SassyKiwi

“I don’t like games and I’m tired of meeting a grown man that isn’t ready (it’s sadly a reoccurring theme)”

Do you not disclose from the first date that you’re looking for someone serious to settle down with soon? Because it will continue to be a reoccurring theme until you make it clear from the beginning with everyone that you are not looking to waste time on a prospect who just wants to have you around when they’re feeling bored with their freedom...

Yeah.. if he had slept with her best friend behind her back that would imply they were more than friends or else why would a basic female friend care if their male friend slept with a female best friend of theirs? Like why would any kind of forgiveness be required if they have only just ever been friends... sounds like a past lover to me (could’ve just been emotion based) rather than just a friend.

And if anyone has ever used Snapchat, especially an adult, they’d know it’s super annoying to chat on because chats erase so fast so it’s super pointless to converse on unless you’re really desperate to communicate with someone. Just seems like a silly medium to choose unless you all are teenagers.

Idk but Leo moon men suck and require as much attention as they can get their hands on. So it could be nothing but him being a weirdo and bathing in attention from a past ‘friend’.

I don’t understand how any sign could find Libras difficult. The other two cardinals yeah but Leebies? C’mon

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I don't understand synastry at all. I'd like to learn it. That's if anyone here willing or have the time to break it down for me step by step. It sounds interesting and exciting. I feel like I'm missing out on the fun

It’s very simple and requires accurate birth times for the complete picture. You need to first understand how to read planets and houses in your own chart. After that you pull up both peoples’ natal charts on one screen (I use Astrodienst). If you don’t have the other person's birth time, it’ll just give you a one sided picture. For instance let’s say in your natal chart your 8th house is in Scorpio. Your partner happens to have their Mars in Scorpio. So then that means your partner’s Mars falls in your 8th house. To get a description of that you would then google something like “Mars in 8th house synastry”. Your partner would be the Mars person and you would be the house person. You then apply that for every one of your partner’s planets and vice versa. The whole thing is fun and amusing to me. Let me know if that made sense or if you need further help.

My 8th house is in Aries and my partner Mars is in Sagittarius. Sorry I don't have her birth time. So what does that mean?

So your 4th house is in Sagittarius?

No. Capricorn

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Ok then just post your complete natal chart and list all your partner’s placements and then I’ll just list you what you can google to read the descriptions

No bb

You just got yourself a clueless lil boy that don’t know what he wants if you have to ask this

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I don't understand synastry at all. I'd like to learn it. That's if anyone here willing or have the time to break it down for me step by step. It sounds interesting and exciting. I feel like I'm missing out on the fun

It’s very simple and requires accurate birth times for the complete picture. You need to first understand how to read planets and houses in your own chart. After that you pull up both peoples’ natal charts on one screen (I use Astrodienst). If you don’t have the other person's birth time, it’ll just give you a one sided picture. For instance let’s say in your natal chart your 8th house is in Scorpio. Your partner happens to have their Mars in Scorpio. So then that means your partner’s Mars falls in your 8th house. To get a description of that you would then google something like “Mars in 8th house synastry”. Your partner would be the Mars person and you would be the house person. You then apply that for every one of your partner’s planets and vice versa. The whole thing is fun and amusing to me. Let me know if that made sense or if you need further help.

My 8th house is in Aries and my partner Mars is in Sagittarius. Sorry I don't have her birth time. So what does that mean?

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So your 4th house is in Sagittarius?

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I don't understand synastry at all. I'd like to learn it. That's if anyone here willing or have the time to break it down for me step by step. It sounds interesting and exciting. I feel like I'm missing out on the fun

It’s very simple and requires accurate birth times for the complete picture. You need to first understand how to read planets and houses in your own chart. After that you pull up both peoples’ natal charts on one screen (I use Astrodienst). If you don’t have the other person's birth time, it’ll just give you a one sided picture. For instance let’s say in your natal chart your 8th house is in Scorpio. Your partner happens to have their Mars in Scorpio. So then that means your partner’s Mars falls in your 8th house. To get a description of that you would then google something like “Mars in 8th house synastry”. Your partner would be the Mars person and you would be the house person. You then apply that for every one of your partner’s planets and vice versa. The whole thing is fun and amusing to me. Let me know if that made sense or if you need further help.

