Posted by Lostthoughts
Attitude and demeanor + personal tastes of the other person.
Flirting is a playful energy, something that is universal regardless of intent.
Actually quite easy to do unintentionally lol

Says the Virgo sun merc, with Libra Venus and sag mars.

True, I suppose it depends on if your personality is playful and knows how to have fun. I personally am very playful, sarcastic, tendency to be savage and like to joke around so I guess that bodes well with many types of people but also can make people fall for that side of me. I'm just playful with the people I trust and am comfortable with though, especially friends. It's not even that I am flirting.

One way you'll know I'm into you romantically is if I ask a lot of questions about you, very Virgo of me but it is what it is.

I have a Libra Venus, Libra Mercury, Gemini Rising, Pisces Moon and Leo Mars which apparently Libra, Gemini and Pisces and Leo are personally coined by people as some of the most flirtiest signs as well. I do agree Libra heavy people are super flirty though.

Being a Virgo Sun however, it balances me out with a nice healthy dose of social awkwardness 😆 gotta be humble, know what I'm sayin'.

Overall, I don't really know that I'm being "flirty" though, probably because it's my natural aura in general. Even round the people I romantically like, I'm always just being my natural, talkative self around anyone. More likely, I'll be more awkward around people I like romantically if anything because Virgo Sun 😆 but I don't have a mode where I'm like "okay, flirty mode on". Besides, my primary love language isn't Words of Affirmation so I hate giving forced fake compliments. I like them being genuine, meaning I don't give them a lot. My love language is Acts of Service, through actions.

The placements I've mentioned at the top do get me trouble with wanted and unwanted attention from people a lot though I realised and I always don't know how that happens 😅 is it an aura thing?

In my experience, Pisces, Libra and Leo guys have the flirt game down though. So I agree with those.

I don't think for all Taurus people. Each sign has their good and bad apples and as always, it depends on someone's whole chart.

You might wanna be wary tbh. It's currently Mercury Retrograde and I literally just made a post here asking if anyone else has been experiencing people from the past reappearing randomly trying to get into their lives again. For me, I've had 2 guys already follow requesting me, and one of them re requested because I deleted it the first time. But they were part of the people who bullied me in the past too though I had mediocre crushes on them back then at some point too. And I watched a pick a card tarot reading on YouTube few days ago where the psychic said that around 7 people from my past will remember me or think about me, and at least 3 people will try to get into contact with me. So now 2 guys have tried.

I'm still not letting them follow me, cause I believe it's just a sign from the Universe that I need to do a lot of energy cord cleansing (not cutting as I heard it's more dangerous than just cleansing), and to do forgiveness work. But don't interact with the person if possible.

I heard Tauruses don't get over their ex's easy but I've never dated one so I can't help you there over than what I've read.

But I've had an online Taurus guy friend before who I've casually flirted with on text lol and he also said something similar to your Taurus. We live in different countries and he was like "you should visit me one day. I'll let you stay over at mine. I'll help pay your flight" "I'll drive you from the airport.".

That never happened by the way cause I was too nervous and that was just too unrealistic. He was a huge flirt and womaniser. Just be careful because words can be said without much thought or effort unlike an action. Too many talkers in this world, not enough do-ers.

And people who are drunk make mistakes they don't even remember.

Also people can't "fix" each other. That's just a control issue with whoever is initiating it then. People can only save and change themselves for the better, not other people.

be aware of the honeymoon phase 😅

Just curious if any of you have experienced people from your past suddenly popping back up during this time, cause in a tarot reading I had, I was told there'd be around 7 people from my past who'll remember about me/think about me and at least 3 of them will try get into contact with me again.

2 of them have already tried to follow request my old dead account that I don't use anymore. It's 2 guys who I used to have mediocre crushes on, but I remember them being part of the people who'd be part of bullying me a lot back in the middle school kind of years.

That account just has so many people from my past on there and I just don't have a use for that account anymore. It just feels weird and heavy to have that account because of the people from my past on there too who I don't talk to at all anymore.

