Posted by MareInfame

Posted by allrounder
This fool. Now he said "when are you free? I can fly you out right now"

What is he saying, man. I don't even know how to respond now other than standing my ground and saying no. But you know what, me standing my ground shouldn't make the convo awkward just because I respect myself. This Taurus dude made it awkward by talking big game for no reason.

Why make it awkward? Just turn it around onto him - you can even be cute about it “it would be better if you came to visit ME 🥳🤗”

That way, the bullshit will present itself faster and you don’t have to put in any effort. Let him do the work.

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True that's a solid idea, I'm just worried that he's gonna say okay to coming here because honestly I just get player vibes from him. I'd rather keep our friendship online. So f it, I'm just gonna stand my ground lol

Posted by Wizardz_

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Posted by Wizardz_
He sounds like a real asshole wanting to pay to fly you out to Cali 🤔

The action itself or the fact it's Cali of all places?

I don't get the thread. Why is it bad that he offers to fly you out to California if he likes you?

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Cause it's obvious from what I've seen that he's a huge player and womanizer, and how we only just started catching up on text after not talking at all since 2019. How would you feel if an womanizing acquaintance just randomly catched up with you after almost 2 years of no contact and says they'll fly you out to their country? And the fact he's obviously irresponsible. No thank you, I'm worth more than all that crap lol maybe his offer would entice someone else, but certainly not me. I'm chill with being his friend, but asking me to do this has obvious sexual implications if I went ahead. It's like the long version of Netflix and Chill. I should mention, I'm not into casual flings, one night stands etc.

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Posted by AgentP911
Is he a Taurus Sun with Gemini Venus by any chance and is his name Eric??

Don't worry, it's most likely not anyone you know. His name starts with N. He's an Aries Venus.

Oh nooooo is it nick from Orange County house husband

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Who? 😆 I think that answers your question. It is funny though, this Taurus dude was just talking about OC to me.

Posted by LadyNeptune
I was shocked to learn recently that 1x per week is considered a healthy sex life.
I would be seriously worried if he only wanted to fuck once a week. Like damn, real worried.

Really? I find that pretty standard, at least on my own terms 😅 people float on different boats anyway ha (and I'm a female, yes)

Posted by Wizardz_
He sounds like a real asshole wanting to pay to fly you out to Cali 🤔

The action itself or the fact it's Cali of all places?

Posted by Hypnotoad

Posted by allrounder
This fool. Now he said "when are you free? I can fly you out right now"

What is he saying, man. I don't even know how to respond now other than standing my ground and saying no. But you know what, me standing my ground shouldn't make the convo awkward just because I respect myself. This Taurus dude made it awkward by talking big game for no reason.

Say yes and then change the flights to Hawaii.

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lool yess free holiday for me 😆

Posted by AgentP911
Is he a Taurus Sun with Gemini Venus by any chance and is his name Eric??

Don't worry, it's most likely not anyone you know. His name starts with N. He's an Aries Venus.

Posted by cake

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If he wants to see you then he can fly to you.

All that bull will give him wings 💸

lmao this actually made me chuckle, I get it 😆

What's your Mercury?

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Libra, but I'm Gemini Rising as well. Yeah I'm a sucker for puns and word play :')

This fool. Now he said "when are you free? I can fly you out right now"

What is he saying, man. I don't even know how to respond now other than standing my ground and saying no. But you know what, me standing my ground shouldn't make the convo awkward just because I respect myself. This Taurus dude made it awkward by talking big game for no reason.

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Posted by AgentP911
If he wants to see you then he can fly to you.

All that bull will give him wings 💸

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lmao this actually made me chuckle, I get it 😆

Posted by MikeNYNYC
It also means, "I've always relied on the kindness of strangers," "I love nice good girls--::they're so good to me:;"

Invisible ink reads, "Only low self worth need apply" and "Only those willing to 'drain' themselves to make me feel lofty with no reciprocation need apply" and "Pure Taker looking for Pure Giver(s)" and "Invest the Best Years of Your Life Into This Bridge to Nowhere"

Savaage, but I love this answer and I agree

Posted by stardustmop
They want you to fuck them like they’re loved but they don’t want to commit

Yikes, so *insecure fuckboy

Tell me about your experiences with Taurus guys who talk big game lol

I just have a Taurus guy friend from Cali and I'm in a different country. But anyway, we were just catching up by text after not talking for over a year.

And it was all fine, then he said "when you going to come out to California?"

And I said "haha not anytime soon" and he said "I'll fly you out, come visit me".

Big game talk, of course, not taking it serious. But it just makes him sound weird. He's said the same before literally 3 years ago before we stopped talking the next year because life schedules got in the way of our contact 😆 so I know he's just weird like this. Also I know he's not big money either, not yet anyway cause last I knew, he was still living with his mother. He travels for work these days so maybe things have changed.

