Posted by DMV
Have you broken up yet?
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by piscesman707
We are together because we both loved going on adventures around town. It has only been in the last 6-12 months when she has allowed other people to criticize me and the relationship and then started to become more and critical herself. I feel like she should not be allowing her parents to dictate how her relationship should be. Whenever they have been less than supportive, I have been there.
I feel like she puts a greater priority on other people's approval and what they would think and telling me how I should budget my funds than she should be doing, especially when she has finally graduated and isn't even earning enough money to buy enough groceries. Her parents need to be renovating their home and instead it seems like they are focused on road trips and other pass-times.
She has never lived on her own or been independent enough from either her parents or the church. She has almost 0 savings left to move or attend school or live away from her parents. She hasn't had many friends since she graduated from high school and I guess is keen on keeping casual acquaintances around when she should be listening to someone she has been through a lot with instead (me). I have tried to discuss things with her in a mature manner but today she was avoiding speaking to me at church so I just left and got a ride home with an elderly lady.
Are the two of you the same age? I hear some control issues in that, as in, you see her making mistakes and want to direct her in an attempt to help, but she sees it as interference and rebels.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune
Are you sure she’s not already pregnant?
She seems kinda all over the place talking about breaking up and then walking down the isle. I’ve heard pregnancy hormones are a cookiemonster.
Posted by Boots1313
Why do I get such weird cringy vibes from this...I almost imagine this girl being chained and locked up in your basement.
"She seems to be moody...she's doing chores around the house and cooking for us"...you talk about her like an object and not a person.
I'm sorry to be rude