So I plan to do energy cord cleansing and forgiveness work to truly heal and remove myself from the people of my past soon cause them trying to get in touch with me or keep tabs on me is just telling me I need to cord cleanse with them. I heard cord cutting itself is pretty "dangerous", but I haven't looked into why yet. But it seems that cord cleansing is much safer and better, so there's a suggestion for any of you going through what I'm currently going through too

The amount of times I see Taurus and Sagittarius together lool esp the Taurus men and Sag women. Not sure what it is. And I've seen Leo women and Sag women being the bestest of friends.

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i feel the same way about Capricorn women

and i'm like: 'huh? but she's like always passive-aggressively insulting me."

This is how Caps are asking for your attention when they desperately need it

i was class president and she was VP

she thinks i'm 'not doing enough'

like chill girl we're in high school

Really? It seems they come for people who in their opinion don't look like they're doing "enough" work then.. They sound like debilitating workaholics in that case. Who said we have to work for their approval anyway? F*ck that nonsense.

my Capricorn ex was a workaholic. i worked even harder when we got together to try to impress him. but you know what? he'd STILL criticize you if you work too much. they just criticize in general like i was so subservient in that relationship that i just felt resentful. status-wise i was leagues above him just being honest like how dare this dude neg me. some of them are deeply insecure but comes off arrogant externally. and they will ALWAYS bring up how you suck at communication when they STONEWALL.

it's too bad coz they're so hot. *cries

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Gurl, you need to not get pulled into that toxic cycle.. That or wait for a kind hearted non toxic Capricorn, if that's even possible lol you don't deserve to feel like not enough despite your efforts. I know we Virgos like to be in service to people and are givers, but you need to give kind service to yourself too. Leave that toxicity behind.

but lol I thought Virgos were critical enough. I totally think the Cap girl I'm dealing with is incredibly insecure because I know she has an anxiety condition too and uses the bunch of people she knows on our course to feel relevant and validated within herself. It's not good. That's the thing I'm currently working away from, letting other people determine the value of your worth by their approval and validation of you as a valuable person. You need to value yourself first. And that's what I'm working on. I refuse to let people determine my worth now.

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God I always hated these group projects in school. I was a bit of a perfectionist and a control freak and always ended up doing most of the work. Still trying to learn from my mistakes and be a better team mate. 🤭

You should have said something and not left. Insist on dividing the tasks and if she's not happy with your work then she can change it whatever she likes but she can't blame you for it later on. That passive aggressiveness on her part is really immature. You should call her out on it instead of getting annoyed in silence.

Looking at your profile photo, are you a Libra? Surely you might get what I mean by the non confrontational side of a Libra, right? (other than me coming from an abusive family background), having Libra and Pisces in my chart, I realised makes me incredibly non confrontational and flighty. And this Capricorn girl has angrily outbursted in our classes many times before, I think that's another reason I'm so scared and intimidated by her is because I'm so scared that I'll tick her off and aggravate her and something bad will happen. Because whenever I've spoken up with my mother (the abusive parent), she'd abuse me. I think that's why I have incredible trouble in speaking up. But I have been working on that!

And I agree, I do realise I have faults in this situation as well now but her passive aggressiveness was unneeded and just super immature. Leave that type of catty behaviour in high school..

You're right though, I do plan on asking her if we can have a video call so at least we'll have the comfort of our homes to discuss our issues as comfortably as possible.

I get it but I'm not telling you to pick a fight with her. You're both adults and you should be able to discuss things calmly and if she wants to be a bitch about it then it's her problem. Don't let it get to you. How long do you have to work with her? Maybe there's other tasks you can do instead.

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No no. Today is our assessment day now. And I do want to be mature about this and ask her if we can do a video call tomorrow in the comfort of our own homes so we feel more relaxed I guess and I'm gonna attempt speaking with an assertive approach to try get my emotions and point across to her without being victimising, aggressive or accusing or demanding as possible. She can respond in whatever way she wants to, but yeah, if she's not gonna cooperate despite my efforts to solve our conflict in an assertive manner then I will just have to move on and let this go.

