Posted by notnu2uPosted by hellosaggy
I'm guessing you are an aqua or a sag... we can deal with the weird relationships better than most.
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Posted by notnu2uPosted by saggurl88Posted by notnu2uPosted by hellosaggy
I get everything the OP is talking about. I like my casual emotionless romps as well.... to a degree. the only issue is the lying.... obviously you can't trust him. If he's willing to lie to his wife about where he's at, what he's doing, etc etc.... what makes you think he's not lying to you?
that's the scary part when it comes to non-commitment AND lying... is everything you set it place is based on a lie.
about what?
About how bad his relationship is.
If you’ve started being busy or distant, this could lead to changed up tactics/ lies on his part to say he’s looking for a divorce.
Something has changed in the dynamics of your situation to make him start talking about things going “downhill”
He’s most likely lying to you and exasperating the situation at home.
Maybe he thinks you are disconnecting from him or tired of the situation.
Not many married men casually talk about divorce if things are going well on the side.
There’s not a need to.
Idk couldn't say..
there is distance because we live 5 hrs apart, he knows I'm dating because I told him. None of this is new to be a reason for him to feel "threatened" Idk, he always knew it was just a fling, I don't lie to him, no need toclick to expand
Posted by notnu2uPosted by hellosaggy
I get everything the OP is talking about. I like my casual emotionless romps as well.... to a degree. the only issue is the lying.... obviously you can't trust him. If he's willing to lie to his wife about where he's at, what he's doing, etc etc.... what makes you think he's not lying to you?
that's the scary part when it comes to non-commitment AND lying... is everything you set it place is based on a lie.
about what?click to expand
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Clumsy_WumsyPosted by hellosaggy
I'm super generous, with money and sex lol. But seriously, I donate a lot of time and money to charitable causes. Sagittarius men are known for their generosity.
Not sure if I can agree to that. They were probably donating to those charities so they could gain something from that?
*Pokes and run away* 🤣🤣
One of my exes is a Sag male… he was very generous. He would give, give, and give. Not to charities, but to others in need. People took advantage of him. 😧
But he did it because he believes in karma.click to expand
Posted by Clumsy_Wumsy
I love Saggies as friendS! They don't give no shit and you dont have to walk on eggshells dealing with these creatures.
But, Sag sun Scorpio moon and Sag sun Aries moon scares the shit out of me. They dangerous.
😝😝😝😝
Posted by Centaur12Posted by hellosaggy
I don't know your placements @centaur12
The Gem sounds bi-polar, I have a Gem that blew hot and cold until I left and now she chases me. The Aries sounds engaging and double fire... but the heart wants what it wants you know?
You gave the Gem your position. I don't know your history with her, but for her to throw out "liar" tells me you've had some misunderstandings or truth dodging back in the day... but toxic push-pulls aint where its at.
Give your Aries a chance if you aren't a field player and looking for a solid relationship. You might have to start blocking/ignoring the Gem, because "whoever cares least in the relationship controls it"...and it sounds like she's doing what she wants.
What do you mean by double fire do you mean Sun and moon the aries is definitely engaging she's been showing me alot of attention ans wanting to see me as soon as she can really and when we are together she show me affection and wants to be close.click to expand