onit23 joined May 28, 2018
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- @Praisee hope it's not too late for this piece of advice. I see that in your relationship she's all over you and you're a little overwhelmed now. A man should be independent and carefree, let his woman follows him not the other way around. Anyhow, I know that it's tempting to help the one you love at their low stage in life, but what happens in the near future? It's like a habit, and giving money to help...will it end sometimes? The fact that many saw this as a tantrum is because of the problem is so small, and unworthy to have a fight at all. So what you should do now probably give her space, and do not blame herself, or being too eager around her. Just because you're in a long distance rship it doesn't mean you become dependent to her and supply every one of her demands. I like to see a woman supplying her own demands because it proves her independence, and emotionally prepared for the worst to come because this thing you have here is not that big of a deal comparing to all real fights couples have out there. One day, if the problem isn't you, and she's incapable to be strong as she should be, you would be the one to take the fall. She's been your soulmate and helping you getting better, but you need to know that time changes, people change, and sometimes maybe there is something wrong in her time overseas and she finds every other excuse to vent it somehow. Give her time, slowly talk to her asking about her well-being.
- @ACsquarepluto yes, truly, compromising is just a joke to everyone these days, they believe to self-prioritize and live in a selfish world of theirs. but in order to build a worthy rship, cope must be there. sometimes I just don't know what they're advising about anymore, I guess it's about having compassion or not. thank youu
- @ACsquarepluto thank you, I feel like you're the only one who get what I was feeling, this is to me is a lapse and for that moment I barely knew him which scared me. But things are fine now, and everyone may not trust me but I did trust him fully yesterday, just worried if things were okay. So the title was about testing because I saw this new person so I wondered if that was...a thing or not, you know.
- ok guys I know it was me, I guess I'm surprised by his sudden change, he wasn't like that before so my imagination really ran wild that night. I don't care about him going out, don't get me wrong, I stated clear I'm worried about his well-being because our country has a win in football cup yesterday and people were really crazy on the streets. He traveled and hung out with friends, but never before that night I saw him going out after midnight and that shift was really new to me, so I've been giving myself time to adjust.
- So this man I dated is an Aquarius man. We have the same Venus (Cap) and Mars (Leo), and different moon (his moon is Libra). I'm full aware it took a while for Aquarius man to warm up and feel intimacy/love with a person, he's always been this sweet, mature man and I can trust him (I think) because thanks to our Venus in Cap he's clear intentions.
But this weekend suddenly he became this whole new person. He's usually back home by 10pm, sometimes sooner, and doesn't like beer that much (he's young). But yesterday he was at god-knows-when after a beer night with his buddy at the worst place in town, without any updates. He told me he would go there and vanished. He probably is staying somewhere on the street now, I don't even know. Just imagine this nice boy becoming the worst man you always fear, I'm Pisces so it's tougher to acknowledge a whole new side of your lover since I'm grounded with my partner's personality (not grounded with habits and routines like Taurus).
I don't know if this is just a test from him to see how I react, and he was back home earlier OR he genuinely was this heartless person indulging his own carefree life with buddies. I don't even see it coming, that is the saddest part. Is this the way Aquarius man treats their lover? I'm scared right now since 1 more month he will be off to scholarship for 2 years and tonight derails everything I plan to have with him in our soon-to-be long distance relationship.
Don't get me wrong, I don't care about him going out, but that "worst place" has the most terrific traffic and accidents so this is my protective, caring side. The day before that I went to the waterpark with my bestie, and I fear he must have got the wrong idea and in doubt of my love for him, so he pulls this whole dramatic scene. So confused! Posted by OnTheVirg
The biggest thing for me was they make time. Even if it's just a quick bite to eat or getting ice cream in their hectic day.
So it's not the when-will-we-meet thing, but the stay-in-touch thing even in their hectic days? :")Posted by RollergirlOrc
He wants me to be a porn star.... to him only. (who knew? Ha) which, in other words, means he is enamored with my body but also likes the brains behind it. Wants me to meet his friends. Spends over 24 hours hanging around me. I guess it's that simple, if they like you, they will not get this urge to run away from you after so many hours. They don't hold anything back once they trust you, but then that's a lot of signs.
Yeah, the 'want you to meet his friends' is real, mine is also like that. It's like he's trying to show off his partner to all the friends, "look what I just got here" stuff. But mine also seems aloof, maybe it's a Taurus way when they are sick or handle their own things. The aloofness is confusing all the other signs. Are sometimes they like that?- 💝 So my previous thread reached 105 replies and I found it so entertaining. Sometimes we all need a little bit rest from our personal issues and discuss in general about a sign & our experience on it, that'd be so awesome ya know 😂
Anyway, let's skip all the general they-will-buy-you-food or they-will-act-differently. We all know Taurus men in love will use actions more than words, and they will take you places, or rock your world, etc...But sometimes they're just...aloof or shy or quiet while in a relationship (not angry) and it's really hard to spot their love signs.
