Posted by pooface222Posted by PuzzlePieces
No. It’s not going to happen unless he wants to leave. Being scared to leave = not leaving ever.
You leave when it’s harder to stay than it is to leave.
Fighting for something like this is not a good idea. It’s more like banging your head against a wall. My opinion is you give a person an opportunity & then it’s up to them. You go live your life & if they truly want you they will make themselves available. Otherwise they don’t truly want you. Actions not words..
And for me, it was harder to stay than it was to leave.
My Aries husband would scream at me with his Control because I refused to obey him. I'm not a goddamn doormat!
And when he was not behaving like that,I got silent treatment, refusing sex, affection and conversations.
Then telling me he Loves me!
It SCRWED with my head & heart!
The Pisces guy talked to me, shared himself, connected himself to me. And I to him. And he got to know me in ways my husband never ever even came close to at all.
So I craved the Pisces as could no longer bear the cold empty harsh pain of mycontrplling husband!click to expand
Posted by Undine
How do you know he’s still seeing the woman from 6 months ago? Would not be the first relationship to break down because of the antics of a potential step-brat and the perceived mismanagement by the parent.
Posted by Gobbie
Being in his position, if you truly gave that impression, I would have ignored your 'advances' until something had to be said. Even if I was forced to say something, asking if you're single wouldn't come into the equation, as that's completely irrelevant.
The guy is basically fishing and, as others have said, looking for a back door. IMO, that's shady behaviour.
Posted by allrounderPosted by sweethearts
Question being, did he understand my answer?? He said it was a compliment.
My I am, was referring to I am single, then the next statement was, I didn’t mean it to come across that way (asking him out) followed by, I know you’re seeing someone.
Not sure he read that correctly because he then said, it was a compliment
I thought this was gonna be cut simple and dry until his text at the end there lol
Because if someone, even an attractive person I know professionally in the industry told me casually "if you're in the area, drop by and we can grab a coffee", it just sounds so casual to me and since we have a professional formal relationship, I wouldn't think much of it other than to discuss business. When it's a more casual friendship with a guy for me, and with no professional formal business relations, that's when it gets a bit more date sounding to me. So I would think he was wanting clarification. But if he thought it sounded date like, maybe he was flattered and thought you maybe forgot about his gf and kid idk.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptune
I am (asking you out)
I didn’t mean to come across like that (single)
Posted by _elle_Posted by saggurl88
What was the text after this?
You admitting that you know he's seeing someone and single, while he calls you out about your behavior seems thirsty, to put it plainly. He probably noticed.
So what happens after your message, will be more telling of what he's thinking.
How is it being thirsty?
On a professional level, I've asked men and women for coffee or lunch when they were in town. I don't see anything wrong with that.
Him asking if she was single was a bit inappropriate, imo.click to expand
Posted by -Capriquarius
He was hoping you don't know about his gf
Posted by Centaur12Posted by sweethearts
Does Aries know about Gem and all your history??
She knows about the Gem but didn't know I only just stopped talking to her lolclick to expand