Thankfully, we all move onto a new collaborative project with different people. But the thing that my tutor mentioned was at least trying to smooth things over with her because she doesn't want me to feel scared if I find a cool group to work with but feel scared and not bring out my best potential if the Cap girl happens to be in the same group. And this Cap girl knows and talks with a lot of people in our course so cripes..

But yeah thanks, I'll do my best to not let her terrorise my emotional and mental state. She doesn't deserve to. No one does.

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i feel the same way about Capricorn women

and i'm like: 'huh? but she's like always passive-aggressively insulting me."

This is how Caps are asking for your attention when they desperately need it

i was class president and she was VP

she thinks i'm 'not doing enough'

like chill girl we're in high school

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Really? It seems they come for people who in their opinion don't look like they're doing "enough" work then.. They sound like debilitating workaholics in that case. Who said we have to work for their approval anyway? F*ck that nonsense.

I've had Libran friends in the past and they're so sweet and caring. Even had one of my good Libran friends who helped with a birthday surprise for me.

I have all of the Air signs in double placements in my chart so I'm a super Airy Virgo, but I have a Pisces Moon and Leo Mars which adds enough water and fire to me as well. Being a Gemini Rising is pretty neat actually, it helps me communicate well generally and I love variety and being experimental because of it.

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I haven't watched it, and don't plan too. Seeing the name of the show everywhere become annoying. They even opened a Squid Game cafe in Paris where people would queue for 6+ hours. This hysteria needs to stop.

Do you tend to lead more toward exclusivity?

I’m happy it’s everywhere. These Korean actors deserve the attention.

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Agreed, as an Asian person, I'm very proud that we are being given opportunities to prove our value in media, especially in acting. It's really nice and evolutionary.

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The ending was "meh" and there is no way the main character is a Scorp....

The most unrealistic part of the movie, tbh.
But seriously, I lol’d when it was revealed that he was a Scorp.

I agree that the ending was just ok. Wish he’d just gotten on the plane.

A similar dystopian survival show that I actually enjoyed a lot more is “Alice in Borderland”.

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Haha, curious why did you find it funny he was a Scorp? Actually, it was because he didn't get on the plane that I convinced me he wasn't a Scorp lol. The red hair didn't help either...The writers just threw that specific birthdate out there because it sounded cool . They had 30 other days in the season to choose from, yet they chose that which tells me it was intentional.

I'll check out "Alice..."

What was the date. Makes sense he is a Scorpio because Scorpio would attempt to stop something horrible from happening to others

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Agreed. The good Scorpios out there would do their utter best, literally break their bones and sacrifice themselves to help people, especially people they care about in dangerous situations. The good Scorpios I know are very kind hearted and compassionate. I used to think that all Scorpios were bad news considering both my parents are Scorpios and my mother is an abusive narcissist and my dad abandoned me and was a pathological liar. But it was only until I met really kind hearted and the nice Scorpios that my perspective and opinion of them changed. It just goes to show, every single astrology sign has it's good and bad apples.

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I like that we are seeing quality programming even if it's being hyped to hell and back. I want to see more, no matter where it comes from. If it happens to be korea, africa, europe or murica all the better.

I agree. It's nice to have something high quality that's being hyped.

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I don't o_o I've dealt with way too many toxic, abusive and manipulative ass people who've bullied, tormented, harassed, hurt and traumatised me in some way that if you've heard everything I've been through, you'd probably be amazed at how I'm still alive and kicking right now lol

Though, I have father abandonment issues, so I think in the past I was one of those girls who liked "bAd boYs" and all those guys were also part of the deep trauma I am doing intense healing work from since mid 2020 to now since I also can't afford therapy just yet.

