Exercise and water, try walking if your not a runner or gym freak. Breathe in lots of fresh air. But the more cardio you do the better for you and the more energetic you will feel. Also helps heaps with moods and depression!
I have over the last couple of years had a number of dealings in my home with married or partnered men...some great looking and some not so, all tradies. They are very friendly especially if you are attractive and talk to you constantly, they listen and talk personal stuff if it comes up and even flirt...
One guy that came to build me a rock wall on a Saturday morning, I invited in for a glass of water after the job was finished...my mum and dad were visiting and he was lovely. He sat and chatted and walked my parents out with me as if he was my partner...haha my mother was smiling as he was a nice looking guy. Harmless because I knew he had a partner but he seemed to just want to talk. This isn't an isolated incident from my experience...
Luckily I know my boundaries because I could have wrecked a few homes if I was that way!
I have also been told by some tradies that they have woman that come on to them, meeting them in their nighties etc and full on looking for more than just working around the house!
I know what I want from her, but I'm not ready to have that yet. Again, people say it's inconsequential, but there are a lot of things not right with her. And maybe they'll never be right, but there are some things that need to be in place before I even take it to that level with her.
You say things like this all the time....from what I have read, it's her calling the shots on whether it is taken to the next level or not...
You might be a grown arse man but even those guys get their hearts broke.. I wonder if she might be more inclined to look at you differently if you stopped throwing around the attitude that you present here to all of us?
Look how many woman here you rub up the wrong way! It really isn;t impressive and as a woman I like a man that can impress me and my friends...the picture you paint is that of a Pimp!
Yep, he is...that's why it didn't work last time around. I told him I wasn't looking for a committed relationship and he found someone that was...that has now ended and I'm not sure how long ago.
He did say to me that he should have listened to me 3 years ago when I told him he needed to take time out and find himself...he "might" do it this time but I'm not convinced...guess I'll meet with him and suss him out again...
Other than that he is a real catch...good looking, tall, a carpenter, has a boat, own business...however, I felt more a friend last time around..
Mmm, not going to sweat it then, not sure about stepping back into anything serious right now. Was thinking maybe because we had been there previously that in his mind, he thinks the door is revolving...and it's not.
His contact is minimal and he's set up lunch for Friday and then also asked me to his place Saturday night for a BBQ get together..find it funny that he didn't wait to see me Friday first before asking for a second date...or why he didn't just go with the BBQ, where others are around.
It's been a couple of years since we saw each other..
I don't know you people but strangely enough a couple of months ago I was asking if we'd be compatible....did I have a strange premonition?? I'm a Libra and I have this Cap guy who I spent time with and yes had sex with 3 years ago after his marriage split. We parted amicable because he wanted too much and didn't like being on his own...way too fast for me.
He's sort me out again by visiting my mother, (his old neighbour) to get my numbers to ask me out.
Part of me thinks maybe he is still in that same place of not wanting to be alone...not sure how long ago he and his gf split..and I have only been out of my relationship for 4 months but feel I'm over that...not sure if I want to jump straight into another though.
So dish up the dirt, what are Cap men like? Do they do the hot/cold, do they jump in too fast or are they more cautious...just want a little heads up.
CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover (December 22 to January 19) Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Grouchy at times and annoying to some. Lazy and love to take it easy, but when they find a job or something they like to do they put their all into it. Proud, understanding and sweet. Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to win against other signs in sports, especially Gemini's. Likes to cook but would rather go out To eat at good restaurants. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart.
Never been out with a Cap...any advice...because he knows what he wants and he is going for it..lunch on the water Friday.
My mother and I clash at times, mostly because she still mothers me and is nosey and frustrating but I love her with all my heart and she is older and I know not here forever so I try to be the good daughter and hold my tongue...
But I always say to my sis-in-law...slap me if I start acting and sounding like her!!
I don't believe you have control over the situation like you think you have....what you want you're not going to get, she has friended you and you take her out and treat her well and she obviously likes you as a person but you're not a romantic partner and the more you are friends the less likely you are ever going to be a romantic partner.
We all have friends like you that want more but we overlook this because we don't want to lose your friendship.
Situation remains the same...let her go but only until you can regain your own composure. This maybe 6 months or a year. Don't answer her texts...she probably doesn't even realise you were that serious about wanting more with her, although I'm sure she knows you have feelings of some nature. But it is in your best interest to move on with your life and accept not all that we want to love, love us back. There will be someone else out there for you...just not if all you can think about is her.
My relationship ended around 4 months ago and since then I have had a few curve balls thrown at me...things I couldn't control but had to swallow..my emotions were all over the place during this time and it was hard to let everything out. I almost went down a road that I would never normally go, I felt to hell with it, I'm always doing the right thing and I just keep getting kicked! But over a couple of days, just the thought of where I was heading and how I was already feeling made me change directions...
I'm so glad I did, I'm happy I didn't become that person..things are already improving and I feel great again. I know things will work out with these obstacles it's just a matter of patience and I'm finding my feet again socially and enjoying my new found freedom.
When life kicks mud at us, it's best to swipe it off and carry on not try and kick it back! Another lesson learnt.
Was out and drinking one night when I jumped on here and saw a pic of Toc...she hadn't put her pic up before but was also drunk... I saved that pic to my phone and it's on my computer...every now and then as I look for pics and I stumble across Toc smiling at me haha