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Posted by allrounder
No disrespect. I just get that vibe from Aries in general, so I was just wondering cause Aries people tend to be quite brave in getting what they want at the time they want it. Your impulsive desires.

An Aries guy seems to not be getting the hint that I'm not romantically or sexually interested in him at all, so I've just had to say it directly now. And we don't even talk that often at all. We don't really know too much about each other. But because we live in the same country, he legit texted "how come I still don't have your number even though we both live in _____?".

(real "slick" way of asking for my number lol)

And yeah I know I should just say things directly in general, and I'm working on that. I'm just an empath, so I feel bad when I know something I say or do will definitely/more likely hurt someone's feelings than not cause I know what that feels like. Just coming from a place of looking out for people despite turning them down. I don't have bad intentions, but I also respect my own decisions, feelings and true desires.

That's a great chat up line. Going to be stealing that one.

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Lol is it? It was so aggressively forward for me 😆

It only works because we're in the same country near the same region as each other. So if you're gonna use it, be sure they're in the same country I guess.

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According to my observations based on my aries friends, I can tell you they have a certain type and if you don't fit their standards they won't even acknowledge your existence. And yes, their standards are pretty high, they don't just "chase" anybody. You must be pretty special for them to care.

Interesting, but I don't see what he's basing that on with me. We really haven't gotten to know each other in great detail because I'm not into him so we don't talk often.. at all. And the way we chat is quite awkward to me and he's kinda dry at times. I'm very talkative with the right people. It just doesn't work lol

the only thing I can think of is my appearance and what I post. My Leo Mars and Libra Venus is like a magnet. Maybe Virgo Sun too.
Oh and the fact we live in the same country near the same region. He keeps bringing that up -_-

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I was friends with one aries guy, who tried to flirt but I said no. At one point he send me video of him masturbating, hoping it will turn me on and I will sleep with him. I had to block him to stop him from this nonsense

Men are dumb.

Yes. Never experienced such a lack of tack from aries women, even if their bold in love game.

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fr, I find Aries women easier to befriend and stay friends with than Aries guys. I'm a Virgo Sun and I know they say Aries and Virgo are one of the most horrible matches, but my placements are very Airy and I have a Leo Mars so I guess it makes it easier for me. I do squabble with my Aries girl friends a bit more than with others, but at a healthy distance, we're pretty cool and funny friends ha

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Posted by -Capriquarius
I was friends with one aries guy, who tried to flirt but I said no. At one point he send me video of him masturbating, hoping it will turn me on and I will sleep with him. I had to block him to stop him from this nonsense

Same exact thing a Taurus did to me. Even after he got a gf he still wouldn’t leave me alone until I blocked him.

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Damn, Taurus hoein'? Taurus do tend to have Aries placements in them a lot of the time too I found though.

Posted by nanobotz
I’ve had this issue with a few Aries men in the past being aggressors towards a romantic/sexual relationship. I’ve had 2-3 that I’ve told to literally fuck off and it just seems to turn them on more, like they are all about seeing it as a “challenge” or something.

yikes. Aries and their love for conquering challenges lol maybe something like "I'm sorry but I'm not interested" instead of fuck off that would make them not turned on just because fuck off is quite obscure in a way in this situation? Then again, it's their fault for thinking in such a perverted sense.

No disrespect. I just get that vibe from Aries in general, so I was just wondering cause Aries people tend to be quite brave in getting what they want at the time they want it. Your impulsive desires.

An Aries guy seems to not be getting the hint that I'm not romantically or sexually interested in him at all, so I've just had to say it directly now. And we don't even talk that often at all. We don't really know too much about each other. But because we live in the same country, he legit texted "how come I still don't have your number even though we both live in _____?".

(real "slick" way of asking for my number lol)

And yeah I know I should just say things directly in general, and I'm working on that. I'm just an empath, so I feel bad when I know something I say or do will definitely/more likely hurt someone's feelings than not cause I know what that feels like. Just coming from a place of looking out for people despite turning them down. I don't have bad intentions, but I also respect my own decisions, feelings and true desires.

in terms of Feng Shui rules, having a clean living environment is always a plus for attracting abundance and new things to you. It works for Law of Attraction too.

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Posted by allrounder
Rule of thumb when it comes to emotions, any time you try to suppress and push away an emotion, it will always grow stronger and be harder to push out of your mind.

Find a hobby which you are passionate about and can get your whole being sucked into it so much so that time passes by quick. Time flies when you're having fun after all and it'll help distract you from this dude.

