From December 10-31, Mars slows down and then retrogrades in your romance sector. Circumstances conspire to slow you down if you don't do it yourself! It's time to reassess your life in many areas including romance.
All in all, Aries, your love life takes a more serious tone in 2009, simply because you are viewing your love attachments from a completely different perspective.
Key Periods in 2009: For most of February, Venus is in your sign in direct motion. This is a time when the world seems to speaking, or at least appreciating, your ?love language?. It's a period ripe with opportunity for attracting others, for turning on the charm, and for receiving positive feedback from partners or love interests. Love seems to come to you without the need for your pursuing it. From March 6-April 17, Venus is retrograde in your sign (for the most part). Venus is the goddess of love, but she also rules your partnership sector. This is a period of review and perhaps some negotiation. If you have a partner, he/she might find you a little withdrawn. Some of you may be attracting someone you don't want or need in your life. An old lover could appear, whether in person or in your mind, slowing down your progress in the here and now, for example. During this time of reassessment, avoid making important or permanent decisions. Wait until the last week of April and beyond before you do so, when many of the issues you've been facing could look very different!
From April 25-May 30, both Venus and Mars are traveling close to each other, in your sign! This is a sexy power period. Singles may very well find themselves a passionate relationship now. If there was any lull in your love life during the Venus retrograde period, you're certainly making up for it now! Mars is in your sign specifically from April 22 to May 31, and it's time to go after what (or who) you want with confidence.
From July 23-August 22. Every year when the Sun is in Leo and traveling through your romance sector, your focus is on love, entertainment, romance, and fun.
From August 27-September 5, your charm is easy and natural.
From September 7-29, Mercury is retrograde partly in your partnership sector. It's a time when you should watch what you say in order to avoid misunderstandings in relationships.
From October 16-December 10, Mars is in your romance sector moving in direct motion. The focus is on having fun, confidently going after what you want, and increased sexuality. From October 16 to November 7, Venus is concurrently moving through your partnership sector, making this an exceptional period for love.
Eros was the god of erotic love. The position of the asteroid Eros in our charts points to our passion and erotic turnons. Mars shows us the style in which we go after what we want, including the ways in which we express our sexuality. Venus shows us some of the important ?trappings? and foreplay that help us get in the mood for sex. While the positions of these planets and cosmic bodies in our natal charts remain static, their positions are always changing in the cosmos, activating houses and hotspots in our natal charts. The horoscopes presented here are necessarily general, as we are focusing on only the Sun sign or Ascendant, and how these sexual cosmic bodies are currently affecting the natal chart. Please note: These horoscopes are more accurate for the Ascendant sign, so if you know it, read them for the sign of your Ascendant first, and the sign of your Sun second. Aries
In 2009, your friendships and acquaintances, as well as group activities, are sure to expand. You are reaching out and making connections. This could draw your attention away from one-on-one romance to a certain degree. Two planetary retrogrades in 2009 directly affect your love life: Venus in your sign retrogrades from March 6th to April 17th, and Mars (your ruler) retrogrades in your romance sector from December 20th until March 10th, 2010. During these periods, you are more careful about your love life, drawing back perhaps, and certainly reviewing your love attachments. Some of you may end a romance; others might turn to a past lover for comfort. Many of you will simply take a step back and re-assess your needs in love relationships. Another major influence on your love life in 2009 begins at the end of October, when Saturn enters your opposing sign, Libra, and your partnership sector. This transit will affect those born earlier in the sign of Aries most (from March 21 to 26), and will be stronger for the rest of the sign in 2010. This is a long-term cycle in which commitment and responsibility to a partner becomes paramount. You may be feeling some pressure from outside sources or from a partner, and some soul-searching is in order. Ultimately, you will learn exactly what a close partnership means to you. In November, conflicts between your career efforts and partnership needs are likely to surface.
Yes I do believe patience is one of the hardest things for an Aries to come by. We want everything yesterday. I guess I may look into a fire sign next time because maybe they can handle the Aries impatience and drama.
My dog is gemini. She follows me around the house and wants to be around me constantly but when she knows I am home all day then she will take off and do stuff on her own. I love to hold her when I get a chance but if she doesn't want to be held then she squirms the whole to time to run away. She definetly has the twin personalities going on (very attached/ independent).