I'm just tired of toxic people. Too many wounded people in the world who need to heal. I think we all exhibit positive and negative traits though, because we're all living a human experience. We need that balance. It is about not letting one side take over the other though in my opinion and embracing all sides of you and others. But it's only when you truly accept yourself, are you able to see that in others and truly accept them too.

so if both my parents were neglectful, then i just like bad people in general?

hmm i don't think i'm into bad bois but more like sad bois. most toxic guy i've ever dated was a capricorn. someone did try to take advantage of me financially once but we dated for like a heartbeat so i wasn't all that 'traumatized' about it. but with the capricorn, that definitely left a mark on me. it's just that, i feel like literally everyone has some issue they need to work through which makes me overlook a lot of red flags.

i have a very withdrawn, standoffish personality and i'm very intentional about being this way coz i'd like to avoid that whole bullying/harassment stuff which comes from associating with people lol. but i live in a very sociable area where the more you're closed off, the more people tend to gossip about you. and it's hard to defend yourself when you don't want to talk. i've left some jobs over this. i guess when people find suspicious tidbits about you and you're so quiet, they automatically turn hostile.

for example, i have a great fear of my medical records getting out. my health is very erratic and i've made the mistake of sharing this to one of my co-workers which then snowballed into gossip with the sentiment being that i should be investigated. i'm completely fine at that moment. is it the pandemic making people act this way? yet how is my health anyone's business? it's so ridiculous and just makes me want to avoid people even more.

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I completely understand as a fellow reserved and ambiverted but more introvert Virgo lol

Of course everyone is working through issues of all kinds but you can still be kind and assertive whilst going through a tough time without being toxic and projecting your wounds onto others by bullying them or lashing out on them when they've done nothing to aggravate you. Which is something my abusive narcissist mother does..
It's more about assessing how people act in the same situations. You'll see who's toxic and who's not through that trial and error. And you're an introverted Virgo too I'm assuming, we're very observant and analytical people so I'm sure you'll know what I mean.

I don't know if I come off as cold or standoffish as well, but I know I'm reserved and generally if I don't click with anyone, I'll stay very quiet unless spoken to or unless I need something or need to ask something.

I've been bullied in school many times for many months long even if I do nothing, and it's likely because I'm reserved and stood out in a white dominant school as an Asian kid. There were some other POC people but only 2 others in my year/grade who were Asian. But I know I was someone that the popular guys or other random guys had a crush on at some point or just stood out in some way but they all bullied or picked on me at some point regardless, including the girls.
So it doesn't matter whether you talk to these types of people or not, but you're right, it seems this world is incredibly judgemental in that if you seem weird or odd in some way and you're introverted/reserved/antisocial/quiet to groups of people, a handful of them will view and interact with you in a judgemental and hostile way. Or yes, gossip about you which I know I've been gossiped about hundreds of times. I just don't let it bother me anymore. Cause if I do, I'm only doing a disservice to myself and giving myself stress over something I simply cannot control but I'm okay with that. Let them talk. It's their problem with me, not mine.

And I understand. I've been hurt so many times that I have trust issues I'm still working on too and I do my best to work on it everyday in small or big ways. I think it's about working on our trust issues, because it's also about the realisation that not every single person in this world is horrible. But obviously still protect yourself by enforcing and protecting your boundaries and energy and not being super easily trusting when you meet someone new, especially if you feel intuitively off about someone. It's just like the whole thing of you can be with hundreds of kind people everyday, but the moment you meet one toxic person, they can deeply traumatise you forever unless you choose to heal your wounds.

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Okay so I figured this site needs it since there's so much negative energy trapped here. Post uplifting messages, pictures, videos and anything you can think of. List things that you are grateful for. The key to feeling abundant is to count your blessings and appreciate the good you already have.


I am thankful for the sun.




...No hating ass posts or I'll send a curse your way and vampirize on your positive karma.

Few months late, but thank you for making such a lovely and positively vibing post

Since it is important to be mindful and consciously in the present, I'd say today, I am also grateful for the beautiful blue sky and radiant glowing sun today considering the last few days have just been constant almost nonstop heavy rain and wind!