Literally earlier in our text convo yesterday, he was talking to me about how he got Covid from making out with a girl he met at a museum?

Talk about irresponsible too. And it gives me a player vibe from him. I've always had that vibe from him every time we text, and what he posts on his stories. Womaniser. I don't think all Taurus guys are like this, but yikes.

I'm worth more than that, dude ✋🏻

Posted by hellosaggy
When does your sex drive die down… I thought by 30 I would be “normal” but I’m pushing 40 and still am super horny daily and it might not be 4 rounds a day but 2-3 make me happy. I can go a day or two without then I’m cranky. Just curious

Are their placements that make you hyper sexual?

I think fire sign people tend to have a higher sex drive that can actually last for longer than their other non fire peers.

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Posted by -Capriquarius
Fire placments all flirts in bold way.

From air placments it's Libra >Gemini >Aquarius

Water placments are flirting in wierd way, dark and kind of serious way.

Earth placments seem to be clumsy flirts.

With Earth placements from my experiences:

* Virgo can be awkward, but actually good at flirting in an understated way. Sort of conversational with a lot of jokes.

* Taurus is two extremes. Either very handsy or sort of distant and shy.

* Capricorns I've the least experience with. One I knew was very physical, but talked through her problems. It wasn't really flirting as I know it more like meeting a mate.

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I'm so glad our awkwardness as Virgos is so easily reached to other people :")))))))) lol

I remember that Capricorn classmate in my class, she said "I want an emotionally depraved guy who's mentally f*cked up" and in my head I was like "damn, this girl got self worth and self esteem issues.." and no, she wasn't joking because the guy she was interested in had a bunch of mental health issues and was pretty toxic. But whatever floats her boat I guess..

Posted by Electricboogaloo
I love flirting. I am a Gemini rising and Venus.

The downside is that I am a Cancer sun so I tend to get mildly attached to people who flirt back.. but if I get the sense that I am to piss off I will. I am never too worried about it because I have enough charisma to easily start fresh and the Gemini placements to enjoy the variety.

hm I wonder if it's a Water sign placement thing to get a little emotionally attached once someone seems to show charisma and interest towards you cause I feel that as a Pisces Moon as well lol and yeah, I'm a Gemini Rising and other Gemini placements too, we Gemini placement people looove our variety and having all choices open haha

Posted by -Capriquarius
Fire placments all flirts in bold way.

From air placments it's Libra >Gemini >Aquarius

Water placments are flirting in wierd way, dark and kind of serious way.

Earth placments seem to be clumsy flirts.

On that Earth note, can say I remember acting pretty suave and cool with a guy I was interested in and then I decided to be a clumsy clown by walking on a low rise wall thing, and I fell off. Cool act immediately vanished :')

And the dude actually managed to grab me in time before I fell all the way to the ground. And he even caught my act laughing and saying "woow what happened to you acting all cool just now?" lol he was a Pisces

Posted by Lostthoughts
Attitude and demeanor + personal tastes of the other person.
Flirting is a playful energy, something that is universal regardless of intent.
Actually quite easy to do unintentionally lol

Says the Virgo sun merc, with Libra Venus and sag mars.

True, I suppose it depends on if your personality is playful and knows how to have fun. I personally am very playful, sarcastic, tendency to be savage and like to joke around so I guess that bodes well with many types of people but also can make people fall for that side of me. I'm just playful with the people I trust and am comfortable with though, especially friends. It's not even that I am flirting.

One way you'll know I'm into you romantically is if I ask a lot of questions about you, very Virgo of me but it is what it is.

I have a Libra Venus, Libra Mercury, Gemini Rising, Pisces Moon and Leo Mars which apparently Libra, Gemini and Pisces and Leo are personally coined by people as some of the most flirtiest signs as well. I do agree Libra heavy people are super flirty though.

Being a Virgo Sun however, it balances me out with a nice healthy dose of social awkwardness 😆 gotta be humble, know what I'm sayin'.

Overall, I don't really know that I'm being "flirty" though, probably because it's my natural aura in general. Even round the people I romantically like, I'm always just being my natural, talkative self around anyone. More likely, I'll be more awkward around people I like romantically if anything because Virgo Sun 😆 but I don't have a mode where I'm like "okay, flirty mode on". Besides, my primary love language isn't Words of Affirmation so I hate giving forced fake compliments. I like them being genuine, meaning I don't give them a lot. My love language is Acts of Service, through actions.

The placements I've mentioned at the top do get me trouble with wanted and unwanted attention from people a lot though I realised and I always don't know how that happens 😅 is it an aura thing?

In my experience, Pisces, Libra and Leo guys have the flirt game down though. So I agree with those.

I don't think for all Taurus people. Each sign has their good and bad apples and as always, it depends on someone's whole chart.