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I'm actually inclined to disagree with most here. I feel that most people don't actually use a date to "get to know one another", but rather treat it as a precursor and the social obligation step to make it into bed. Also, the alcohol makes you lower your inhibitions, so it's like the foreplay before the mating ritual.

At least that what it seems like to me, after having gone on tons of dates that ended with his tongue forcibly make it's way into my mouth. Also there's anger when you don't put out. It's today's fuckboy/fuckgirl culture.

You say you disagree but everything that followed was in agreement?

I meant I disagree with UVD and Alicia and whoever else, that most dates aren't men trying to get to know women. Should have specified

Do you know any men that have be propositioned with "dinner" in lue of sex?

I can't be the only one.

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Shit... happens all the time. Women drop drawers for food. Especially food that is out their price range.

The L word slips out too. Omg I love you. You cook like this all the time?

Women are just as shallow as men, they just hide behind societal norms.

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Posted by _Dazed

Posted by RooSagicorn
Why take her to a $ 200 dinner if you just want sex? Does she owe you sex for a dinner that price?

Jfc

Is that what I asked? No.

Seriously, why is it a man asks this question and is met with some accusitory bull shit? Do ya'll even know me? It's not like I haven't been here for 10+ years. Do ya'll even look to see who proposed the question before you respond?

Sorry I didn’t mean you specifically, it was more a curiosity question when someone takes one out to a $ 200 dinner. Not intended to be accusatory but more to understand the intent of the person paying.

I can’t answer the question for myself since it doesn’t apply. But the type of person you asked the question about maybe they feel it’s expected. I don’t know. I just wanted a bigger picture of the scenario.

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That’s crazy... pricer dates don’t have to end in sex.... I just expect them to 🤷🏾‍♂️.

I think women need to be more cognizant of dating situations. When a 200 date is 8 to 10 hours of your persons work. It’s not the same as if it’s 3 hours or 30 hours. Socioeconomics plays a part.

Guys should know their limits too. Don’t try to impress a chick that’s out your price range or if she plays with expectations leave her where you found her.

There is a reason prostitutions been around since the beginning of time also. Don’t dismiss that mans biggest driver for engaging with a woman is lust, not partnership.

I don’t see men running around saying... gosh that Suzy would be great to watch a movie with and cuddle...

As much as people scream gender equality and down with toxic masculinity... gender roles work for a reason. It sets a hierarchy, just make sure you are respecting each other.

I personally feel men should lead and women should manage, and you can still be a team.

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Posted by hellosaggy

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Posted by hellosaggy
Look. you are going to sleep with me anyway... lets just cut to the chase. Why have me take you out to dinner if you need your light bill paid.

I got you boo.

btw, I wine and dine at home. I keep filets and lobster tails on deck. Duck and lamb stays in my freezer, and I have herbs and spices galore. Its one of the benefits of not having kids. I have good connects with butchers and fishmongers.

So that 200 dinner could really only cost me 60 - 70 dollars to make at home.... but I need to be compensated for my efforts!

nothing worse than making a great meal and her going to sleep because she's full. I would have made your ass a salad.

I’ll have the lobster we can talk but you ain’t getting any.

ehhh. wait until we talk and you watch me chef it up.... I'm great company

I’ve been told I’m great company too

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I believe it. You have a good sense of humor... and if you are anything like my sag ex fiancé... fun and experimental in private 😈 yassssssz

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Posted by hellosaggy
yeah @sagicorn you talking about "date and dash".... it's another reason I only go on dinner dates after talking for awhile. no new chicks get expensive dates.

one of my FWB does it regularly and she tells me about it. having guys take you out on 150 dollar dinner dates knowing you just doing it for the food is lame. that could be a good portion of their paychecks.

shame on them for not seeing it.

Yeah, they actually mentioned a name for it, some term that I can't remember, I tried lol it's kinda weird, my first reaction was - since when is this some new trend? Lol but they said it was all done for tricking guys into paying and ditching them after. It was a trend on some dating sites mostly where women would ask guys out for that reason.

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yeah.... I'm in a big college area...so you have these little girls that can't afford food. so they serial date to stop eating hot dogs and ramen.

yup

health, family/support, and then peace.

money comes and goes. I've been broke af and a millionaire. they both sucked.

yeah @sagicorn you talking about "date and dash".... it's another reason I only go on dinner dates after talking for awhile. no new chicks get expensive dates.

one of my FWB does it regularly and she tells me about it. having guys take you out on 150 dollar dinner dates knowing you just doing it for the food is lame. that could be a good portion of their paychecks.

shame on them for not seeing it.

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Disagree.

In the wine and dine scenario you're not choosing what you do with that $ 200.

Maybe you'd prefer using it towards bills, a spa day, or something else.

Being given $ 200 gives you the freedom to do whatever you want with that money.

As someone who's not a stranger to fine dining, it's nice, but it's overrated. Most of the time not worth the price.

I specifically stated when appearance is the only prerequisite for sex.

There is no short of women that are using tinder for sex and free dinner.. as long as he looks good.

But having $ 200 spent on wining and dunking you is still not the same as being given $ 200.

Your statement was that they are the same and I disagree.

I don't see what physical appearance has to do with answering that question/statement.

I do agree with the first part. They are different. I'd rather have the $ 200.

I suppose that changes my question a bit.

If you're okay with getting wined and dined by an attractive man, and give him the goods...

Why are you NOT okay taking $ 200 from an attractive man just to fuck him?

Because the first situation is a date and the second situation you named is prostitution.

Prostitution is a business deal.

A date is where two people come together to see if they have a connection.

Sometimes dates end with the two people having sex, but it's something that happened because they were feeling each other.


