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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Ha. Depending on the couple? I've met some older couples in my time that had their own agendas as well. Let's stick to the little, old couples.


absolutely.


even you bringing up the guy friends thing it's true too. i can recall so much bad advice from even guy friends now. i cringe at the thought.



it is best to keep your relationship between yourselves. people are jealous, miserable and unhappy..... they don't want to see you thrive.




Posted by cheekyfaerie
The biggest mistake women make is letting other people into their relationship. Period. Girl friends... guy friends... family? Any of em. Why some women need other people's validation and/or approval is beyond me.


correct.



HOWEVER, I will make an exception for advice from old couples that's been through it all.


You can go to them and say, "I'm mad at my bf cus he called me a stupid bish."

They will laugh at your problems and tell you that chit happens in long term relationships.




A single female however, if she doesn't outright tell you to break up .......she will plant some seed of doubt into you like "oh he's emotionally abusive. you might want to becareful."


the next time the bf blows up and says anything of that sort..... then what the single friend planted will take fruition.
listen. i've already said my piece.


next time you're 40 and still single. you can revisit this thread.

"DAMN! DJ IS RIGHT. YET AGAIN"
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
but you did PM me to argue


LMAo

what a nutcase.


I'm 'crazy' when I argue against your rhetoric...but if I drank the DonJohn koolaide I'd be one of the flock. What's your cults name?
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nope you legit PMed me to continue an argument.

that's some next level insanity. just LOL @ you.

Posted by MrEmptyBackpack
Everyone should get advice from busyeys

She know what she talkin bout


correct.


you can't get slim advice from a fatcel

you can't get beauty advice from an uglycel

you can't get financial advice from a brokecel


and you most certaingly can't get relationship advice from a single female
Posted by LillyPetal
Get yourself an a-social introvert. I don't have any friends. My Sea-Goat didn't have to go through meeting any of them. He just got to meet family.

I don't like talking about my relationship with others. This has always been my belief: I will always be able to forgive him sooner than they will, so if I tell them about a petty incident we had, and because I was emotional I over exaggerated my emotions and what happened - they will hold onto it much longer than I, and I will have moved on, happily enjoying life while they still have a lesser view of him.



good thinking



Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by DonJohn
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Depends if she's single by choice .. I've been single by choice at different times in my life .. I give good advice to my girlfriends that are in relationships .. most of the time I ended up being right about whatever they came to me with




would you take investment advice from a homeless bum? As long as he tells you he's homeless by choice?


LMAO female logic. NOT EVEN ONCE


Homeless bum & single by choice is a terrible comparison





it's exactly the same. linear logic.



a single female at say 35 is the beacon of failed relationships.

a homeless man is the beacon of failed finances.




you can't listen to someone that dont know how to keep a man. it's not rocket science.


Relationships can end by the woman realizing she doesn't want to keep that man- doesn't mean she can't give good relationship advice ..if a woman is forever getting dumped over & over again her entire life, then no, wouldn't take relationship advice from her-that is also the extreme way to view it
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LMAO


that's like hiring someone that's quit every single job they ever held.

you are a quitter. what kind of advice can you give people who want to hold onto their jobs?


Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
There is no such thing as single by choice.



There's no sane female that truly wants to be single without ever eventually getting married. there's only delusional cope.


Are you speaking from a personal perspective. I didn't know you had a vagina?




i speak for the single females who msg me in private for SOS before putting on a brave face of denial against the world.




Name names.




@ladyneptune


Lol if I pm'ed you lets see the screenshots.







Your so full of butter. I stay laughing.
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good. cus it was a joke. yanno
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
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Posted by DonJohn
You are talking to your single friend who failed at every single relationship about your relationship problems. What do you think she's going to tell you?

ROFLMAO

Female logic.



The exact same could be said of men talking to their male single friends...

So what.



reason why i say women is because women are more easily influenced. this is why I never talk to anybody about that stuff. i never ask anyone.



My parents didn't. Lasting marriage.




it's a relationship ender to get influenced by single "friends". misery loves company.


Your one example is hardly enough to claim that blocking out advice from the people closest to you 'saves marriages'. And I'm sure theres just as much advice to stay together/promoting the partner as there is the advice to dump them. I've seen and participated in both routes.

Also lol@women being more easily influenced. The only reason many men get married in the first place is the societal pressure and seeing their peers settle down and have families. Men are just as easily influenced as women.






listen. i gave my advice here. you can take it or you can leave it.


i'm not going back and forth with a single female


You see the irony, no? You giving advice for women to ignore advice.
Also not single, sorry.





1. i'm married

2. i'm a man who gives rational advice



you are not too bright are you?



Prove both 1) and 2) cause I remain unconvinced.
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like i already said earlier. i really don't care what you think.
i don't want the old days back. NO SIR.


i've had more propositions this venus retrograde than any other times in my entire life. this includes an ex FWB who just birthed a baby boy and she tried to lure me with her lactating tits.

I stayed strong.


i stayed faithful.


Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
There is no such thing as single by choice.



There's no sane female that truly wants to be single without ever eventually getting married. there's only delusional cope.


Are you speaking from a personal perspective. I didn't know you had a vagina?




i speak for the single females who msg me in private for SOS before putting on a brave face of denial against the world.




