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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
In life, if things go wrong and I dare to feel sorry for myself, I remind myself how blessed my life is and then I look at other less fortunate, people dealing with real loss and tell myself to pick myself up… it could be so much worse!!! Be thankful.

If it’s relationships… I Analyse it completely warts and all so I can make myself move on
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Cheated on: yes

1) How did you find out?
He showed up with her

2) Did you stay with the other person and why/why not?
Yes, my first love and he made promises to change

3) Did you learn anything from it and, if so, what?
Yes, refer to the end

4) Do you feel like you might have played a part in what happened?
No, he was immature and just went with the feels

Cheaters:
1) why did you cheat?
Payback

2) Who did you cheat with (not looking for specifics) and why?
Slept with his best mate!

3) how did the relationship start? Did it end?
One random night at a party, 1 night only.

4) did you learn anything from it? If so, what?
Yes, some friends are shit friends!! Refer to the end..

I was young and immature, he was young and immature. Even though we thought we were old enough we weren’t.
I learned very young, how much it hurts to be cheated on and how much it hurts to cheat on someone. When you cheat on someone, it doesn’t come without consequences. You still have to face up to what you’ve done and how you’ve deeply cut someone that you love.

Most of all, I learned I don’t ever want to go through those hurts and those conversations ever again.
Monogamy
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
It’s sexual harassment regardless of whether she is your superior or not. Talk to her tell her to stop or you’ll Report it. Don’t sugar coat these things or make excuses because you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. She clearly doesn’t consider how you feel, so address it and put a stop to it once and for all!!
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Ewww note to self.. stare clear off manwhore Scorps
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Googled cancer men, my sweetheart
He’s passed now

Boredom, addiction and entertainment when not working.
sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
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sweethearts
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Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by Truemara
Posted by LadyNeptune
I’m actually shocked so many people think it’s ok to show up uninvited to someone’s house.

Unless you were given a key and invited to walk in whenever that is not ok. Huge breach of trust and kinda creepy stalker vibes IMO. Huge trigger for me. Your home is your sanctuary. I’ve ended relationships for much less let alone a fuck buddy situationship.

Thinking your entitled to someone’s whereabouts and schedule because you ‘misplaced’ an item of yours in their space is wild.

I’m Mexican that’s what family n freinds do💁
Show up
Unannounced
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My friends and family show up unannounced too, always have so No issues there… but I was thinking, if I had slept with someone even a couple times and we weren’t in a relationship, not sure if I’d want him to show up unannounced and I wouldn’t drop into his either.
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I didn’t think much of Vegas, but I’m not a gambler at all. I’m saying that it was the most memorable experience I’ve ever had.

I went on a helicopter ride over the Grand Canyon!!! Picked up at my hotel by a limousine, flew over the Grand Canyon and dropped off for a picnic and then back to fly over the strip on sundown. Absolutely magical!!! Flying in and seeing that great big gold bullion (trump tower) glistening and depicting Vegas to a tee!!!
Vegas Recomendations?
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Brutally honest
I don’t mince words
Don’t take shit

Funny, because I’m always trying to sugar Coat things so I don’t offend but I guess when push comes to shove… no filter

Libra Sun…
Leo dominant
Taurus rising
How do people closest to you describe you?
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by poppyflower
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by poppyflower
Posted by MyStarsShine
“Was paid to get the doses”

Fucked up
How could this happen?

😐

Looks like they don't need ID to get the doses. 😐

How messed up is that?
Death by Covid jab overdose 😐😬

I've read that it's cuz they were trying to make it more accessible.

I still don't get the reasoning. They don't need to check health cards but at least they should make sure the face match the name.
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They don’t have health cards in NZ. It’s a user pays system, not government funded.
New Zealand authorities investigate claims man received 10 Covid vaccinations in one day
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by pooface222
Posted by sweethearts
A woman scorned huh??

You are not the “Victim” you knowingly went into this when neither of you were free, you were both married.

Everything you’ve been through, you deserve as “the other woman”

Confronting his wife is pure vindictiveness on your part. If I can’t have him, I’m going to blow the whole thing up in his face!!

Just walk away, you’ve been defeated, take whatever self respect you have for yourself and build a better person and STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN!!! No matter how cute they are or how much chemistry you feel with them!

Errr First of All take away your judgement!

HE SHOULD HAVE STAYED AWAY FROM ME!!

HE is NOT Married! He's in a relationship with a woman who left her husband and kids fir Him!

