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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Thanks Moody,

Juno in Cancer, Vesta in Virgo...feels better already because my Mars and Jupiter are in Leo...now that's a scary thought!!
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
How do you work out your Juno? Read through this... http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/Juno21.3.html

Do you pick it to what you need?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Geez Kalin,

Why are you even entertaining him? When are you going to see that he is never going to come back to you?

What are you even trying to do? Change his mind about marrying the girl that he cheated on you to be with or are you just staying in his face to get back at her and cause trouble for them. You are acting like a total "nobody" you place no value on yourself as a person and that's the way he sees you and even then 'you' are the one that is sorry for upsetting him!

What is it going to take for you to wake up and realise that you need to take yourself out of the equation? Or will you waste years hanging around after they are married looking for an opportunity to be his slut?

Go see a councillor, you really need professional help!
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
The part that is crystal clear is you voice one thing but your actions are the complete opposite...and as we have all learnt here, actions speak louder than words!
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
You met him while on holiday...you don't even know his personality to like him.

Keep it moving, mark this up to a summer love!
Silent treatment
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
What's up with Libran men? Do they attract or do they specifically go after dense woman? Have you noticed the threads here lately and all the idiotic questions about how to get this Libra man back that these woman have never had in the first place, bar perhaps a one night stand and being led around on a string with a few texted messages and nicely spoken words??

Driving me insane coming into our own thread to see it filled with the stupidest questions on how to get them back.....especially since they never had them in the first place!

This seems to be the only thread that makes sense around here these days...
What is your opinion?
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by Wanderlust101
@ sweethearts - WoW ok, I didn't realise that it was the bad side, I just thought that it was the other side. I guess you are the type who sees the glass half empty, j.k. Yes, I would be very much glad if the Aries & I remain the same way we are. I know she will be more than happy to compromise her desires for this relationship, but she's arse ove tit for me and her expectations will come thrashing down when she expect me to be in love with her too. I also could step forward and try to be in a serious relationship, but I know for sure that I will be the first one out the door. In either scenario, the outlook isn't so merry for her. I just don't know anymore which path to continue on to !

Well I see it as you selfishly looking out for you when you know full well that you are leading these women who want a real relationship on. And given the extent of your time with them, years not weeks, hours or months during this precious time in their lives, which you are also fully aware of but don't seem to care. Yes, I think it is the bad side of a Libra or it demonstrates your self loving side that really doesn't consider anyone or anybody except themselves!
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sweethearts
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sweethearts
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I personally would find it very interesting if you end it with the Aries because although you are quite content with your situation you put her needs ahead of your own...
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Keep talking though...marvellous insight to the male Libra that has us all caught up..you are in effect teaching a few here about their own Leebs. The bad side...Tiz has already given many a view on the good side..but we all need the other end of the scale
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by tiziani
I see what you did there

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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
The way I see it, if you keep poking the fire...eventually you will get burnt.

If he wants to play with these woman who are in the prime of their lives (whether they acknowledge to themselves or not they want kids, family etc) he will eventually be caught! In fact, he already understands while he is dating them that they want children and marriage. I don't think they have hidden their agenda from him at all. As he has told them openly that he isn't the relationship type but continues to be in a form of a relationship with them...so they then feel that he does and will change his mind, he's just not ready to now...

And Tiz, every woman knows when she is in her "Prime time for producing" not all want children in this time but we certainly know the odds of having healthy children after the age of 35. Just like we know every month we have a cycle and most of us even know within that cycle what 2 days we can re-produce.

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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by LIBRA1234
aaaa u are 23 only! u are a baby, u are ok

Agreed, you're age reflects you feelings and attitude. But also know that that same age is the age in which a woman is looking to be settling down and marrying and having children! Depending how many she has in mind, age gap, time for the two of you to enjoy each other first before children and all before 35! This is a crucial time for her, not a time to be wasted on window shoppers!
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Some people open their mouths and shit falls out before their brains have half a chance to catch up...this is the case with this one...seen it many times before.
geminicandle is worse than racist ......
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I know sometimes I am a cold hearted bastard, but never unfair or unjust.

This is also BULLSHIT!! You are Libra and you are justifying your selfish ways and you "think" you are being fair and just...but Honey, we Libras here have called you up on it, not just me but several here and you really are being "UNJUST AND UNFAIR"
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Honey, what you fail to understand is that she THINKS you are the one for her and she can fix you. She is not going to even going to notice any man no matter what he looks like because you are her focus...she will never really find happiness and her lives fulfilment unless you take yourself away and allow her to...yes she will hurt but she will mend.

You are selfishly denying her any "REAL" happiness. Because you selfishly want to grow tired of her BEFORE you let her go.

Man up, hurt yourself a little OR one of these lovely ladies is going to get PREGNANT and try and trap you Happens all the time and then you will be FUCKED!!! And deserve it too, I might add!
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
The hardest thing in the world is to move on when you still have hopes and feelings for some guy...you fantasize that they will come back to you...but in your fantasies...do they come back and say what he has?? Or do they say they wished they could reverse things and tell you without a doubt that you are the one for them and they were foolish to have ever let you go?

If he isn't saying these thing...he isn't saying anything at all is he?

It's hard...I know, I'm doing it too... But keep moving because day by day you are getting stronger and one day you will look back and you will wonder what the hell you even saw in this guy in the first place!
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by Wanderlust101
@ Sweethearts - I understand your point about Women's inherent need to fix, I have seen it & experienced it personally myself, and talking about innocence; Well I stopped being innocent since I was 12 or so. I am not exactly sure whether I am emotionally available or not, but I guess if I am not letting myself get beyond a point in a relationship, your point could be right on the money. I appreciate your candour !

@ TaurusNikki - I am not trying to oppose your view, I believe we just have a difference of opinion here. The only thing I am not giving in my relationship is a commitment to be serious, and I think I reserve the right to do so. You put it quite eloquently when you say that I could have walked away at anytime, but you know the reason why I don't is because I care about the relationship. I want it, I like it and I would like to cherish it. The Aries I am dating wants a certain kind of relationship( where we both be serious and eventually have a family ) ergo, I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.

I've just stepped out of a relationship like the one you present...I know the trickery and how you make out you are all that and more and let the woman believe she is all that to you to. We woman when we set up, we set up for life! You and your lot, pretend and lie maybe (white lie) is how you feel but it's still a cold hearted lie...in the end, we are the ones that you cripple...just as well for me I'm older and more mature and independent so I can pick myself up easier. I have had the children and the marriage previously...I feel for the girls that you wound around your lies because tbh...you are using up their time when they can be looking for someone that is more dedicated and more honest and more loving than you can ever be. Set them free...especially the girl you are with now. She can have a real life and fulfil her needs before you suck the life out of her!
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I remember you now, I answered you once before and then you abused me through PM because you don't like the feedback..

You really need to open your eyes a little wider, I understand you are young but you can't be that young dumb and selfish..or can you?

You know what you should try...try reversing the situation and put yourself in his shoes...bet you wouldn't like it!
Why did he disappear and make no contact? :(
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Love, if it hasn't happened now then it's not going to happen in the future...what so you are just going to turn on your feelings of love for this guy when you haven't got anyone else better??

If you consider yourself a friend, a real friend, then let him go and let him find someone that truly wants him. You obviously don't and why should he wait around indefinitely for someone that will never fully be committed to him. And no, you don't have any right whatsoever of being able to know what is going on in his life. Your not his mother!

What you are suggesting and the way you think is purely "SELFISHNESS" meaning it's all about you and to hell with what he is going through!
Why did he disappear and make no contact? :(

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