I don't get it . . . I tend to attract mostly Leo guys but I don't really care to be with them. I like the earth and water signs more but for some reason I think I scare them off after awhile. I am patient with them and let them do their thing without being possessive because I like my space as well. I have venus in Taurus and mars in Leo so what can I do differently? Are Aries girls just too much for a earth or water sign to handle?
I am dating a man who has both Venus and Mars in Taurus. So far he has been nothing but romantic. However it is the beginning. Could someone with experience please tell me what a man w/ both Venus and Mars in Taurus is like in a relationship?? I would just like to be informed.
I have seen a couple interesting thing is I've learned not to rely too much on what anyone psychic says. I saw a couple because I wanted to verify what the other one said. For the most part I just take lots of notes and let life happen to me. Works well!!! I guess my best advice to you would be don't expect that seeing a psychic will change life drastically for you. It will give you guidance if anything. Happy hunting
thanx for all the advice. BTW I have endured this "friendship" for 3 yrs till date and the fact that I am polite has gotten me into this mess. There is more to this story than I am telling because I don't feel like writing a novel. This just happens to be the straw that broke the camel's back. If I did not want a solution then I would have never posted this here. Also if I wanted to demean her I could have done all that by posting this without asking for advice. I agree this has more to do with her loneliness and not her sign but she is the first Scorpio female friend (I have several close ones) who seems to display this type of behavior. It's just become intolerable. Yes I did use this post as a advice column/rant (everyone has a right to that as long as I am not hurting her). I see everyone's pt . . . I may just do all this in email format. I know I will get a rebuttal from her because she always plays victim but as long as I am forthright in my email there won't be much that she can do. I am an Aries like Gaurav. Also I am not saying that I am without fault (I have my share) but all I want is a solution to end this situation in the most decent way possible. . . and that's what you guys helped me with. Thank you
So I lived w/ a Scorpio woman (roommate) for 4.5 months. We had a 2 bdrm apt out of which I was renting 1 room. Here was the situation She was toooooooooooooooo Needy. She is disabled and is home all day long. So the minute I got home she would hit me with all her problems (how bad her day went). When I would be getting ready to leave in the morning she would stand in front of the bathroom mirror while I got ready and noncessantly talk about all her problems again. So u get the pic day/night of this drove me crazy and I decided to move out. Well the problem is we had a blow out b4 I left because she would constantly want to know where I went and how long b4 I would be home. . . needless to say her overbearing ways led to a blowout between us. Finally the day came for me to move out and she was being Nicey Nicey to me because she wants to keep in touch (she always does things for people for something in return). I had already decided that I didn't want to keep in touch so I was just being polite not friendly. Current problem: She doesn't know where I live (didn't give her the address). She keeps calling, emailing and txting me to ask how I am doing, etc. I don't respond then she leaves me a msg saying I hope all is well because I haven't heard from you and I left her a msg saying everything is fine just very busy. But she doesn't get the msg that I don't want to talk to her anymore and I can't be rude enough to tell her that. I prefer to end things politely so ignoring her is my way of doing this. It feels like she is a leech that just doesn't go away. I can't stand her constant victim mode and incessant complaining (never stops). I don't want to be friends or even acquaintances with her. If she finds my address somewhere she will just show up at my place (she is crazy). My ? to all of you is IS her behavior normal for a scorpio woman?? How should I deal with this? Please don't be rude. I am just fed up and need some advice.
well my ex was an Aries and he didn't realize how much his mother disliked me till now. She went to the extent of breaking us up. . . She was jealous of how close we were. Truth is he still can't give up his family but wants to be with me but I don't see it as working out if that's the case. (just my 2 cents)
Ok so I like a Gem guy. His moon is in Aquarius. Venus in Gemini Mars in Leo
What does all this mean? I have heard a lot about how Gemini's can be big run arounds and that venus in gemini isn't the best placement. Thing is we went on our first date and he REALLY opened up to me. I wasn't expecting that though because isn't a double air sign (gemini sun wit Aquarius moon) not expected to be emotional. Please someone has these placements or knows about them help a girl out here. I am so confused. I don't know if he showed me his emotional side just to test me out or because it really exists.
I can't believe you finally said what I've been thinking for years. I don't understand why women have to be the one to change themselves to be in a relationship. It just doesn't make sense. As it is guys today are commitment phobes and are more into playing the field so why should a woman have to change who she is while he can remain the same. Sorry had to rant . . . u hit the nail on the head