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  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by Accountz
    How does cap women act towards ex's and how do they treat men that they don't like or don't want to be bothered with. How do they act towards all men after they have had they're heart broken. How do they really feel about relationships and what's they're ideal relationship?


    Speaking strictly for myself :-

    How does cap women act towards ex's : Indifferent or cordial

    how do they treat men that they don't like or don't want to be bothered with: Courteous , if not bothered too much but if the person is too clingy then a bit irritated .

    How do they act towards all men after they have had they're heart broken : Cautious

    How do they really feel about relationships and what's they're ideal relationship : The perception changes with time and age. Younger me was all about feeling. Today its still all about feelings but i know how selfish people can be , no matter what you have done for the other person. So now its more about feelings combined with practicality . A relationship is ideal in which you dont have to give up on your personal growth.
  • marshmallow
    female
    @ Op

    Assumptions will do you no good. Assuming he was there at the event just to be able to see you could be not true. If he wants to meet you he will make more effort....specially after knowing how you feel.

    My suggestion : please dont assume and make up the importance you have in this person's life. It make boost your self worth for a while but eventually you may feel stupid.
  • marshmallow
    female
    I guess yes. I had many cap men liking me when i was single .
  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by Palerio
    Posted by marshmallow
    Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    Any advice. Family trip with brothers. Trying to take my dad, want it to be a good experience, but not too expensive.

    and how many days do you recommend?

    Rome
    Florence
    Venice


    Been to these places . Rome wasnt my cup of tea , it was nice but i just ended up seeing only monuments and monuments which is boring to me. Liked Florence and Venice . Ideally Rome needs more days . I was there for 4 days 3 for Rome and 1 Vatican city . Venice is small so 2 days should be enough .

    I remember coming across a place to stay in Rome which was quite reasonable . It was camping village jolly ...little outskirts of main Rome . I think 15-30 mins away .


    I always say "when Rome isn't your cup of tea, you'd better change your cup of tea". I get what you're saying tho.
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    I guess you would be right . I may have not visited right. Same thing i felt when i went to Paris. When i visit these places again , i would be there the way i enjoy more..ie not just seeing touristy points but just to live there and enjoy the place .

  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    Any advice. Family trip with brothers. Trying to take my dad, want it to be a good experience, but not too expensive.

    and how many days do you recommend?

    Rome
    Florence
    Venice


    Been to these places . Rome wasnt my cup of tea , it was nice but i just ended up seeing only monuments and monuments which is boring to me. Liked Florence and Venice . Ideally Rome needs more days . I was there for 4 days 3 for Rome and 1 Vatican city . Venice is small so 2 days should be enough .

    I remember coming across a place to stay in Rome which was quite reasonable . It was camping village jolly ...little outskirts of main Rome . I think 15-30 mins away .
  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
    Have you ever dated another fellow cap? Did you like it or hate it? Would you date another fellow cap if you did?


    Yes i have . Liked him , good guy , very good looking but something was missing about him. I didnt really fell in love with him .
    I think if it had lasted a little longer then things would have worked out .
  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by Mandy27
    Please share your experience with cap mooners thank you !!'..


    yes and not a good experience to remember
  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Those are already the largest populations so it checks out.


    That's not my question. My question is how did they get big in the first place
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    I myself question this . I am an Indian . Why so many people here ? I hate it.

    One reason i can think of is that it is one of the oldest civilisation and also people kept on coming and coming from other parts here . There was also an influx from middle east for a long long time many centuries before.

    Adding more :
    We were a very rich country before Mughals and Britishers invaded us .Other civilizations kept on coming here before 17th century in search for money and work and trade . That added to the number .
  • marshmallow
    female
    I dont want to stop disliking you now . I dont want to forget how am i treated now. I dont want to forget ever . I want the countdown to begin . 12 months to go but difficult to pass the time . I want to keep it to myself and not share anything with you anymore . You blame me for things again and again and again. What did i do wrong so much and i kept on forgiving you and you never let go of anything . Why should i be the one who suffers all the time ? Why should i live with so much of hatred against me?
  • marshmallow
    female
    3rd decan

    sounds so right for me
  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by Candicorn
    Posted by marshmallow
    @ Candicorn

    Hope alls well with you caprisun smile . How are things with the scorp


    Thanks! Yes all is well. The scorpio is no more, and I'm okay with that. Encountered some major red flags and deal breakers on my end so I decided to let him go.
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    What matters is that you are fine smile

    Others should not define our state of mine. (Although i am yet to implement that )
  • marshmallow
    female

    Posted by lnana04
    I need to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Long anti climatic vent.