What are YOUR signs that help you know your Taurus men like/love you, people? Posted by EtherealTraveler
Posted by onit23
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6 months with a Pisces
pisces is great, how come it ends? :"(
My immaturity and how we kinda no longer felt the chemistry and zeal we used to feel after a series of arguments, she said we should break up else its gonna go super toxic in the long run if we kept dating
It was a really good synastry chart too, sun/moon double whammy, my mars conjunct her venus
I still think about it every now and then and felt a sense of regret and powerlessness
I'm sure she thinks about it too. Sometimes we just need to give things time. Hopefully in a different period of time 2 souls can once again connect. But don't stay too long, if any feeling appears you must grasp it with your bare hands and tell her.
I don't think its possible now for anything aside from a platonic friendship as we are now since she got engaged to someone else days ago I'm now but a fleeting memory in the past, she moves on quickly too so there's also that click to expand
Oh my...I'm sorry for the late response and sorry to hear that. That must be harsh, all the memories I mean. I sometimes I use new emotions to replace the old ones, so sometimes I might be cold to the other and seem ignorant. But after the reminiscent period I hope you will get back out there, human just have different processing pace and it doesn't mean it's the end. Just another good memory to keep in our tiny little hearts :")Posted by EtherealTraveler
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Posted by EtherealTraveler
6 months with a Pisces
pisces is great, how come it ends? :"(
My immaturity and how we kinda no longer felt the chemistry and zeal we used to feel after a series of arguments, she said we should break up else its gonna go super toxic in the long run if we kept dating
It was a really good synastry chart too, sun/moon double whammy, my mars conjunct her venus
I still think about it every now and then and felt a sense of regret and powerlessness click to expand
I'm sure she thinks about it too. Sometimes we just need to give things time. Hopefully in a different period of time 2 souls can once again connect. But don't stay too long, if any feeling appears you must grasp it with your bare hands and tell her.- I'll go first :")
IMO, I think these 2 signs don't quite fit with each other because both Virgo & Taurus are earth sign. And sometimes, emotions can lack in this relationship even though it was fun and memorable. - Some people say Virgo is the most compatible sign with Taurus. But a couple I know with this match, they ended badly after 2 years in a relationship, leaving him broken because Virgo quite changed many things around in that Taurus man's life.
Anyway, the question is: Do you really think Virgo is a match for you, Taurus (man)? And what are the usual reasons why these 2 signs breakup? - @Gemalit Like I said, I did specifically not tell him I was blaming him for the accident, but I told him I was disappointed he was not there for me when I needed he the most. Just imagine, any sign any sign at all, standing right there watching you crashing on the street bleeding. Just visualize the scene, and you will feel me. I spoke directly to him, or via message, only that I disappointed, nothing more.
- @Ariqua wtf I just created a topic asking for a sign of depression or not, not that I created a topic for salvation or cling on belief or anything. You seriously need to chill out, I don't feel hard moving on from this 3-month rship, I only ask for cues whining about how we were so good together blah blah, I just need to make it clear before heading to the doorway and you take everything seriously. If you want more info on a topic, you should have asked. Or at least scroll to page 1 to read, not that entering someone's dashboard - a dashboard even doesn't have the function to update status like social media - don't you think a topic will be fully displayed on its topic why would I need to create 2 topics to explain a story? Don't freaking tell me you're looking for more backstory on its topic, just absurd. And for sure, my love life is not sad. Your comments make it look sad with your own imagination.
- @besarlalluvia he blamed himself but he said everything was best for me to move on without him. The matter in fact when you feel responsible for someone, for not holding your part together, how would you do? Do you cut off ties for new beginning and think they would be better without you...OR, you would stay and try to be better?
It's nonsense blaming yourself and being heroic making the satisfy to leave your loved ones for an Aries. - @Ariqua I usually don't feel the need to explain my love life to stalking people, but I will make an exception now. That was my fling and fling only when my Aries partner broke up with me the first time for small problems he started, he then realized how wrong he was so he got back. I didn't hold grudge over him, but I sure moved on with my love life instantly after his dumping me. I did not do cling, and when came back later I had a hard time accepting him back again, but then committed after everything was settled. Grow up and stop digging people's profiles.
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- @LadyNeptune I understand now, I asked him one clear question was he in or out but then he responded with a very tricky reply that got me confused
- @WolfInRamsClothing I know right, the irony of ignorance from the people we like at that moment but when we put them in the past, they begin to show care. Such good timing.
But there's no definition on being friends after ending things with me. I have my own rule to be clear either 100% or 0% just like you two, even if I feel something, I still need it to be clear first. But this case, he was just SO vague. That's the reason for this whole advice topic. You can read his response of me asking him whether we're still a thing or not (in the most clear question ever) above.