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Posted by sweethearts
What about what they have learnt they can get away with because the woman around them don't hold them accountable to any actions??

Women they are looking at concurring?

I don't think that's a real problem and I personally think that can often lead to a ruin to personal ruin for women who feel they need to focus on man's accountability. Unless you're in a marriage or you're someone's family.

Other than that, really most of it boils down to being accountable to your own self. Be it man or woman. If you're accountable to yourself then you have clear boundaries, and you know why, when and where you're accepting things into your life and on what grounds. It's hard enough to keep that account balanced, so there's no point getting distracted and trying to mother some man into seeing "the error of his ways".

We all have our own path and we walk it in our own time. Hopefully.

Having lived longer than most of you, I see a distinct shift in "tone." While I agree that each of us is personally accountable, it used to be that social pressure was directed towards adhering to norms of decent behavior. But a certain faction raised the failures to universally achieve such norms (which were ever aspirations-- goals-- not certainties) to discredit those norms and to introduce relativism.

A weaker person used to be able to summon those norms for support. Now, invoking them invites attack.

Decent, self-respecting behavior, and respect for others, is fast becoming an anachronism. We were once a society of standards. Now, we are a society of excuses.

Women will be treated as they demand to be treated. It seems that more and more women demand nothing at all-- except attention

Yes, it's really sad and disgusting. Even on here, just observing some of the vulgar, disrespectful shit the men get away with saying when they're "flirting" with the women grosses me out. And the women just get all giggly. "Teehee, he said he wants to rape me and film it!" *swoons*

Women try wayyyyyy too fucking hard to play the role of the "cool girlfriend" who'

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Posted by sweethearts
Problem being...they don't recognise the Facts that they are part of the equation!!

You've summed up DXP in a nutshell

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Posted by Neurotoxin
It's about upbringing.

That determines how a man treats women.

Not birthdate.