Posted by lnana04
Unfortunately, I don't think so. I find that its hard to get through to us in general because its our thoughts/feelings and we are dealing with them constantly. So even if you knock some sense into her for that moment, she will always revert back to what she was initially thinking/feeling. Its embedded in her right now. She'll have to get over it on her own.
BTW, her words scare me. Personally I find its hard for me to adjust to change...well, change that's not my own. I guess its the idea of a man proposing and wanting marriage so it's kind of his idea? Idk. Parts of her may seem a bit out of control in this.
Who set the wedding date? Have you suggested it being pushed back to ease her mind? Idk.
Posted by RindarooPosted by ewashington7000Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
I want to hear about the proposal once it happens. Thanks in advance and good luck!
She accepted !!!
Initially surprised, she told me that she felt like she was confused & scared and that she was not worthy of my proposal; but I quickly confuted all of that nonsense, even after providing a little clarification & encouragment. [She seems to be very hard on her person, even though she is an Honorable (Spiritual) genius. She explained to me that she was often confused about her own wants etc. & that such confusion & uncertainity was common to het.]
So, she had me call her Best Friend to her Best Friend that I proposed to her; and her Best Friend was elated !!!!
Her Best Friend told me that all she did was sing High Prasises about my person whenever they do discuss our relationship, of which I was totally shocked; and her Best Friend
reasoned that if she was Truly Confused & Scared about my Fiancee, then what was she actually doing meeting me in my Hotel way ?!?!?"
Congratulations!!!click to expand
Posted by escorpiointocappie
Aloha.
I've been messaging with a beautiful Capricorn female online. We have never met in person. I randomly came across your page one day via a hashtag and I followed her. Never thought much about it. After seeing her posts for almost six months after I initially started following her on social media. Her vibe started to attract me. She's a profound, spiritual, intelectual being. My intuition tells me she's super noble, humble, and down to earth. And that really turned me on. She is extremly beautiful, but the energy of who she is truly captivated me. One day, I decided to send her a message. To my surprise she responded. To make a long story short. We've been sharing private messages for almost 3 months now. We've never met in person. We don't live near by. But I feel a deep connection. I've been open oh how much I'm into her. We share similar interest in holistic healing and spirituality. She's told me that she thinks I am a very special human being; I think because we talk about deep sincere stuff. I've told her how her beauty is not what attracted me to to her, but the energy I perceive of her, and that I had nothing but good intentions with her. She told me that she could tell of my intentions because energy doesn't lie, and that the only reason why she messages me back is because she senses a good energy from me too. There are other synchronicities about her that make me wonder if she's the one. Lately though, she doesn't respond to me anymore. It's been a week now since she last wrote to me. It's frustrating because online is the only way to communicate with her, and I'm starting to think maybe she thinks I was just a fun past time while she was bored. She's told me about her depressions, and how she battles to with other stuff. She shares private things with me. I love when she opens up because it allows me to connect with her at a deeper level; which is what I crave. I want her to see how compatible we are. But suddenly she's gone. Now I haven't sent her a message since a week ago when she last wrote to me. I don't even know what to say to her now because I thought we were kind of becoming close, but I'm doubting everything now. She has over 100k friends online. She's extremely popular and busy. So maybe I just got ahead of myself thinking we had a connection. She's such a beautiful soul. I just want to connect with her heart and show her all that lives in me. Any advice? Thanks.
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ewashington7000Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
I want to hear about the proposal once it happens. Thanks in advance and good luck!
She accepted !!!
Initially surprised, she told me that she felt like she was confused & scared and that she was not worthy of my proposal; but I quickly confuted all of that nonsense, even after providing a little clarification & encouragment. [She seems to be very hard on her person, even though she is an Honorable (Spiritual) genius. She explained to me that she was often confused about her own wants etc. & that such confusion & uncertainity was common to het.]
So, she had me call her Best Friend to her Best Friend that I proposed to her; and her Best Friend was elated !!!!
Her Best Friend told me that all she did was sing High Prasises about my person whenever they do discuss our relationship, of which I was totally shocked; and her Best Friend
reasoned that if she was Truly Confused & Scared about my Fiancee, then what was she actually doing meeting me in my Hotel way ?!?!?"
Congrats man! I'm really excited for you!click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune
Put a ring ? on it!
Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
I want to hear about the proposal once it happens. Thanks in advance and good luck!
Posted by NineAvenue
what's her religion?
Posted by CandicornPosted by ewashington7000Posted by Candicorn
How does she feel about marriage?
She is very much excited about marriage. She desires a Traditional Marriage, even cording to her custom. About 4 months ago, I have asked her for her rng size. About 3 months ago, she has finally given me her ring size.
So, she is very much into family, marriage, and children.
Yet I know that she is very delicate on the inside.
As a Libra, I sense that she is coy with expressing her deepest emotions.
So, I do not desire to directly propose to wr without some prior preparation, lest I scare her away; although in matters pertaining to Probity, Fortitude, and Loyalty [Devotion], she is Fearless, Second to None.
Follow your instincts
Sounds like you know her well enough & have a good idea on how she might react to different things.
Go for it in your own way! I'm sure she'll appreciate itclick to expand
Posted by Candicorn
How does she feel about marriage?
Posted by lnana04
You can't figure out what he wants because most likely, he doesn't really know.
I don't have a ton of experience, but I don't think we are direct unless we are 100% sure about what we want. Until then, unfortunately, there may be a lot of confusion, which I'm unsure is a good sign or not. I can't really say.