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sweethearts
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I get on with them...but not up close and personal. I get along better and are closer with my rising sign, Taurus.
sweethearts
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Just had a phone call from my mother's old next door neighbour, asking me out to coffee.

We have history, he use to live there with his wife until they split and they had to sell the house in the settlement. He and I went out a couple of times after that and yes, had sex...good sex.. but he wanted to jump straight into another relationship and I said I wouldn't ever live with anyone again... I met someone else and so did he. I popped in to see him to tell him that I was wanting to see where it went with this other guy and he was relieved because he wanted to tell me he had started to see someone else and she was going to move in with him...

Fast forward, 3 years later...I, in fact ended up living with someone for a year and split and he also split with his (not sure how long ago) Anyway today he goes to my mother's place to ask for my phone numbers so he can call me. One thing I liked, this guy rings to talk. He doesn't just drop texts as an easy way out. He has a bit of the old school mentality and takes you out rather than todays easy way technology. I really admire this.

I don't have any real questions but I am wondering and a little excited as it sinks in at what it will be like..whether we will just continue with the friendship or more comes from it because we might be in that different place now and more open possibilities..

One thing for sure, my mother was so excited, more than me lol. She tried ringing me three times before I got his call to tell me how Good looking he is

Now all I want to know is what his star sign is... I'm hoping either Libra or Pisces
Revisiting the old
sweethearts
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Agreed with Nic, Why didn't you talk through things fully with your mate before agreeing to him relocating? Can you reverse that decision now or is it too late and is the reason why you agreed because he selfishly wanted so much to take up this position and you thought you could bend your life to fit in with it?

You know being dependant on someone is more than just financial dependancy, are you dependant on this man to feel whole?

Decisions Decisions...
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Posted by Neurotoxin
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Posted by LilyTree
Posted by Neurotoxin
Now here's a question...

What about single women that do the same to married men?

I think this comes down to moral compass. Many people seem to have lost theirs to a magneto field, and so it goes haywire and they follow wherever it may point.
A man is usually on the position of power when it comes to social interaction (which is why some women mistakenly think it's OKAY for women to sexually harass men, but not the other way around because men have the POWER to act on it and force a woman, but a woman has no such power over a man.) Now, if a man cannot handle a woman who is coming on to him (simply ignoring is the key), then perhaps a part of him WANTS to "slip."

I ask this because I just ran into a former coworker at lunch who now is working in the same building as me. We chatted for a few minutes and that was it.

10 minutes later I'm getting friend requests from her. Ugh.

I'm like seriously?

Desperation for someone...obviously she wanted to make it easier for you to remain in contact with her. Sadly, these days woman feel they have to open all the doors!

No doors will be opened.
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maybe not with you...but someone will take the bait one day. just the way things work these days.
sweethearts
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My brother's older and younger have heaps of greys and have had from quite young. So glad I missed it!

Still it'll be coming for me soon, can't deny it...part of ageing.

The long greys is what I have so that's all cool. I foil so you don't really see them. It's when it starts at the roots, that would be a mission trying to keep them under control!
sweethearts
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It's really not in your control but I know my friends well enough and none of them would enter that territory or vice versa...just a golden rule. They are my friends because I trust them with my deepest secrets.
sweethearts
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I've only seen about 2-3 on my head and I have asked my hairdresser when she foils my hair. I'm glad I don't really have them yet given my age. I do have them in other places though haha a couple that grow in my eyebrows and 1 grey whisker makes an appearance every now and then plus in the other area where hair grows
sweethearts
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Posted by Neurotoxin
Posted by LilyTree
Posted by Neurotoxin
Now here's a question...

What about single women that do the same to married men?

I think this comes down to moral compass. Many people seem to have lost theirs to a magneto field, and so it goes haywire and they follow wherever it may point.
A man is usually on the position of power when it comes to social interaction (which is why some women mistakenly think it's OKAY for women to sexually harass men, but not the other way around because men have the POWER to act on it and force a woman, but a woman has no such power over a man.) Now, if a man cannot handle a woman who is coming on to him (simply ignoring is the key), then perhaps a part of him WANTS to "slip."

I ask this because I just ran into a former coworker at lunch who now is working in the same building as me. We chatted for a few minutes and that was it.

10 minutes later I'm getting friend requests from her. Ugh.

