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sweethearts
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Posted by Vero23
I'm Cancer Metal Horse. They both fit me well. I love to travel but I love home. I like being around ppl but I need solitude. My Cancer aspect brings out my artistic and Psychic side. The Horse aspect makes my great wirh my hands musically. I'm very persuasive but chooses not to use that harmfully. My body has a strong buid to it and id say I have sex appeal, especially when I'm not trying lol I don't get that part but I'm not complaining. I do run in to problems with love bcz there is this horse side of me that wants to be free but my Cancer side tries to take over. Cancer is moody and according to Astrology, the anger is terrible. The horse in me is very hot tempered as well so when I'm mad I scare myself as well and ppl don't look at me the same but at least it's rare.

I want to hear of your all Astrology makeup!

I'm a Libra Horse... don't know much about the Chinese Horoscope but from what you say...No I have no musical bone in my body and Yes I have a Hot Temper but think that the Libra in me might contain that...don't get really upset much or if I do it is fairly short lived!
Any Horses in the house?
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sweethearts
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Posted by libragemmale
Elle With Libra ,If you are loved you will love right back x 10. I only know one person with venus in Libra (scorp sun/sag moon) and she's pretty wonderful.I think the placement of Venus in the sign of Libra is the best place to have it .You are blessed with that placement.Enjoy it

You hit the nail on the head there Libragem, **If you are loved you will love right back.**
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
To be Loved

Been both, have loved and been loved and found I like the security when I was loved.
sweethearts
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Get over it and move on!!!
Not too serious but...
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Personally I don't think they actually play the game as such.

From experience I have always had guys contact me constantly and straight away but that was because they were very keen. If they take their time or hold out, it just tells me they aren't really that interested. And in turn, they don't interest me.
How many men...
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I understand that, it just took me so long to allow myself to be loved again after my marriage split. 5 Years, and I totally thought this one was trustworthy. I totally trusted him with my everything, my kids were blown away that I bought a man into our home and then defended him and the boundaries when he moved in. Being in a house of girls, trust me there were some issues.

I'm glad though that it unfolded once I had already processed the demise of the relationship.

I think I'll be ok next time around, but I am also naturally suspicious that will be the problem!
Texts and Ex's
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
No, my boy licks everyone but this guy he growled all the time, even sometimes when he was living with us he was growled at when he came home!

I think I'm past the worst now Done and dusted with that one and ready to move forward!
Texts and Ex's
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
@ Wagtail, Tiz explaination is correct.

@DJB, in hindsight...not having full closure was easier but I'm glad it happened when it happened because I was already over it and it only took me out again for another day. I'm keeping it moving as I was before this came to light.

I intend to be a lot more cautious next time around and take things very slowly AND listen to my gut instinct...especially this...OH and MY DOG, he always growled at him when he came over and he never ever growls at anyone!!!!
Texts and Ex's
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Unless, I have children with the ex...I don't maintain contact. Each person is different and some people can maintain contact and that's all it is...birthdays possibly, FB these days but I have to be completely comfortable with trusting that person. If they have cheated on previous relationships...I won't risk my heart there...

Really got to take each person that comes along and weigh it all up then...

I'm just scared that my intuition and alarm bells weren't on cue with this one...maybe with his ex cheating on him...I should have questioned. Was she the only one that cheated?
Texts and Ex's
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I know! I'm dis-heartened now and don't want to have this over me when I next meet someone. I'm also a very Jealous person but I never felt like this with this guy because I just simple never thought he would entertain it. I do the "have you cheated before" question when first meeting a guy and before getting involved but you don't know them very well so it's gut instinct or trusting a stranger..
Texts and Ex's
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
My relationship of 1 and a half years ended 3 months ago. Been dealing with it, no contact for most of it, it was hard had ups and down times but managed to process a lot in my own head and finally deleted all contact numbers and all texts on Saturday as I felt strong enough that I had processed most of the demise.

Saturday night while trying to sync my mobile into my Apple Mac so I could transfer the music and movies that were stored onto my phone I ended syncing my ex's phone to mine and the result was that I received all his texts from a 6 month period.

I scrolled through and read any female texts, never thought he had cheated, didn't think that was a problem in our relationship but found he had kept in contact with a few girls or rather from what I could see they would text him every now and then to keep in contact with him and check whether he was single or not. He also met up with an ex one Sunday, he had texted her if she was home and when she replied he went straight over. Now I don't really care anymore what went on there...nothing I can do about it now but it does pose some questions with the way everything is these days and how easy it is to cheat if that is the type of person you are.

It just seems to be common for people to keep in touch with exs and old flings while still in a relationship with someone else and when that relationship is not as rosy as in the beginning it's easy to fall on someone else. It scares me for the next person I meet. It never occurred to me this guy was anything but faithful and now seeing it with my own eyes, there is doubt. He had a lock on his phone but I don't want to go into the next relationship with suspicious eyes.

How do you get past this now insecure feeling. It just seems so common!
Texts and Ex's
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
How do you handle guilt? If you have betrayed the one you love, how do you feel the next day and week and month/s.

How do you deal with it and how does it effect you daily...if at all?
Libra's
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Thanks Moody,

Juno in Cancer, Vesta in Virgo...feels better already because my Mars and Jupiter are in Leo...now that's a scary thought!!
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
How do you work out your Juno? Read through this... http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/Juno21.3.html

Do you pick it to what you need?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Geez Kalin,

Why are you even entertaining him? When are you going to see that he is never going to come back to you?

What are you even trying to do? Change his mind about marrying the girl that he cheated on you to be with or are you just staying in his face to get back at her and cause trouble for them. You are acting like a total "nobody" you place no value on yourself as a person and that's the way he sees you and even then 'you' are the one that is sorry for upsetting him!

What is it going to take for you to wake up and realise that you need to take yourself out of the equation? Or will you waste years hanging around after they are married looking for an opportunity to be his slut?

Go see a councillor, you really need professional help!
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
The part that is crystal clear is you voice one thing but your actions are the complete opposite...and as we have all learnt here, actions speak louder than words!
To be, or Not to be
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
You met him while on holiday...you don't even know his personality to like him.

Keep it moving, mark this up to a summer love!
Silent treatment
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
What's up with Libran men? Do they attract or do they specifically go after dense woman? Have you noticed the threads here lately and all the idiotic questions about how to get this Libra man back that these woman have never had in the first place, bar perhaps a one night stand and being led around on a string with a few texted messages and nicely spoken words??

Driving me insane coming into our own thread to see it filled with the stupidest questions on how to get them back.....especially since they never had them in the first place!

This seems to be the only thread that makes sense around here these days...
What is your opinion?
sweethearts
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Posted by Wanderlust101
@ sweethearts - WoW ok, I didn't realise that it was the bad side, I just thought that it was the other side. I guess you are the type who sees the glass half empty, j.k. Yes, I would be very much glad if the Aries & I remain the same way we are. I know she will be more than happy to compromise her desires for this relationship, but she's arse ove tit for me and her expectations will come thrashing down when she expect me to be in love with her too. I also could step forward and try to be in a serious relationship, but I know for sure that I will be the first one out the door. In either scenario, the outlook isn't so merry for her. I just don't know anymore which path to continue on to !

Well I see it as you selfishly looking out for you when you know full well that you are leading these women who want a real relationship on. And given the extent of your time with them, years not weeks, hours or months during this precious time in their lives, which you are also fully aware of but don't seem to care. Yes, I think it is the bad side of a Libra or it demonstrates your self loving side that really doesn't consider anyone or anybody except themselves!
To be, or Not to be

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