    I was out yesterday...got off of work early. Rode the bus/train to an area in town. Stopped in Dollar Tree and as I was coming out and older guy asked if it was a good store. I replied "Yes, everything is a dollar, you should go in." He said no, smiled and we went our separate ways.

    I walked to the Farmers Market near and browsed for about 30minutes before walking back to the bus stop. I'm at the bus stop, look over, and noticed its the older man again, so he smiles and starts talking to me. I can hardly understand what he's saying, so I'm just nodding and what I do manage to understand I ask questions about. My questions..
    -Where are you from? He's from Peru.
    -You work in the area? No
    I tell him how much a weekly card costs and he talks and talks about work, his ex wife, apartments in the area etc etc.

    The bus comes, and he sits next to me, still talking about his ex wife and her new boyfriend, his job, his country etc.
    My questions then.
    -How long were the two of you married?
    -Is it expensive to go to Peru?

    Every once in a while he'd say something and lean close to me where our arms would touch. I was slightly uncomfortable but didn't want to seem rude so I tried to move as much as I could. He then started talking about how he likes black women. Then it lead to him asking if I had a boyfriend, and he'd love to take me out on weekends, then he mentioned he'd like to possibly bring me to Peru. He says Im beautiful and such a nice girl. I tell him I don't have a boyfriend because I don't have time for one, and he said I could make time on the weekends, which I try to change the subject a bit by asking if there are blacks in Peru.

    We are at the train station and he offers to help with my bags, then motions for me to take an empty seat, and sits next to me on the train. At this point I'm quiet because it seems like the old man really likes me, and the train is crowded. He asks me which station I'm getting off at, then he sits quietly as if he wants to say much more but can't or dont know what to say. At this point I'm feeling a bit sad, yet trying to ice him out as much as possible but I'm fighting it because I don't want to be rude. He asks if I'd take his number, and I feel a few people look at me as if I'm entertaining this man, which I guess I am because I put his number in my old phone I carry. He asks me to please call him so he can bring me to Mexican restaurant sometime. I get to my stop, he stands up and shakes my hand, which I honestly thought was sweet. Im on my way.
    I felt sad for him because he liked me and seemed a bit lonely, and i felt a bit guilty for taking his number with no intentions to call.

    My question is, if anyone ever reads, what can I do to avoid these type of situations? I like speaking to people that speak to me, but I don't like being uncomfortable or people developing an interest in me due to my friendliness. I don't like always feeling like I'm leading someone on.

    I'm having a similar issue with someone I catch a ride with after work. He jokes by saying he tells everyone we are together. I laugh at him because hes funny, but catch a ride with someone else or walk when I don't see him, and the next days he acts like his feelings are hurt. Saying he's out there waiting on me...why am I always leaving?

    I think I need to stat away from ALL men.


    Every one has a behaviour style . Yours could be friendly , some are healthy flirts and some our just cold . Its not about right or wrong. May be these guys felt comfortable around you to open up and show interest .

    I am cold in general but even then i have come across guys who have misinterpreted my general friendly talks . It happens .

    You can may be tell clearly when asked out by these random guys , that u are not interested . Diplomatic answers sometimes confuses people . If its something about your body language then may be you can change it . But that is only if you feel the need .



  • marshmallow
    female
    @ Candicorn

    Hope alls well with you caprisun smile . How are things with the scorp
  • marshmallow
    female
    Yes very very sensitive. And i cant control my outer behaviour and inner burst of feelings if hurt . I dont like it about myself .
  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by pooface222
    Now I don't mean a bit down or even very unhappy.
    But properly depressed! To the point that you are very low every day and you are not sleeping at night.


    I am feeling that too. Funny thing ..that while scrolling down posts here, i was just thinking about why i am feeling like this and i suddenly came across this post .
  • marshmallow
    female
    Is it possible that you are not judging him right ? Is he too busy with work and his social life ? Leos are pain when it comes to their social life .
  • marshmallow
    female
    I am aware of the fact that leos are a lot about sex but most i know are not so shallow to just be into something just for it.
    You have all the right to move out of a situation if you feel used .

    To be honest your pride is in your hands . If he ignores your messages or doesnt take your call then you to ignore him right away .
  • marshmallow
    female
    How old are you both Swetha? I am asking to understand at what stage of life he is at ?
  • marshmallow
    female
    Posted by lostundersea
    Posted by DickButt
    Posted by lostundersea
    Posted by DickButt
    Punjabi girls are the italians of the desi world. Passion, Anger, and Bluntness.


    I like it? Lol


    If her parents are traditional (which they will be most likely) i would be cautious because brown people more or likely marry within the race. You may not be thinking that far at all, but a good thing to keep in mind.

    Hmm true but what if she has tattoos that's normal?
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    Seriously ?

    What has tattoo got to do with it
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