Posted by NicroblizPosted by sweethearts
I do the "have you cheated before" question when first meeting a guy and before getting involved but you don't know them very well so it's gut instinct or trusting a stranger..
And what good is that?!
There are some who have cheated and then learnt their lesson, while there are others who haven't. There are also some who have never cheated but may have the potential to do so, given the ideal circumstances. And then there are those who find lying and deceiving relatively easy.
I'm really sorry to hear about what happened with your ex but many women fail to use simple reasoning and logic to avoid such pitfalls. No, there's nothing 100% foolproof but it's a lot better than the short-sighted strategy you mentioned above.click to expand
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Posted by Fire-Water
You think most people settle down after two serious relationships and the last one lasts forever?
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Posted by aquarius09
I just recently saw my ex, who cheated on me and then strung me along. He kept his lies up forever. I found out the truth 2 years late thanks to my own investigative work, which I'm not proud of but I did it as a last resort to reach the truth once and for all. I could've gotten even so nicely with him, but I didn't want to stoop to his level and I wanted karma to do justice.
Anyways, I saw him last week after 2 years, and damn I'm glad she stole him away from meLMAO.
He was always short, but now he's fat and losing hair. This receding hairline was just unbelievable! The things that can happen within 2 years. Wow!
I feel so evil because ever since I've seen him, I've had the biggest grin on my face. I'm on cloud 9, and just loving God all the more. Amazing what losing your looks can do to a scum. Makes him a one woman man. When I see bad people, who hurt others for their selfishness, suffer, it makes me incredibly happy!
Call me superficial or evil, as my bros are, but I'm on cloud 9. Yay for karma!!