Accepting a kind offering on a date (like dinner for example) and then eventually sleeping with that person isn't the same as making a deal that if they pay for your meal you will without a doubt have sex with them.

I've been propositioned my women on tinder more times than I can count.. that were seeking "dinner" with sex at the end.

Why not just ask for the money instead?

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exactly they don't want to feel "whorish"...for wanting sex.... I'm horny, you horny.... you need some dough. it depends on how you come at me. If I see your gas tank low or whatever. I would look out.

women should stop playing games so much on social views. ya'll want to be equal but then switch it up philosophically and go back to being "respected".

If I didn't respect you, it wouldn't go past you asking me for money or me offering you money.

My pride would keep me from asking a chick for money that's it.

True story, when I was 22 I was hanging out with my boss and this older white lady(she was like 45, boobs done- confirmed later on, tummy tuck-nicely done, but hot older woman) came over and said she'd give me 800 dollars to sleep with her. yup I did it. it was actually kind of fun, I felt I had to put on a performance.

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Posted by hellosaggy
pfft. I love how some people can price their bits.

I have smashed plenty of hot chicks, and their crazy makes it not worth it.

I have smashed above average chicks and their crazy makes it not worth it.

I look out for my sex friends and others because I have a vested physical and personal interest in you.

@VenusAquarius shout out to you for seeing sex as an appreciation tool.

nothing like an amazing bj as a thanks.

and shame on some of y'all saying $ 200 ain't nothing. that's some people's weekly take home pay and they work hard for it.

Ikr. I bet these broke asses would be happy to take that kind of money for sex or anything.

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real talk. I've made 200 an hour, 200 a day, and 200 a week. I was the same exact person. it is what it is and its down right insulting... I honestly worked harder at the 200 a week job.

I've never seen a guy ask a woman how much she makes... only thing I ask a SERIOUS girl is how much debt you have. (you aren't going to make me broke behind your ass).

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Posted by hellosaggy
Look. you are going to sleep with me anyway... lets just cut to the chase. Why have me take you out to dinner if you need your light bill paid.

I got you boo.

btw, I wine and dine at home. I keep filets and lobster tails on deck. Duck and lamb stays in my freezer, and I have herbs and spices galore. Its one of the benefits of not having kids. I have good connects with butchers and fishmongers.

So that 200 dinner could really only cost me 60 - 70 dollars to make at home.... but I need to be compensated for my efforts!

nothing worse than making a great meal and her going to sleep because she's full. I would have made your ass a salad.

I’ll have the lobster we can talk but you ain’t getting any.

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ehhh. wait until we talk and you watch me chef it up.... I'm great company

I would have a sugarbaby type thing. if she screws me right and stays out my way with the drama. I'd pay some bills. that's all I'm really interested in. I like sleeping alone in my bed and doing what I want.

when I want company I'll make dinner at home, because honestly its better and not slathered with butter and salt, and we can have a sex marathon. after I orgasm a few times I don't want to be bothered.

Look. you are going to sleep with me anyway... lets just cut to the chase. Why have me take you out to dinner if you need your light bill paid.

I got you boo.

btw, I wine and dine at home. I keep filets and lobster tails on deck. Duck and lamb stays in my freezer, and I have herbs and spices galore. Its one of the benefits of not having kids. I have good connects with butchers and fishmongers.

So that 200 dinner could really only cost me 60 - 70 dollars to make at home.... but I need to be compensated for my efforts!

nothing worse than making a great meal and her going to sleep because she's full. I would have made your ass a salad.

pfft. I love how some people can price their bits.

I have smashed plenty of hot chicks, and their crazy makes it not worth it.

I have smashed above average chicks and their crazy makes it not worth it.

I look out for my sex friends and others because I have a vested physical and personal interest in you.

@VenusAquarius shout out to you for seeing sex as an appreciation tool.

nothing like an amazing bj as a thanks.

and shame on some of y'all saying $ 200 ain't nothing. that's some people's weekly take home pay and they work hard for it.

It’s fake outrage and real animosity. As long as no one was raped and /or killed it will blow over after some time.

It’s fbi based because of federal funding and interstate conspiracy. Wire fraud etc etc...

End of the day. It’s rich people being rich.

I know personally the feds don’t plea down to misdemeanors... they will all get felony records, probably no jail time except for ringleader and some fines. It’s really a dog and pony show.

Posted by SagittariusInLove
Men just want u to open your legs not your mouth and we want them to open everything

That’s not true... I want her mouth open too 😈

I didn’t masterbate until after I had sex.

Hot blonde babysitter and I was like 11.

I had got hard before but I never knew playing with it for an extended period of time would cause an orgasm... I just remember I came... a lot. Was hooked ever since.

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Posted by hellosaggy
New phone who dis? I don’t have no pics in my phone at moment.

Yeah I’m up in here.

I do bang white chicks... as well as other hues of women...

totally irrelevant

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Nahhh someone on thread was like all the black guys are not online banging white chicks.

New phone who dis? I don’t have no pics in my phone at moment.

Yeah I’m up in here.

I do bang white chicks... as well as other hues of women...

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Posted by bae
What is considered best dick:

1. size
2. stroke game
3. thickness
4. good looking dick
5. you crave it

+ circumcised

I hate turtlenecks.

Lol in Europe most men aren't circumcised.
I like natural penis 😍

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I’ve had sex with quite a few European women... they said they preferred oral without the extra skin... a few different countries too so decent sample size lol...

It’s pretty too. Doc did a good job on my snip back then. Owe him lunch sometime ...

Money. I think you can buy happiness. And atleast you can control the narrative.

Love is fickle.

I’m picky for relationships... I let some things slide for fwbs...