I always hear about Leo x Leo being a stubborn power struggle over the spotlight in the end. But good luck with this situation

Sad thing is my only hobby is working out and weightlifting… which brings me back to him lol

Thank you!

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Maybe try finding a new hobby you've never heard of before? New adventures can be fun to take on!

You could search up random hobbies to do online and see what comes up, maybe there's something there you've never tried or might be excited to try just a suggestion. You've got this!

as a Virgo fem, initially I thought "oh I could date a Cancer guy or female, seems like I'd vibe with them and get along"

And yeah, unfortunately idk any Cancer x Virgo couples in my life (as far as I know anyway since idk everyone's astrology sign). But it's when I started online befriending a Cancer sign guy and girl in the last year during quarantine life that I realised I don't think I'd work with a Cancer sign person. It would heavily depend on their chart obviously, but yeah they're too freaking sensitive for me. And I think as a Virgo, you know how critical, judgemental and or sarcastic in humour we can be. But our constructive criticism obviously comes from a place of love and or care of the person (which is something a lot of people misunderstand about us Virgos) but yeah, none of that flows with a Cancer sign who isn't emotionally mature, confident and secure in themselves yet.

If you come across an insecure Cancer sign, ohohO one wrong comment and you've fallen out. I fell out with the female Cancer sign, I haven't talked with her since sadly. I didn't call her dumb at all, but she took my "it's pretty obvious" comment to heart. And that just don't fly with me, even I'm an empath, but even I'm not as sensitive as that to everything someone does or says, not these days anyway because I work on myself everyday.

The positive points are that they are very chill, kind, warm hearted and are great hype men and women when you need someone to hype you up. And a lot of them are foodies I feel like based on what I saw which I am down with cause so am I.

Oh! and for the dude, I met him on a BDSM site so I guess that can tell you something lol but he was a huge submissive guy that's for sure, and he liked getting scratched.

I haven't befriended an Aquarius guy I don't think. But I have an Aquarius female cousin whom I love to bits and a close Aquarius female friend since childhood, and they're both super sweet, kind and helpful and are good listeners who will listen to you vent and do their best to give you advice. A good shoulder to lean on type friend. Though, I don't think they're very emotionally in touch like a Pisces person or empath for example. However, they're very smart and logical yet unique people.

I don't know if that's the same for the guys though.

Posted by Hamsthetics
Have u ever watch Arrival?
Well 😂

Are you saying Aquarius are as confusing as the alien language? 😆 Side note though, personally, I loved that film heh i love weird, unconventional and mysterious things like this. That alien language mm yes. And you bet I loved The Martian too.

Posted by MareInfame
There is this person that I loved very much that hurt me to my core. Throughout the years, I’ve gone through the deep pain, then detach, then anger/rage, then forgiveness (so I think), then mad again, then I detach - while I detach I’m super happy go on with my life and think it’s all better.

But then out of the blue I start getting the blues again and get deeply sad - miss the person.

I’ve always been proud of my ability of removing toxic people from my life without issue… but this person is really attached, I can’t explain it. Just feels like a close family member of many life times.

This emotional roller-coaster has been going on for 6years now and our friendship was only about 2 1/2 years with some tries on reconciliations that would last for about 6 mo. and then fight again (because past hurts lingered).

I feel like I’ve tried everything to try to forgive this person (for my own sanity) but it doesn’t help that he isn’t on the same page, and I’ve reacted to him many times. I fail miserably with him - don’t feel like I’ve been able to handle things well because he is sure to mess it all up.

Am I stuck on how we should forgive?

I think about what I really want, and I want it to be like the first two years that we were friends. It feels like that person is gone and I’m still trying to find him. 😔🥺

But I thought I had let go of that need. When I detach it feels HEAVENLY!!! I don’t suffer fools.

But with him I feel like a rookie… it drags and drags. Highs and lows… repetitive. I’ve tried reiki, meditating, meeting new people, focusing on myself and the people that love me. It has all worked, so I think. Then I flop.

One of my Pisces friends gets annoyed and impatient with me every time I open up about what I am feeling. He has done some therapy on me as well. Cutting cords, spiritual healing… but it hasn’t been easy. I understand him, because I get impatient with myself too!

My head and heart are not in sync. But I cannot control my heart to feel what my head knows. It’s conflicting and frustrating.

I try military style to be consistent but when I get the blues… it overpowers everything.

The only good news is that I seem to be having them less frequent, so maybe there is hope. It just seems like this road it never ending.