I don't o_o I've dealt with way too many toxic, abusive and manipulative ass people who've bullied, tormented, harassed, hurt and traumatised me in some way that if you've heard everything I've been through, you'd probably be amazed at how I'm still alive and kicking right now lol

Though, I have father abandonment issues, so I think in the past I was one of those girls who liked "bAd boYs" and all those guys were also part of the deep trauma I am doing intense healing work from since mid 2020 to now since I also can't afford therapy just yet.

I'm just tired of toxic people. Too many wounded people in the world who need to heal. I think we all exhibit positive and negative traits though, because we're all living a human experience. We need that balance. It is about not letting one side take over the other though in my opinion and embracing all sides of you and others. But it's only when you truly accept yourself, are you able to see that in others and truly accept them too.

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i feel the same way about Capricorn women

but i'm also Cap dominant but i feel like i'd still be passive-aggressive even without it but more on the passive side really

like there was this Cap from way back in school who acted this way around me but her BFF was a Virgo sun whose bday was just a day away from mine which is weirder coz one time she kinda made sure that I heard her telling this other girl that she's always wanted to be my friend

and i'm like: 'huh? but she's like always passive-aggressively insulting me."

they're so confusing which is a real shame since I find their axis sooo pretty

As in the Capricorn girl wanted to be your friend?

If she's saying that to a random person, but she's had cases of harassing and bullying you, I'd be wary about her just saying it to that person just to look good and seem like a sweet, nice person in front of them when in actuality, they're not. I've met way too many two faced fake people. Those kinds of people never get past me cause I sus them out real quick.

I know there's people who are mean as a means of showing someone they like the person whether romantic or platonic, but there is a fine line between malicious and secretly friendly intent. You've just gotta keep watch and protect yourself is what I learnt.

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I didn't mention in my post, but I've mentioned to my group that I was doing research work on ethics and other bits that I realised no one else in our group researched about but that our tutors were looking for to be explained in our final presentation tomorrow.

Omg then just take the L and move on. Pointless to schedule a chat with her to discuss her bitchiness when the project is tomorrow and ya'll can just move on from this whole situation anyways.
If your stuck in a group with her for the rest of the class term then I can understand trying to mediate and smooth things over. Otherwise just let sleeping dogs lie. If she was annoyed at you asking questions during the project imagine how aggro she'll be when you bring up her bitchiness AFTER the project is already completed. Save yourself the headache.

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Yeah I suppose so. But after confiding in my tutor about this today, she was giving me advice and a choice. The choice is I either move on, heal and let this go because she said we will just move on to the next collaborative project. Or I talk with her to try solve this out. The thing is my course is very collaborative so who's to say I won't be in a group with her again?

My tutor was just concerned and empathetic for me because she knows how scared and intimidated I am of the Cap girl now, and she knows how that girl is too. The aggression she exudes. And my tutor brought up her own experiences with aggressive alpha females she's had to deal with before too, and she was just saying that when she's faced the conflict head on to try solve it, even if it didn't work out, she knew she could come out the other side knowing that she at least did her best to try solve the conflict and can therefore move on with closure.

So she thinks I could try talking with Cap girl to at least say I tried as well. Because my tutor doesn't want me to find a cool group to collaborate with later in the year but then find that Cap girl is with that group of people too then I feel too scared to join or bring out my best potential because of her presence in the group just like how she's in my group now. And that Cap girl is pretty popular, like she knows a lot of the people in our course.

I've had a real think though all day now, and I've decided I wanna at least improve myself, say I did my best to solve this conflict. I don't wanna keep running away from conflict for my whole life anymore. I'm gonna stand up for myself, even if she'll burn me in the video call. F*ck it. And yeah it's Mercury Retrograde, but better to try make peace with my enemies than die never knowing if it could've been solved, right?

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Fuck all the haters in here, Caps can be like this. Lowvibe cancers without the emotional manipulation just stone cold instead.


Grow a thicker skin is all you can do in this life ms Virgo.

Thank you, appreciate it. Definitely more motivated to use this as an opportunity to thicken my skin. I wish the people in this world weren't so harsh..