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Posted by Jan60
however, more readings I do, I'm finding that it was also me who allowed this sort of behaviour to happen!
when he first did it, i ws just so confused and scared of losing him i wellcomed him with me open arms! without calling on the sucky behaviour!
That I was rewarding his bad behaviour with attention and adoration!!! Hence I'm the one who allowed this open door crap where he thinks he can just waltz in and out as he pleases!!!
I am so effing done with it. and me telling him my issue won't work, since silence is passive aggressive behaviour.
He will just say, whats your problem? whats with the drama? i just needed some space? you cant even handle that? and agan, it will just be turned into my problem.