I had an ex who had a couple planets in my 12th house. It’s crazy how accurate synastry overlays have turned out for me. For instance his Venus fell in my 12th house:
“If your Venus is in your partner’s 12th house of a synastry overlay, you find yourself deeply moved in strange ways by the house person. For example, you may not be a needy person, but you find yourself being very needy or vulnerable around the house person.
The house person may feel that you put out some “false advertising.” You (the Venus person) were one type of person when they met you, but in this relationship you act somewhat different. The house person can’t really understand certain aspects about you. They may feel that you are a dream come true, but at the same time, they’re not sure that this dream will last.
It’s the 12th house overlay affecting both of you. Something about this overlay makes you feel insecure, as if the relationship is going to end but you don’t know why. The Venus person tries to hold on to the relationship, which confuses the house person even more. The house person doesn’t know if you want to continue or end the relationship.
There’s an ephemeral quality to this overlay, so enjoy this mystical union while you have it. Now you see it, soon you may not.”
Every. single. bit. of. it. held true.

It came to the point where I had to control myself from looking up synastries and charts of people I was romantically involved with until our relationship ended because they can feel so fatalistic.

say no toxic cancers

Would you ever let a doctor treat you, diagnose you, perform surgery on you if you ever found out they had some mental health condition? Would you ever go to an attorney for help on legal matters where the attorney has mental health issues disclosed vs plenty of ones that apparently don’t suffer from anything as far as you’re aware? Those are exactly why they’ll forever stay a stigma :/

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The trump presidency was a preconceived event; also, youtube what could really be done with 5G towers to society.

There are way too many conspiracy theories on 5G. What’s your take?

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The second half started with the mars in aries tr, it goes rx in September 9 to November 13. Jupiter and Saturn being rx, both in cap.

Anyone treetrunking up with the rx right now faces heavy consequences when the planets go direct. If there's anything that 2020 is trying to teach, it's self-reflection and that's one of the main theme of retrogrades. Were given that time and as we have more time to reflect, we realize how treetrunked up our environment is. It's why, the number of people realizing butter continues to grow. It's become unavoidable. Those people who think they're bigger than the universe, are going to suffer most during these retrogrades. It's their egos that will destroy them most i.e. public humiliation. It's a good time to be humble, to learn how to apologize and be open to differences. It's not how much you know, it's how you'll decide to do the right things with what you know. The retrogrades enforces for new changes as a collective, that's Pluto in aquarius preshadow.

This time is also a spiritual warfare. Best thing is to respect people's spiritual beliefs, no belief is perfect. We're all searching.

Definitely waiting for big politicians (mostly our righteous overlord trump’s) and famous peoples’ egos to catch up to them !

Posted by peachy06
Honestly I'm quite nervous since I know the job I was aiming at in the future, will probably be delayed. I don't even know if I'd have a chance anymore, because they're facing financial issues right now, and they said things won't get back to normal until at least 2023 or more. But I don't see myself doing something else. The only positive thing I can do now is to save money, I'm quite good at it.

Pluto enters Aquarius around 2023-2024, around the end of whatever is to predicted to occur. Lots of supposed changes. Will be cool to see how astrology actually folds out in reality from here on.

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Wonderful! I barely managed to flee one war now I have look forward to this! How marvelous!?

Aw which war did you have to flee?

Honestly now that I think about it, I definitely think this more common than people let on, most people do not blatantly talk about or admit to doing it, it’s not very openly spoken of (especially for the fear of getting misjudged). So you honestly will never know if someone you are currently dating is doing this hence why I think a lot of people get or feel cheated on or end up having side pieces. Those are the results of immature people doing this. I think if done appropriately, you should be having more appreciation for the partner you end up commiting to and more confident in yourself as you’ve in a sense gotten a more wide experience and clarity of the REALITY of what else is actually out there for you.

When I mentioned it’s something I’m not proud of, I meant it as something I would not ever boast about. Cause that butter was exhausting. Especially as an heavy introvert. Being practical is exhausting vs being all oolala and going with the flow and letting things be “if they’re meant to be”. Nah, you gotta carve out your own destiny and not wait for that perfect guy to fall in your life “when the time is right”. My cap venus clearly digged it.

