Posted by Centaur12

Posted by cake
You're still with the gem?


I might need to find a cap myself.

I'm a Sag no that's the thing we are just friends but she acts like we aren't lol like I am her property or something.

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You clearly are, she can toy with you all she likes because you’re still there. Cut the bs about the friends. You are still wishing waiting hoping.

Take a chance on the Aries, give her your undivided attention. You may actually find happiness but to do this you need to cut gem completely and you know It!!

Good on you, you’re almost there… you’re now seeing right through her…

Time to drop her completely and spend time getting to know the real woman waiting for your attention. Yes, you do need to stop communicating with the gem to give Aries a chance!

Hari Huritau Kia Koe 😉

Why do you even care…. Regrets??

Posted by brianafay

Posted by sweethearts
Once a month after 10 years when I was married… duty calls. Everyone complains but bet they stay and just keep complaining. Better the devil you know than the devil you don’t in a lot of circumstances, just consider yourself lucky you picked someone that still does it for you. Everyone has their own story.

Duty calls !? 😳😔

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Wifely duties … it happens, some do and some refuse.

Once a month after 10 years when I was married… duty calls. Everyone complains but bet they stay and just keep complaining. Better the devil you know than the devil you don’t in a lot of circumstances, just consider yourself lucky you picked someone that still does it for you. Everyone has their own story.

All I heard was “I want, I do, I am I I I.

You aren’t ready for a relationship, it’s not us, it’s “I”

$ 465

Posted by Undine

Posted by sweethearts
Your lady doesn’t sound adventurous which is what you are. You’ve set the weekend up for the things you like. What does she like? Do you like the things she does for fun? I imagine her idea of fun would be shopping maybe movies and eating out. Would that type of weekend away thrill you? Probably not!

As most here have said, it doesn’t sound like you’re compatible.

So the question really is… do you want to be with someone that it sounds you really have no common interest with?

But one could also shop, eat out, Netflix AND relax during a weekend getaway...

The question is...what exactly does the OP do out there, that she doesn't enjoy? How is his driving? Attitude towards other drivers? Is he going to party till early hours, like a 20-something? I would get more specific details from her if I were him.

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He has mentioned trail rides and sunbathing. It’s not for everyone. I have a couple friends that don’t like sunbathing, ever. What is one persons idea of fun could be a complete turn off to another.

Your lady doesn’t sound adventurous which is what you are. You’ve set the weekend up for the things you like. What does she like? Do you like the things she does for fun? I imagine her idea of fun would be shopping maybe movies and eating out. Would that type of weekend away thrill you? Probably not!

As most here have said, it doesn’t sound like you’re compatible.

So the question really is… do you want to be with someone that it sounds you really have no common interest with?

Posted by Gem03
I guess he's not coming back....I just feel sad bc I value his friendship and miss him. But I have no way of contacting him lol

I had a similar experience with my, (I thought best mate) just go about your own life. If they ever come back you can address it, if not they weren’t as close as you thought.

Tbh, I’m feeling indifferent about mine… there’s a lot of water passed under that bridge now and he’s secluded himself from a lot of people that really cared for him.

IMO, It fluctuates depending on the circumstances and the person you’re with. If it’s a relationship and it becomes mundane and boring, well it Goes.

There’s no romance in this relationship if you continue. He’s looking for a mother for his kid. Tell him you’re busy and when he’s free for a as Real date, let you know the details.

It depends…

Which one is the wife/gf
Which one is the side chick??

Posted by geminiflyby
Now I'm going to ask a question. Why are we our own worst enemy?

From what I see.. it’s a case of, I’m successful and this is the way it’s done and I only live and breathe work so you should too, there is no time for fun ….

Libra: I’ll prove you wrong 😂

Your elusive expectations ??

Are Gemini’s control freaks? Do they have a fear of missing out (FOMO). This is not romantic but a work situation and one of authority.

Posted by Truemara
“Eventually he started walking out with me, we would leave at the same time. To the point where a few people made comments or strangers thought we were a couple, its like others could see it.
We never talked or texted outside the gym. Didn't even have each other on social media.
He is a good guy. And crushes happen. I figured it would fade over time. Eh its just a gym crush no biggie.
But my crush got stronger. And a lot of times I would see or hear his gf calling him and they argue a lot, he mentioned that before.
He never really talked about her ever. But he started asking me questions like, how did you meet your bf. What kind of guys have you dated in the past etc.

Fast forward, after the gym one day he asks me to join him and our other friend for food after. He then tells us his gf left him.
2 weeks later he walks in and goes your never gonna believe this. And says he proposed to her. (They do have a 2 year old together)
I kinda dropped my crush after that, distance myself. He is engaged, I was in relationship. It was kinda nice to not feel those feelings for a bit.

He ended up moving a half hour away and moving gyms a couple months ago. About 2 weeks after he leaves our gym he messages me on social media (But never adds me as a friend)
Tells me "I miss your lame ass" (our typical way of talking to one another is banter, roasting each other and jokes for days)
I kinda just start talking about the gym and other butter, didn't say I miss you too or anything. Because at this point I let go of it anyways, plus I'm in a relationship. That was that we didnt talk since”

All this while both in relationships 💁. It’s emotional cheating. “ others could see it”

Without reading this story, it was plain to see from her original post.. everything but she was invested when she had a bf.

Dump one of them, Scorp atm is only there to make Leo take his move. That’s why you’re holding him at arms length.

Leo hasn’t left yet and he’s not convinced you’re into Scorp anyway…. Or…. He really has something with his girl that he doesn’t want to lose.

If you seriously think there could be something with Scorp, then give him a real chance. But I do think he’ll always be second best in your mind.

Posted by Annabelle10
me again 😕
I called him 2 days ago after the radio was silent again for 3 weeks.

he called back and was very nice. He said that his sister is sick and that he works a lot. he has made himself brief again.

He also said that he hasn't forgotten his betting debts and we're going out to eat. then i said that we would only do it if he really wanted to and not because of the bet (we had played basketball at the date). He also briefly told me that the friends he told about me found our meeting interesting. so he talked about me.
he told all of that on his own initiative. and he wanted to call that evening because he was at work. until today nothing. what should I do?
I flirt with others but I want him

Stop throwing yourself at him, if a man really wants you nothing will stop him. Being busy is just an excuse and he’s being nice to you because he knows you’re a good/nice person. He just doesn’t see you as “his person”.

If you keep pursuing him, he may take advantage of you before dropping you.

Life’s like that, we always want more what we can’t have!

Posted by pooface222

Posted by sweethearts
What do you think about centaur’s posts??

Are you asking Me this question?
Or someone else on here?

Also I haven't read, or remember reading Centaurs posts.
What are they about?
Why have you mentioned them?

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You, because I’m sure you’d have an opinion on his posts and at least he pines after someone that isn’t taken.

It blows my mind that after everything you have been through with this Pisces and how well you were doing at one stage that he still has you in his claws. It’s like you thrive off the push pull of this relationship… does it make you feel alive? I would wonder if you ever had him to yourself whether you’d be satisfied as it’ll probably be mundane and nowhere near as exciting anymore??

What do you think about centaur’s posts??