I'm like seriously?
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Desperation for someone...obviously she wanted to make it easier for you to remain in contact with her. Sadly, these days woman feel they have to open all the doors!
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I've lost several people to cancer and that would make me think things through thoroughly if someone that I had been on 1 date with told me that!!! I don't understand why you would put him through that when you are in the very very early stages of getting to know someone? Even if you are looking for someone that will see you through this traumatic time, this isn't the best way to go about it.

Do you really think you were being fair to him?
Stood up
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Oh Bling beat me to it!!
Get to 10 posts before another sign gatecrashes!!!
sweethearts
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Crash!!!
Get to 10 posts before another sign gatecrashes!!!
sweethearts
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Posted by Mr. Defense
Reposting this from Libra board...

I finally checked my Facebook after actively ignoring it for the whole day. The Taurus girl never accepted my friend request. I think it's clear what is going on here. I don't think she wants anything to do with me. I think I need to end it, and never speak to her again. I hope she is willing to show up for dinner so I can break the news in person. It's so tacky to do it over text. I need to spend this time with a better woman. She'll never be good to me. Just need to man up and move on with my life. I really wish she never came back in the picture. I was doing fine accepting the fact she was gone for good.

Move on...

Rejection from someone you like is one of the worst feelings in the world, it drags you down even when you are a very confident person. It has a way of eating at you!

One of the next hardest things to do is to walk away and not look back..but for your own good I think you need to do that with this one...Don't look back, Mr D!! Go ahead and throw yourself into your job and make that money until someone new comes in for you to focus on.
sweethearts
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My cancer and I never saw eye to eye and it was a rocky road. I loved him dearly as he was my first love and we reunited as adults...nothing changed, I would frustrate the hell out of him and he me. He called it quits during our short lived 2nd time around and me and my stubborn pride up and left without contact..2 weeks later he came a calling and I just went weak at he knees again...

I would think this could potentially be a volatile relationship...

I remember he use to get so angry at me all the time!! Is that in your nature???
Libra Women, sexy but flighty
sweethearts
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Marriage partners work together all the time. They run businesses together and successfully. So I don't buy that at all, they aren't living together...however, given their track record I would be cautious of doing it. Given the money is great, and these days that is important as the cost of living is going up everyday and making it harder to just live let alone buy a home or travel and enjoy some of the fruits of our labour.

My thoughts on it Scorp is, what if your relationship takes another dive? Can you still handle working with him as your boss? What if he hooked up with that girl that he texted after you split or anyone else...can you live with that? Could he live with being your boss if you should find someone else?? That is what I would focus on should you decide to do it!

here's a tricky question for you virgo's
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I would think 50...this day and age the majority of the woman/girls sleep with guys on the first date/meeting so I'd be willing to bet that the majority of girls have in fact had 20 or more or very damn close to that many partners!Considering these days they start around 13-14 and some even sooner!!!

But what's that got to do with the OP anyhow???
sweethearts
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Posted by geminicandle
Posted by sweethearts
I dread the day I run into mine...I know it will be just like that. It's rejection all over and that hurts!

ONe thing I know for sure, for whatever reason we split. I am in a better place personally than he is and that's all that matters..

If time goes by long enough now, it won't effect me as much but there will be a pang of hurt. And tbh, I wouldn't have said anything either, I would have just turned and walked away and held my head up high!

Yeah, sweets, but doesn't it still hurt?
You used to love this person, they loved you. You shared life, memories, and now...not even a hello. It's like they died.
It's just like a loss. It leaves a huge hole and void

Gah, I hate being so emotional sometimes.
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Of course it hurts!!!

Just remember that you look great and I like to think, there loss...whether it's true or not

But I know the feeling, you just need to block it out so it doesn't eat you up...the worst part is you've taken two steps backwards temporarily and now have to shake the feeling and the thoughts to get back on tract to you!

I'm staying away from anywhere that I might come anywhere near mine because I'm only 90% there and I don't want to go backwards.

Go out and treat yourself! Glad you looked great though and weren't in track pants and slumming around Bet he noticed how good you looked too
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I dread the day I run into mine...I know it will be just like that. It's rejection all over and that hurts!

ONe thing I know for sure, for whatever reason we split. I am in a better place personally than he is and that's all that matters..

If time goes by long enough now, it won't effect me as much but there will be a pang of hurt. And tbh, I wouldn't have said anything either, I would have just turned and walked away and held my head up high!

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