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I read this post on Facebook, I’m interested in hearing feedback from both men and women. Do you think there is truth to this?IF YOU’RE NOT DATING MULTIPLE MEN, YOU’RE MISSING OUT!⁣
⁣
Lemmie stop yellin⁣
⁣
But forreal ⁣
⁣
You want marriage right?⁣
⁣
You wanna just meet the perfect guy, go on a few perfect dates and just end up in the perfect relationship until he proposes & ya’ll get married right?⁣
⁣
I get it⁣
⁣
The issue is you KNOW that’s not what usually happens ⁣
⁣
What USUALLY happens is that you meet a guy you like⁣
⁣
Ya’ll kick it for a while until you ask yourself:⁣
⁣
“Where is this going?”⁣
⁣
And THEN when you’ve dropped enough “what are wes?” ⁣
⁣
He makes you his girlfriend, you’re in a relationship for a couple of years & then⁣
⁣
BOOM!⁣💥
⁣
Ya’ll break up⁣
⁣
It ends ⁣
⁣
& you realize⁣
⁣
You just wasted a LOT of time you can👏🏿never👏🏿get👏🏿back⁣
⁣
Most women wait to get chosen by the guy they like ⁣
⁣
SMART women create options for themselves & do the CHOOSING ⁣
⁣
They make men EARN their exclusivity instead of giving it to them just because they’re “liked”⁣
⁣
Why?⁣ It:
⁣
1️⃣Prevents over-investment⁣
Putting all your emotional eggs in one basket prematurely is reckless. Dating multiple men allows you to invest hope in YOURSELF instead of a man. ⁣
⁣
2️⃣Forces men to step up⁣
They will know you have options & if they want you they will either have to step up or step OUT.⁣
⁣
3️⃣Creates space for you to be pursued. ⁣
Once exclusive, it’s common for women to flip the script & pursue the man because they want him to find them worthy of the ring. Dating multiple men keeps you in a pursued state until a man earns the right to lock you down
⁣
4️⃣Allows you to focus on yourself instead of focusing on a man.⁣
You’re able to focus on YOUR needs, YOUR expectations, YOUR preferences because you’re not losing yourself to one “boyfriend”⁣
⁣
5️⃣Increases your feminine energy ⁣
You’re less needy or pressed about a relationship going nowhere so you can be at ease & graceful for the different men you interact with. ⁣
& allows you to regularly receive quality attention & dates instead of begging the one man who lost his reason to make an effort
⁣
And best of all⁣
⁣
You won’t have to ask “Where is this going?’ because you’ll be in control & the men you date will have to ask YOU😏

Explore your options Sis...quality men are def exploring theirs

This just perpetuates the game playing both genders play. I didn't read much of it but it's it reeks of ego and manipulation.

In other words horsebutter.

I agree with this too. Hard to see how devoted or loyal someone is if they’re spreading themselves around

Quite literally.

Lol. Why do people assume you eventually have to give yourself up for sex when you’re dating? One should never feel like they owe sex to anyone, especially if they bought you food or something lol.. I did the whole courtship thing without sex too like 7th house with multiple men. And it all depends on motives for doing it if you’re worried about ego and manipulation. For me it was about efficiency and meeting as many people as I could to quickly learn what it is that I want and don’t want in a life partner. Dating one at a time and waiting for things to cultivate or not until moving onto the next is just too slow. It only possibly gets messy when you or the other person catch feels whilst you’re also gauging out how you feel about others if anyone else piqued your interest. It’s no different than swiping on a modern dating app and having 50 convos with men or women and actually going on physical dates with a handful of them back to back. I thought that was the main purpose of the apps.. sure you can also use it to sleep around too but it’s personal preference how you choose to utilize something. It’s also technically no different than the concepts of The Bachelor or The Bachelorette that middle aged women seem to LOVE to watch cause they been coming out with new seasons since I was a toddler.

I definitely agree that it doesn’t necessarily mean you have to sleep with them, but even if you’re not sleeping with them I feel like if I was dating a guy that was taking several girls on dates, it would be difficult for me to see if he is loyal to me or if he’s just dating like it’s a sport. I can understand both sides of the coin... but I absolutely agree with you that dating around does NOT always imply sleeping around and of course women are always judged more harshly than the men are.

