Posted by beautifulsoul74
3 Men do know pretty quickly whether we want something long term with a woman or not. She has to be different from the others. Fir me its about character way more than looks. She had to demonstrate that we can build a life together. All men have different criteria in thus area. You should have to struggle to make him treat you the way you wanna be treated especially if you're doing that for him.
I've seen a lot of guys change when they have meet someone they feel is their exception...their entire personalities seem to change from what we know and other guys/gals will joke about him being led by the balls or a thumb print on the head. When his lady is around you can see his body language screaming out she's mine.
^^^ That's when a guy knows you're different and he wants you.
The hot cold...I'm not sure, I don't want a relationship, I'm not ready, I've got so much on my shoulders excuses are just that...EXCUSES, he might not want to rid of you too quickly but he's certainly not wanting to commit either!