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Posted by AfternoonDelights22Posted by sweethearts
After watching the bucket list, I am of the attitude to live life to the full as if it may be your last...but if the day came for real and I was given a certain time then gather all my family and closest friends and be with them. Wouldn't tell them why though, want it happy not a sad occasion.
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Posted by BalmyTigress
I still don't understand how people find out others' birth dates and times so easily :-) How exactly do you sneak that into a casual discussion? The only times I've asked anyone I've felt as if I'm asking for their social security number "just for fun".
Posted by NicroblizPosted by sweetheartsPosted by NicroblizPosted by sweethearts
I do the "have you cheated before" question when first meeting a guy and before getting involved but you don't know them very well so it's gut instinct or trusting a stranger..
And what good is that?!
There are some who have cheated and then learnt their lesson, while there are others who haven't. There are also some who have never cheated but may have the potential to do so, given the ideal circumstances. And then there are those who find lying and deceiving relatively easy.
I'm really sorry to hear about what happened with your ex but many women fail to use simple reasoning and logic to avoid such pitfalls. No, there's nothing 100% foolproof but it's a lot better than the short-sighted strategy you mentioned above.
Quite simply, if they have in previous relationships there is a higher chance that they will again. I'd ask for further information about it, before making any decision on it but it would factor in whether I proceed with this relationship. I do believe that 90% of cheaters remain that way. And tbh, I'm not
willing to risk my heart to one. It's too precious!
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