Yes you do

That was awesome thanks...although it's all work and no romance for me. But at least it's all positive and I'm going to do great things

I've always run when life gets me down with the big things splits, death...changed houses, jumped on a plane and flown home to family...it's helped temporarily...but I always have to go back and face the problem and deal with it eventually...it just allows me a bit of time for things to sink in.

TOC and TV ran away and eloped

But even if she wants a family, he (if he wants & is still capable) could give her that. It's possible, but at his age it's probably the last thing on his mind...I know I couldn't do it all again!!

Djb brings up some valid points, as he always does. I'm still of the mind that you should proceed with your divorce without involving her any further and take some time out for yourself first. Twenty years is a long time in a relationship and dissolving it is not just signing a piece of paper...you'll find there is so much more involved with family finances and friends.. why complicate it further? And its nit fair to her or your family. You've stated you have already waited 3 years, what's another 6-12 months?

But unlike djb, I think in the right time perhaps you can have relationship with this woman.

Got it silly me, didn't use the embedded code! Too late to be playing here...night

ok, so looks like I'm embedding wrong???

Can you walk me through it Bling? I put this up

Thanks E thought it might have been but I had to sign out and stalk myself to see it

pics and vids so they show up on the front page when someone looks in? I have noticed in others profiles all sorts of things going on like a song playing when you open it but I'm not sure how or where to add it.

Agreed, I don't think it comes down to star signs, there are so many things that factor into being a home wrecker, upbringing, self esteem, morals..everyone at some point in their lives feels attraction to someone that isn't available...it's what you choose to do about it at the time that seals the deal!

Pretty accurate in a few things, especially the addictive personality...definitely got that! Just as well I'm addicted to working out atm...and I think dancing again after this weekend

drawn to an Aries??? Really?? Not sure on that one!

It's for his own ego...he wants to know that you still think of him and like him. Probably at a time in his life when he is lost and lonely. Ignore him next time around...bet he checks back more than once!

If they have learned to stand up for themselves and their dreams, this is the period during which these intelligent, intuitive and highly imaginative dreamers will finally be able to turn their visions of progress and improvement into a reality.
On the dark side
Passive, needy, jealous
At your best
Imaginative, insightful, popular
LOVE AN OPEN BOOK
People born on October 9 tend to wear their heart on their sleeve when they fall in love and they will give their body and soul to their partner. Although this means they can be supportive, romantic and passionate, it can also mean that they become jealous and controlling, or that they become too accommodating. Developing their identity outside their relationship???and allowing their partner to do the same???are therefore crucial.
HEALTH LET GO OF GRUDGES
Being able to forgive and let go of angry or negative thoughts promotes not just emotional but physical health. It is important for these people to avoid holding grudges because they are prone to bouts of jealousy, anger and insecurity. Listening to their intuition when things don??t go as planned will help them take the right action. It will also help them stand up for themselves when others try to take advantage of their giving nature. Positive thinking or assertiveness programs, such as cognitive behavioral therapy, will be extremely beneficial, as will yoga and meditation. As far as diet is concerned, they need to find out what kinds of food and drink suit them rather than allowing friends or partners to impose their diet regime. The same goes for exercise. Recreational drugs, alcohol and smoking should all be avoided, as there are addictive tendencies on this birthday. Wearing the color red will encourage them to be more assertive and have more selfbelief.

Your greatest challenge is??_
tempering your eagerness to please
The way forward is??_
to understand that people will respect you more not less if you develop your selfesteem.
You??re drawn to people born on??_
March 21 to April 19
You are very different but this creates an ???opposites attract?? scenario in which you can learn from each other.
Luck maker
Trust your hunches
Your intuition is a gift that can bring you luck, success and happiness. You owe it to yourself to pay attention to it.
Very little escapes the attention of people born on October 9. Acutely observant, they are fascinated by all aspects of human behavior and interaction. In addition, they are extremely perceptive individuals with the ability to spot weaknesses or failings in others; but because they are also extremely sensitive, their insights and imaginative solutions will not offend but inspire others.
As natural psychologists, these people are extremely inquisitive individuals. They are fascinated by everyone they meet and every new situation they are in; when this openmindedness is combined with their intelligence and energetic style , it is small wonder they are often very popular. They have many talents and will probably experiment with several different professions before they settle into the kind of work which can utilize them all. Although it may take a while???and there may be lots of stops and starts professionally???they do tend to find their feet eventually. Their personal life may be quite a different story. This is because the perception and insight that are the trademarks of these people somehow do not translate into selfawareness.
Until the age of forty-four there is an emphasis on issues concerning change and the transformation of their personal motivation. These are the years when they are most likely to look outside of themselves for a sense of purpose and identity, perhaps in their career or in their relationships with others. These are also the years when their eagerness to please can overshadow their willpower; it is vital for them to listen to and trust their intuition, which more often that not has been right all along. After the age of forty-five there is a turning point where they are likely to become more adventurous and freedom loving, and their genuine enjoyment of life will shine through clearly.

Driving me crazy, your frozen front pages. Can't see who's commenting on what topics!

That was romancing haha not financing...damn phones!