BoomShakalakaBoom

BoomShakalakaBoom joined April 07, 2011

male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005

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BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
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Libras that date and like Leo’s, why?
BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
Joined dxpnet on April 07, 2011.
I honestly do not immediately pay attention to whether a woman has kids or not. Whether I feel attracted to a woman or not or whether I decide to act upon that attraction or not, depends largely on the overall energy and vibe I receive from her and whether there are enough common interests and there is enough chemistry which could potentially override potential inconveniences....like kids 😅
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What are you Mars sign, and what are you hobbies?
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What are you Mars sign, and what are you hobbies?
BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
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Mars in Leo in the 10th house (I also have Venus in Leo)
The most fun period of my life that I can remember (2011-2016) was when I was a fulltime player, party animal, PUA, serious womanizer, you name it. As with everything that comes too easy, at some point it became boring and it was standing in the way of other ambitions, so I quit that life style when I met my current Libra woman.

I've spoken to a few people who are much better with women than I am and I get the impression the glory days are over. I will admit a lot of the PUA stuff was dumb like peacocking seriously!? Pink dicky bowties? Wooly pimp hats (cool on Snoop and Luda, but nobody else), diamanté belts even Liberace would reject as being tacky? Or learning magic tricks and cold reading? WTF.

I understand the scene is really tough in big USA cities on Tinder particularly as even average women are looking for men to raise their IG profiles so are rejecting mere mortals, but I can't verify that.
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Yeah, that whole PUA scene was horrible and just silly really. I mentioned PUA in my post just to stress the fact that I was really on a mission to bed as many beautiful women as possible (which had more to do with my own emotional issues than anything else), but I never ever read of those PUA books, I never listened to any PUA-masters, I never went to any PUA-conferences, I never spoke to anyone who called himself PUA. I just learned by trial and error, by myself, my own way, my own scence, my own people. After all these years I do have to say all that learning about women and people (and what makes them tick) did help me to accomplish certain goals and it still helps me in many many ways, so I have no regrets.
What are you Mars sign, and what are you hobbies?
BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
Joined dxpnet on April 07, 2011.
Mars in Leo in the 10th house (I also have Venus in Leo)
The most fun period of my life that I can remember (2011-2016) was when I was a fulltime player, party animal, PUA, serious womanizer, you name it. As with everything that comes too easy, at some point it became boring and it was standing in the way of other ambitions, so I quit that life style when I met my current Libra woman.
What are you Mars sign, and what are you hobbies?
BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
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Nobody really needs antidepressants. I would recommend you a Mindful Self-compassion training from these people:

https://centerformsc.org/course-teachers-list/

My girlfriend is also a Libra/Scorp like you and MSC helped her (and myself) in giving the tools to be able to deal with any type of psychological pain, by yourself and only yourself. That, to me is the most powerful and empowering way.

Give it a try!
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BoomShakalakaBoom
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Why do people hate Billionaires?
BoomShakalakaBoom
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In the words of 007: "Everybody needs a hobby"
Why do people hate Billionaires?
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BoomShakalakaBoom
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Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.

Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?

It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.

Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this

Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.

I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdo

To be honest, I find it WEIRD when people categorically claim age difference is not an important aspect to consider when choosing to date someone or not. I suppose it would be convenient for you to be against questioning this, as in your case there is an (I suppose) important age-gap in your relationship.

To each their own. I find it weird for you to bring up dating a child, as a joke? making a point? idk, that's really bizarre and just icky.
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You keep proving my point that you aren't smart enough to understand what I was trying to convey, so have a good day!
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BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.

Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?

It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.

Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this

Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.

I'm dating someone younger then me, yes. If you wanted to know that you could've just asked instead of bringing children into it...weirdo
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To be honest, I find it WEIRD when people categorically claim age difference is not an important aspect to consider when choosing to date someone or not. I suppose it would be convenient for you to be against questioning this, as in your case there is an (I suppose) important age-gap in your relationship.
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BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
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Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.

Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?

It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.

Because I'm not a pedophile. What kinda self-report is this
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Apparently you aren't smart enough to realize that I didn't literally mean you should date a 10-year old.
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BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
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From what I have been able to perceive and gather about sweetheart's personality over many years of DXP-interactions is that to me, she carries this youthful and kind of child-like energy and enthusiasm, which to me is the best way to live life. It's obvious then that she would attract "younger" people.

Having said that, I think in general Libra's do need to learn to say "no" more often in all kinds of situations, once they've mastered this, their energy will change and then they will start attracting more of what/who they really need in their lives.

I’d make an exception to my rule with you Shaks
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Haha
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BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
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From what I have been able to perceive and gather about sweetheart's personality over many years of DXP-interactions is that to me, she carries this youthful and kind of child-like energy and enthusiasm, which to me is the best way to live life. It's obvious then that she would attract "younger" people.

Having said that, I think in general Libra's do need to learn to say "no" more often in all kinds of situations, once they've mastered this, their energy will change and then they will start attracting more of what/who they really need in their lives.
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BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
Joined dxpnet on April 07, 2011.
Posted by LadyNeptune

Sad thing is your doing yourself a disservice by assuming things about him based on the superficial, his age.

Okay, so you don't care about "superficial" things like age, why aren't you dating a 10-year old?

It's ludicrous to ignore the influence of life experience, stages of emotional maturity and acquired wisdom. Those can only come with a capacity for self-reflexion and TIME.
Young guys
BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
Joined dxpnet on April 07, 2011.
(We love the idea of marriage too, we just can't be bothered about doing the whole thing lol)
BoomShakalakaBoom
male from an open relationship with DXP since 2005
Joined dxpnet on April 07, 2011.
My Libra has Venus in Sagittarius

I'm a Virgo with Venus and Mars in Leo.

We met on Tinder, then met in person a few days later. From there on we became exclusive. A month and half later we became engaged. A month later we moved in together. Fast forward 4 years, we're still happily engaged

We don't like wasting time.

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