Posted by Unknownme000
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by Unknownme000
I'm not here to point any fingers
I'm here addressing an issue
And I was hoping to make you all aware of the consequences that this can cause to others
I didn't mean to cause arguements between anyone.
My apologies if I offended anyone.
Since you're willing to be so understanding, I wanted your help in trying to understand where your original post was coming from. Do you mind linking threads or others' posts that reflect the feelings you were initially trying to convey? Because I'm having trouble seeing where you're coming from. Maybe I've been wearing rose-colored glasses. Examples would be helpful.
There's many topics here of both females and males struggling with relationship issues, personal issues, & some just posting random topics,
Then people come on here with really rude replies
Calling them names telling them that their issues are not important and asking them to stop posting
Some of these people are actually really needing help and they are turned away rudely
They just want to hear from others who may relate to them
But instead they are turned away from many
& im not here to point of people or names because that's not fair on my part
Tough love doesn't mean you people have to be cruel or disrespectful in any way.
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I personally don't take anything on the internet to heart. I just don't put value to anyone ridiculing me through a screen.
The reality is just because someone decides to spill their life problems on a thread or post doesn't mean they should expect and be rewarded the attention they want from others. For that you go to therapists. That's the reality. Realities aren't always rainbows and unicorns.
I guess for dxp "thick skin" is required. This site has been around for over 15 years. Nothing's changed. That's why you're able to block people or just ignore posts that rub you wrong. Simple as that. It boils down to self-control.
If you genuinely need help and think that dxp has a toxic environment, why would you try to put yourself in it? I don't see the logic. There's a million other sites that cater to helping people go through specific things and they have much more strict moderators if that's something that you think is important.