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Posted by Gem03

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Posted by Gem03

Posted by ImperfectStorm
He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?
What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)

He didn’t say that he no longer cares, he said “I’m not here to cause stress in anyones life and I don’t need it in mine either so I am going to gracefully bow out and stay out this time”. 🙄🙄🙄 he said it after I called him out on some bullshit. A year ago I would have tried to change his mind and make things right but I’m no longer fighting for people who are fighting against me. I’m tired of men who cannot deal with conflict like adults and are constantly running away from problems So I told him I wish him the best and to take care of himself and we haven’t spoke in a month.

Same here!!! I shared my concerns with him that had been going on for months and that id like him to try and that im at my limit. He responded with "I've been at my limit, so i no longer care. Patience ran out."

I would be like “say no more!” ✌🏼

That’s the one thing I’ve learned from dealing with this Pisces. I didn’t even realize how much I’ve always been that girl that tried to change a man’s mind about me.. (I blame my overachieving/service-oriented Virgo Venus) 🙄 if a guy told me something wasn’t working, I would try to fix things instead of accepting the situation for what it is. If he doesn’t want to try to work for it, why should I?

I’m never doing that shit again. 😑

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For me im the love em and leave em. My blocked list is longer than my contact list. I just don't care but when im emotionally attached its a tsunami of feelings and affection. I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus so taming me is hard and difficult.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Posted by Gem03

Posted by ImperfectStorm
He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?
What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)

He didn’t say that he no longer cares, he said “I’m not here to cause stress in anyones life and I don’t need it in mine either so I am going to gracefully bow out and stay out this time”. 🙄🙄🙄 he said it after I called him out on some bullshit. A year ago I would have tried to change his mind and make things right but I’m no longer fighting for people who are fighting against me. I’m tired of men who cannot deal with conflict like adults and are constantly running away from problems So I told him I wish him the best and to take care of himself and we haven’t spoke in a month.

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Same here!!! I shared my concerns with him that had been going on for months and that id like him to try and that im at my limit. He responded with "I've been at my limit, so i no longer care. Patience ran out."

Posted by ImperfectStorm
He is just taking up space and preventing you from pursuing something or someone that is more solid and meaningful. Consider it a favor …

the Pisces/Virgo moon that I was dealing with basically said the same thing to me after an argument about a month ago.. he said he wanted to walk away from the situation. This was the second time he did that. The first time that he did it, I tried to fight for him and tried to change his mind.. and we did start talking again. But it’s self depreciating to fight for people who are fighting against us.

Like you said, it’s bittersweet but you gotta trust it. Wish him well and release him.. and have faith that something better is coming.

The pisces/virgo moon told you he no longer cares?
What did you of the second time he wanted to walk away?

I blocked him from everywhere (all socials, phone number, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, instagram, EVERYTHING)

Posted by ImperfectStorm
Let him go and breathe through it

thank you, its just bittersweet

Posted by DMV
Give him exactly what he wants.

He doesn’t care, so you don’t care.

Meet him where he is at

i blocked him everywhere actually

Posted by DMV
Give him exactly what he wants.

He doesn’t care, so you don’t care.

Meet him where he is at

i blocked him everywhere actually

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im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

so him and i never committed to any label, we were only seeing each other and i kept a roster the entire time so lol. I have a date tomorrow night

If that's the one, then I don't remember that part. Did he convince you of that once he came back? lol

Take him off the team and permanently bench his ass. Pick up a new player!

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virgo did say that but i still kept a roster while seeing the virgo man and yeah i blocked the virgo from everywhere 20mins ago.

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Posted by Gem03
im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

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so him and i never committed to any label, we were only seeing each other and i kept a roster the entire time so lol. I have a date tomorrow night

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Posted by Gem03
im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

Isn't he the one that broke up with you so he could run off to Miami and cheat in peace? Girl RUN and quit wasting your time with this dude.

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so him and i never committed to any label, we were only seeing each other and i kept a roster the entire time so lol. I have a date tomorrow night

update: i blocked him from everywhere

im gonna have to block him :/ ik i'll get the urge to text him and call him.

he said "im done" in february and we made up a month later so....sigh

virgo man that i have been dealing with romantically says he no longer cares. We have been having ups and downs but for him to say this only hurts. What do i do?

virgo man that i have been dealing with romantically says he no longer cares. We have been having ups and downs but for him to say this only hurts. What do i do?

virgo men with leo mars are dominant as fuck, their ego is bigger than Mt Everest tho, possessive and passionate.

Posted by WarAngel
You know what I think, there's no getting around what I told you.

I wanted to update the thread tho so yeah.

I caved and i texted him On Tuesday that on Wednesday i’ll come see him at his place. It delivered but there was no response. I went and texted him that im here and he texted back FINALLY. He said “did you actually come here” and i was like yes and he said dont just randomly show up. He didn’t let me in but we texted. I told him how sorry i was and he was like you have lost your privileges. I said I understand and that im trying. Well on Wednesday night him and i got into an argument of sorts. He blocked me from all his socials+number. As he was blocking me, The last one was instagram and i said “okay I understand you hate me enough to leave me. I’ll keep you in my memories as a loved one goodbye” he read that then unblocked my number 2minutes later and texted me “come see me now then, prove you wanna make amends” and i did it was ok

We do text, he is not mean but he is hostile and very curt. He doesn’t joke around anymore. He still has me blocked everywhere except my phone number. It sucks

Frankly ik im at fault but i forgave him for far worse.

I think he used this as an excuse to walk away

I wrote the letter but deleted it like im putting in this much effort for someone who wont even respond to my texts.

I called him for the last time he didn’t pick up.
Then i texted him
“As much as i love you i cant hold onto someone who doesn’t want to stay. You win
I forgave you for so much of what you did and what you said last yr but you cant forgive me for this. I wish you the best, i hope you find your person”

Hes now blocked on everything
Im tired of putting my pride on the line

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@virgoOPPP I disrespected him
Is there any way he’ll come back?

idk i'm kinda impulsive sometimes when i'm hurt, especially when i think i've been wronged. like i might block you on social media then eventually feeling like i can maybe forgive you. but then, we don't have any line of communication by then.

but if it were unintentional, i might initiate the reconcialition myself.

tho i have to say i'm often passive that i often eventually end up doing nothing until the relationship just sinks.

Can you tell me why he wont just block me? I sent him 20texts just explaining and apologizing and called him 3 times…in a span of 1.5 week

sometimes i do that too like i may even have blocked you in the first place then unblock you then wait for when i don't feel so angry anymore or wait for when i can pick up on the logic of why you did what you did or said what you said and maybe assess if this is maybe a relationship still worth keeping. overthinking.

some of us get paralyzed into inaction like this.

but maybe a sincere, final apology with an explanation then just leaving it at that would do.

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Im thinking of sending him a handwritten letter