Name names.
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@ladyneptune
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by DonJohn
Posted by SofiaV87
Depends if she's single by choice .. I've been single by choice at different times in my life .. I give good advice to my girlfriends that are in relationships .. most of the time I ended up being right about whatever they came to me with




would you take investment advice from a homeless bum? As long as he tells you he's homeless by choice?


LMAO female logic. NOT EVEN ONCE


Homeless bum & single by choice is a terrible comparison

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it's exactly the same. linear logic.



a single female at say 35 is the beacon of failed relationships.

a homeless man is the beacon of failed finances.




you can't listen to someone that dont know how to keep a man. it's not rocket science.
Posted by Teena
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
everybody knows that girls do not listen to their friends when they are in love.

it's the other way around. all the girls around Ms. stupid-in-love have to burn and watch that she says into their face "heart wants what heart wants".




not at first no.


HOWEVER if she be having problems and she's feeling in a state of uncertainty..... then she goes to talk to her headstrong single friend. that's a disaster. they going to plant some more doubt into her psyche. guaranteed.
you don't know a single thing about women.

Also you don't know to which percent the relationships of the modern man is base on uncertainty. It's like from the beginning she does not know what really is happening and have to pull her friends in her messy situation.




it's because I understand women better than you understand yourselves.


LOL!!

But DJ, do you really believe that there's no such thing as single by choice?






There is no such thing as single by choice.



There's no sane female that truly wants to be single without ever eventually getting married. there's only delusional cope.


Single coz didn't come across the right person can happen ya know.But I can't​ define *the right* anyway...so🙈
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that's exactly it Teena.


you are only single because you haven't found him yet. so it isn't by choice..... you just haven't met the right man.




either which way you cut it, you would not be a good candidate to give relationship/marriage advice. am i right?
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by DonJohn
....
1. i'm married

2. i'm a man who gives rational advice
...
aha, how many girls did you date and did not marry? they go to their girls.
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i drank their milk without buying the farm. yes i did. i understand women on a deep psychological level that you, yourselves can't. or else how would i be able to play chess 3 steps before you?


so you can either listen to me...... or not.

no loss to me.

but at the end of the day, when rubber meets the road...... the proof is in the pudding.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
There is no such thing as single by choice.



There's no sane female that truly wants to be single without ever eventually getting married. there's only delusional cope.


Are you speaking from a personal perspective. I didn't know you had a vagina?
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i speak for the single females who msg me in private for SOS before putting on a brave face of denial against the world.


Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
You are talking to your single friend who failed at every single relationship about your relationship problems. What do you think she's going to tell you?

ROFLMAO

Female logic.



The exact same could be said of men talking to their male single friends...

So what.



reason why i say women is because women are more easily influenced. this is why I never talk to anybody about that stuff. i never ask anyone.



My parents didn't. Lasting marriage.




it's a relationship ender to get influenced by single "friends". misery loves company.


Your one example is hardly enough to claim that blocking out advice from the people closest to you 'saves marriages'. And I'm sure theres just as much advice to stay together/promoting the partner as there is the advice to dump them. I've seen and participated in both routes.

Also lol@women being more easily influenced. The only reason many men get married in the first place is the societal pressure and seeing their peers settle down and have families. Men are just as easily influenced as women.






listen. i gave my advice here. you can take it or you can leave it.


i'm not going back and forth with a single female


You see the irony, no? You giving advice for women to ignore advice.
Also not single, sorry.

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1. i'm married

2. i'm a man who gives rational advice



you are not too bright are you?

Posted by Teena
Posted by DonJohn
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by DonJohn
Posted by DwellingOnMove
everybody knows that girls do not listen to their friends when they are in love.

it's the other way around. all the girls around Ms. stupid-in-love have to burn and watch that she says into their face "heart wants what heart wants".




not at first no.


HOWEVER if she be having problems and she's feeling in a state of uncertainty..... then she goes to talk to her headstrong single friend. that's a disaster. they going to plant some more doubt into her psyche. guaranteed.
you don't know a single thing about women.

Also you don't know to which percent the relationships of the modern man is base on uncertainty. It's like from the beginning she does not know what really is happening and have to pull her friends in her messy situation.




it's because I understand women better than you understand yourselves.


LOL!!

But DJ, do you really believe that there's no such thing as single by choice?
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There is no such thing as single by choice.



There's no sane female that truly wants to be single without ever eventually getting married. there's only delusional cope.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by DonJohn
You are talking to your single friend who failed at every single relationship about your relationship problems. What do you think she's going to tell you?

ROFLMAO

Female logic.



The exact same could be said of men talking to their male single friends...

So what.



reason why i say women is because women are more easily influenced. this is why I never talk to anybody about that stuff. i never ask anyone.



My parents didn't. Lasting marriage.




it's a relationship ender to get influenced by single "friends". misery loves company.


Your one example is hardly enough to claim that blocking out advice from the people closest to you 'saves marriages'. And I'm sure theres just as much advice to stay together/promoting the partner as there is the advice to dump them. I've seen and participated in both routes.

Also lol@women being more easily influenced. The only reason many men get married in the first place is the societal pressure and seeing their peers settle down and have families. Men are just as easily influenced as women.
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listen. i gave my advice here. you can take it or you can leave it.


i'm not going back and forth with a single female