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“I feel like if I was dating a guy that was taking several girls on dates, it would be difficult for me to see if he is loyal to me or if he’s just dating like it’s a sport.”
That’s the only part that I felt uneasy about. I know myself and trusted myself to not see it as some sport or game but did not trust others to have that level of maturity therefore I wouldn’t have liked it if the guys I ended up feeling more serious about than others were doing the same. It goes back to me strongly believing men mature later than women. So none of the guys were blantantly informed of what I was doing (it’s kind of none of their business) but if they were, even if some were possibly doing the same (I also wouldn’t know unless they blatantly told me), they’d end up judging me differently unnecessarily since people can naturally feel entitled to a sense of exclusivity regardless of if there’s actually anything substantial going on.

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Posted by PhoenixStorm
I read this post on Facebook, I’m interested in hearing feedback from both men and women. Do you think there is truth to this?IF YOU’RE NOT DATING MULTIPLE MEN, YOU’RE MISSING OUT!⁣
⁣
Lemmie stop yellin⁣
⁣
But forreal ⁣
⁣
You want marriage right?⁣
⁣
You wanna just meet the perfect guy, go on a few perfect dates and just end up in the perfect relationship until he proposes & ya’ll get married right?⁣
⁣
I get it⁣
⁣
The issue is you KNOW that’s not what usually happens ⁣
⁣
What USUALLY happens is that you meet a guy you like⁣
⁣
Ya’ll kick it for a while until you ask yourself:⁣
⁣
“Where is this going?”⁣
⁣
And THEN when you’ve dropped enough “what are wes?” ⁣
⁣
He makes you his girlfriend, you’re in a relationship for a couple of years & then⁣
⁣
BOOM!⁣💥
⁣
Ya’ll break up⁣
⁣
It ends ⁣
⁣
& you realize⁣
⁣
You just wasted a LOT of time you can👏🏿never👏🏿get👏🏿back⁣
⁣
Most women wait to get chosen by the guy they like ⁣
⁣
SMART women create options for themselves & do the CHOOSING ⁣
⁣
They make men EARN their exclusivity instead of giving it to them just because they’re “liked”⁣
⁣
Why?⁣ It:
⁣
1️⃣Prevents over-investment⁣
Putting all your emotional eggs in one basket prematurely is reckless. Dating multiple men allows you to invest hope in YOURSELF instead of a man. ⁣
⁣
2️⃣Forces men to step up⁣
They will know you have options & if they want you they will either have to step up or step OUT.⁣
⁣
3️⃣Creates space for you to be pursued. ⁣
Once exclusive, it’s common for women to flip the script & pursue the man because they want him to find them worthy of the ring. Dating multiple men keeps you in a pursued state until a man earns the right to lock you down
⁣
4️⃣Allows you to focus on yourself instead of focusing on a man.⁣
You’re able to focus on YOUR needs, YOUR expectations, YOUR preferences because you’re not losing yourself to one “boyfriend”⁣
⁣
5️⃣Increases your feminine energy ⁣
You’re less needy or pressed about a relationship going nowhere so you can be at ease & graceful for the different men you interact with. ⁣
& allows you to regularly receive quality attention & dates instead of begging the one man who lost his reason to make an effort
⁣
And best of all⁣
⁣
You won’t have to ask “Where is this going?’ because you’ll be in control & the men you date will have to ask YOU😏

Explore your options Sis...quality men are def exploring theirs

This just perpetuates the game playing both genders play. I didn't read much of it but it's it reeks of ego and manipulation.

In other words horsebutter.

I agree with this too. Hard to see how devoted or loyal someone is if they’re spreading themselves around

Quite literally.

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Lol. Why do people assume you eventually have to give yourself up for sex when you’re dating? One should never feel like they owe sex to anyone, especially if they bought you food or something lol.. I did the whole courtship thing without sex too like 7th house with multiple men. And it all depends on motives for doing it if you’re worried about ego and manipulation. For me it was about efficiency and meeting as many people as I could to quickly learn what it is that I want and don’t want in a life partner. Dating one at a time and waiting for things to cultivate or not until moving onto the next is just too slow. It only possibly gets messy when you or the other person catch feels whilst you’re also gauging out how you feel about others if anyone else piqued your interest. It’s no different than swiping on a modern dating app and having 50 convos with men or women and actually going on physical dates with a handful of them back to back. I thought that was the main purpose of the apps.. sure you can also use it to sleep around too but it’s personal preference how you choose to utilize something. It’s also technically no different than the concepts of The Bachelor or The Bachelorette that middle aged women seem to LOVE to watch cause they been coming out with new seasons since I was a toddler.

