have to appeal to myself I cannot continue being afraid to hurt his feelings.
I have found a new luv interest...he is an aquarius. I have never dated one before. I am an aries. He seems to be 'good on paper'... I mean he seems to have everything I have been looking for in a guy. He has a great job. He is extremely attentive. Calls me all the time. Calls me sweetheart. Is financially secure. Has three doggies.. a huge animal lover like myself. Funny. Cute. Thoughtful...Personality wise we are on a very similar plane morally, & spiritually and intellectually well suited. We have been dating now for a little over a month. We have talked about having kids together the whole nine yards...yes already.. but herein lies the problem.
He is quirky.Im a little bit quirky but Im a realist. He is like on some weird Aquarian scooby doo van world. Im attracted to this. But I dont think Im even close to 'falling for him'. He has said he has already fallen for me. Is it possible to 'fall for someone' after only a month. I dont buy it. I have tried to put the brakes on but he just wants to be with me all the time. Im enjoy his company but I sense if we start out like this it will end up co-dependent. I thought aqua men were like the independent freedom lovers of the zodiac. Could it be that he has a scorpio moon. I have a taurus moon.
Another problem I dont think I am fully over my old cap flame. Maybe this is why I cannot or do not want to fully open up to him. Mr Cap and I had a very sincere interaction. This guy though SEEMS absolutely perfect but I just dont believe love can happen this quickly??
For some reason I am 'preserving' this guy. We have dated now for a couple of weeks. We have just kissed one time. This guy is WONDERFUL. I have NEVER dated an aqua before. He asked me where I wanted to be in two years...on our second date... I told him.. I asked him the same thing he said he wants to be married again and he wants kids more than anything.
THat is exactly what I want :O
He just got out of a divorce. He was with her for 12 years. He does not seem to be pining. They never had a child. He appears ready to move on. I have been cautious and very patient with him taking this slow..for his sake ..but my question here is...
Do rebounds ever work out successfully? How do Aquas process the 'end of a long relationship' ? Can they move forward and accept that past is the past or do they hang on like a cancer would.
...no matter how you try, push, or tug ... you cannot beat a dead horse. I just broke up with my cap. It just wasnt working. Everything was good except for the emotional aspect. I just sensed that it was never going to happen. That wall was never going to come down. Aries and capricorn arent the best match after all. He was very dogmatic. I am too open minded. We are going to be friends, though that is truly what we were best at. BREAK UPS SUCK!!
It was your first time so it could just be residual 'wear and tear' down there. I say schedule a doctor appt asap! And there is such a thing as 'popping ones cherry' its an actual fibrous sheath about the size of a dime. It does make sense that it is still shedding blood fragments which would explain the dark brown spots.
I am not a virgo and Im no male but my impression after reading this...with what I know of virgo men is this: He has deep rooted insecurity. A virgo guy would rather be tickled to death than to admit weakness. He obviously was respectful of her...and I would say deep down he does not feel 'up to par' with her or good enough. Alot of times a guy will 'enjoy' a woman yet, keep them at arms length, because they are afraid they will ultimately end up disappointing her. Alot of Virgos have that I know have to have a sense of superiority in order to take the reigns in a relationship. I bet he has her on a quiet pedestal. That is my take.
So far the sun and moon are good, the flip flop and mirror one another Mercury Aries & Libra====> magnetic opposites attract Venus Taurus & Scorpio===> magnetic opposites attract Mars Gemini & Scorpio (sexual, aggression,....The Gemini tends toward flighty-ness and airy spontaniety the scorp is more intense and bottled up. (Tiny disparity here) Jupiter Cap & Pisces====> Very nice natural affinity Saturn Gem & Cancer---> Not sure...(this is the discliplinarian house) Uranus----> Both in Libra (on the same page) Neptune----> Both in Sagittarius (on the same page) Pluto-----> Both in Libra (on the same page)
True node---> Aqua & Sag tend to get along like sliced bread.
(I am not familiar how the degrees work but so far I would say PROMISING potential) You and him appear to be cut from a similar cloth