I WAS Married! AND with a 4 month old baby!

He PUSHED me to LEAVE my husband!" THEN Vanished on me when I wasn't leaving IMMEDIATELY!
THEN..ignored my calls.
THEN after a few weeks CAME BACK INTO MY LIFE, and stated the Whole Cycle AGAIN!
Over and Over.
Each time saying to me "Why are you with your husband? Leave him! I'm in love with you!"

I POST-NATAL too!
Suffering Depression.
And had a Controlling Aries husband!
Who Now looks like an Angel compared to this Pisces because at least my husband actually built a life with me! Long-term!

I've been divorced 2 Years now!
Pisces supported me through it.
He talked to me about us having a Life together - THIS YEAR TOO (2021)!
He literally said to me "Its Well and Truly Over Between Me and My Partner."

So Yeah!
When he talks to me like THAT for 7 YEARS - including this year (2021), And about our life together and our kids seeing each other together (his son is 21 though and left home), I'm going to think he's leaving her.

But all the way along the line its been HIM CHASING A MARRIED WOMAN - ME!

And its the THIRD time he has Done this!

His Wife was Married when she met him!
His Partner was Married when she met him!
I was Married when I met him!

We All Lost our marriages to him!

And now I'm Divorced, He hasn't left!

Rant Over!
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None of what you are saying here is anything more that Woe is me, hunny, you are the one that has put yourself in this position. You left your husband and continue to have an affair with a “married man” he might not have said the vows but he is living with her like a married couple. Not only that but you’ve been believing his BS for 7 years including 2021 and you keep believing it!!! And it’s just BS to get whatever he wants.

Only you can get yourself out of this, stop blaming everyone else including the Dxpers who have commented and judged as you say on reading your continual posts asking for advice… none of which you take on board and try to get yourself out of this situation.

Start looking at yourself in the mirror and liking that person!
I Need to Vent! And Yes its about the Pisces guy again!
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by bmoon8
Posted by sweethearts
Love and Career guidance please

The Hermit.

Inner reflection, meditation, contemplation, soul-searching, inner wisdom, spiritual mentor, finding your guide within, taking time away from the chaos of a busy life, “hermitting”

It’s time to make space for your sacred aloneness and self-care. If you are feeling disconnected from your spiritual north, this time of solitary withdrawal will help you to connect with your own compass.

Soul purpose, spiritual awakening, and deep inner wisdom spring from this energy. Sometimes, we run the risk of being so introspective that we lose our connections to others, or worse-we can dive so deeply into our stories of struggle that we inadvertently begin to believe that our wounds will be a part of our forever-identity.

In the deepest trenches of self discovery, we must remember that our continual search for our own healing and inner truth does not mean that we are not already whole and healed.

Emerge from your inner retreat with beautiful insights from Spirit and allow yourself to navigate the path with your brightly illuminated heart.
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Thank you… bit of thought into that, particularly the last part. 🙏
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Love and Career guidance please
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
A woman scorned huh??

You are not the “Victim” you knowingly went into this when neither of you were free, you were both married.

Everything you’ve been through, you deserve as “the other woman”

Confronting his wife is pure vindictiveness on your part. If I can’t have him, I’m going to blow the whole thing up in his face!!

Just walk away, you’ve been defeated, take whatever self respect you have for yourself and build a better person and STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN!!! No matter how cute they are or how much chemistry you feel with them!
I Need to Vent! And Yes its about the Pisces guy again!
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Early days do take it for what it is.. with any sign

There’s clearly interest, so don’t sweat the small stuff!
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
Posted by DMV
Merry Christmas and what is the future like?

😂 the future is Roku Gin 🎁 for me 😝
Merry Christmas everyone
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
It’s Christmas Eve here in Australia 6:30pm, we’ll hit Christmas before most of you.

Have an awesome Christmas Day with your families, stay safe and hope you all get what you wish for.

🎅🎁💝
Merry Christmas everyone
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I’m on the other, I don’t understand why young guys are always chasing older women? Mummy issues much??
And when I say young I’m talking 20 + years younger. My thoughts are, they want someone to look after them. You say no and play the age card but they are persistent little f**kers until you’re rude!
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
The only stalker here is you…
The only one that can’t let go is you…
So much effort for such a little result!

If you want her back, man up, if not move on!
My Venus in Scorpio EX is stalking me...
sweethearts
female
Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2006.
I love to eat all the flavours around the world.. lately I’m big on Japanese and raw foods

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