I did this. I strongly believed in being efficient with my time. It didn’t feel right, I’m not proud of it, but I was not willing to put all my eggs in one damn basket for years just for something to possibly fall apart and having to end up starting all over multiple times. However, when it got too overwhelming was when it was easier to see who I needed to cut out so it worked itself out. It’s just me accepting the unfortunate reality, the pool of quality men decreases for women as they age. It doesn’t work that way for men, their demand rises with age because they take longer to mature than women.

Trump’s/GOP’s CONSTANT bullbutterting and illegal antics are clearly to make Americans end up with PTSD while he goes down as becoming a fascist leader of ‘Murcia.

The best years of my adult life are gonna be full of this crap 😭

“Conflict, discord, and tension are starting to boil over in the summer of 2020. You are witness to the first act of massive systemic change. In plain speak, even though the eyes of the world focus on the United States, the changes on the way are global. Any astrologer who focuses solely on the US political climate is myopic. We are facing unprecedented change as a global community.

In May, I cautioned against getting caught up in mounting tensions which are focused on warring rhetoric. Thanks to Jupiter (rhetoric) retrograde dancing with Pluto (dissolution and transmutation) retrograde in Capricorn, both are now joined by Saturn as it retrogrades back for one last tango in it's home sign. Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, it represents structure, authority and foundations, these three mighty celestial bodies moving in apparent retrograde (backwards) motion are showing all the cracks in the foundation of society. Authoritarianism will be called into question, and thanks to Mars in Aries, Authoritarianism is going to answer the question... loudly. It's only just started, the important point to remember is this: Massive systemic change is coming, these issues are symptoms of the deeper foundational issues and not causal. The important thing to note is that we are in the beginning phases of massive systemic change that will start to snowball in late February of 2021. Frankly, you need to keep your focus on your own future, because things are going to start getting very very real for everyone: Globally.

August will see no respite from conflict, in fact, it will start with a bang with a full moon on August 3rd. Sun in Leo and Moon in Aquarius sit at 11 degrees in opposition making a t-square to Uranus in Taurus. The moon squaring off with the ruler of Aquarius is the lightning strike that starts wildfires.

In plain English, this is going to be a day of epiphanies and harsh truths. People may act out even more erratically than during a regular full moon. Tensions will be even higher and frankly "revolution" may be on the tips of people's tongues. The better plan would be to innovate and evolve, but when dealing with mass consciousness it's unlikely to be the route taken by the majority.

On a personal note, you can do yourself a favor and start practicing discernment and meditation. Mars in Aries is getting everyone's amygdalas worked up and that's causing conflict that will spin out of control before the year is out. Stay focused on building your projects, saving money, and getting ready for even more chaos heading into 2021. You do not have years to get ready, you have months.

It's okay to lean towards a side, but be conscious about it...what you have to understand is that it's an old battle and we're fighting with each other while a massive crisis looms in the distance. I know, right? As if the pandemic wasn't enough... but it's not going to get easier for several years. Take time to get your plans set for moving forward into a whole new world scene in the 2020s.

Just going to say it, you don't have time to mess around. There is a global shift the likes humans haven't seen in over 4,000 years. This will impact everyone on the globe culturally, socially, politically and financially. If there was ever a worse time to fight, now is that time, however it's the mostly likely time for people to get caught up in the tensions and act out the energy at play. If you want to make it through the upcoming changes you have four months to really get solid and clear.

1. Make sure you have basic life skills. Seriously.

2. Ensure you have a social network offline that is relatively easy to live with/work with.

3. Let go of needing status and recognition and hunker down and save, save, save. Just accrue as much savings and assets as you possibly can now, because it's going to get harder to do from February 2021 on.

4. Look for innovative ways of living in community, family, socially and to create new ways to sustain yourself. You're going to have to think very differently in the years ahead.

Don't blame yourself for any losses that occur now or coming up, this is a HUGE time of change.”

https://www.wokeastrology.com/post/create-your-future-now-planetary-transits-august-2020