I’m letting my thoughts out here so that Pisces gets a break…lmao!

I think the super important thing when it comes to forgiveness is just like healing. True forgiveness and healing takes time and is never linear! but know that it is completely okay. If you're traumatised, you're traumatised no matter what, but you can heal with it in time. I genuinely believe time can heal all when you work on healing yourself in and out. Rule of thumb is if you can't genuinely wholeheartedly forgive a person or situation 100% right now, even if it's something that's happened years ago, don't beat yourself up! Remind yourself that it is okay to take your time, especially if the trauma is heavy and painful.

Anyway, I learnt a new forgiveness technique recently. It's called "forgiveness letters". You basically sit down and you write to this person (but don't send it physically) and in the first half of the letter, you let out all of your emotions conscious and repressed onto the paper. Anything you've ever wanted to say to them or just speak out of your heart towards them.

Then the second half of the letter, you write out all of the good times you've had together and find gratitude in that. But if you didn't have any good times, then simply just do the first half and then finally, you sign it off. And you can either burn it, or rip it apart and throw it out.

Rule of thumb when it comes to emotions, any time you try to suppress and push away an emotion, it will always grow stronger and be harder to push out of your mind.

Find a hobby which you are passionate about and can get your whole being sucked into it so much so that time passes by quick. Time flies when you're having fun after all and it'll help distract you from this dude.

I always hear about Leo x Leo being a stubborn power struggle over the spotlight in the end. But good luck with this situation

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Virgo fem here Virgos are generally habitual bosses in ghosting people, so ghost him before he ghosts you lolol

nah but have you honestly sat down to communicate with this dude? I think that would be a good and emotionally mature thing to set out to do to see if this can be smoothed over between you, if not, or if either one of you just aren't ready or emotionally mature enough to do so then don't and just ghost him.

And I agree, he should've been courteous and considerate about your efforts to get to him and celebrate his birthday too, and also respecting your schedule. I don't like when people let me know about changes last minute either, especially when I'm fully ready. Could be his impulsive and unpredictable Aries Moon.

And about the routine, we Virgos love sticking to our routine once it's set. Even I'm going through cementing my new routine at the moment and I usually hated my routine getting ruined or if I'm too late on time, because Virgoan perfectionism lol but personally for me, I've been learning and practicing to use my versatile and flexible ability to adapt to new and sudden situations and changes and allowing myself to be okay if my schedule/routine can't always be followed every single day, because life is unpredictable!

Anyway good luck with your situation

True story

A Virgo man ghosted me on our very first phone call.

He called me, talked for a bit and hung up on me mid sentence 🤣

Never to be heard from again

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aw I'm sorry that happened to you, what a sucky dude lol but don't worry about him, you deserve better for yourself 👉🏻

Virgo fem here Virgos are generally habitual bosses in ghosting people, so ghost him before he ghosts you lolol

nah but have you honestly sat down to communicate with this dude? I think that would be a good and emotionally mature thing to set out to do to see if this can be smoothed over between you, if not, or if either one of you just aren't ready or emotionally mature enough to do so then don't and just ghost him.

And I agree, he should've been courteous and considerate about your efforts to get to him and celebrate his birthday too, and also respecting your schedule. I don't like when people let me know about changes last minute either, especially when I'm fully ready. Could be his impulsive and unpredictable Aries Moon.

And about the routine, we Virgos love sticking to our routine once it's set. Even I'm going through cementing my new routine at the moment and I usually hated my routine getting ruined or if I'm too late on time, because Virgoan perfectionism lol but personally for me, I've been learning and practicing to use my versatile and flexible ability to adapt to new and sudden situations and changes and allowing myself to be okay if my schedule/routine can't always be followed every single day, because life is unpredictable!

Anyway good luck with your situation

I smash everyone to share da love

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I just wanna solve this curious enigma of mine tbh.

When I've found out a guy who has/had romantically liked me over the years, a lot have been Pisces guys (some strange, some coming on too strong, some charming) and I just don't get it lol then again, I'm the opposite sign, Virgo Sun and I have a Leo Mars (dominant in my chart).

But I don't know what specifically it is that attracts a Pisces guy, let alone a Pisces person in general.
I heard they get attracted to like popular/very beautiful people but is that it? What about personality?

p.s. I would search it up on some generic magazine article, but I don't like those cause they're so generic.

I'm a pisces man and i can 100% answer this question for you, i infatuate over virgos.

One of a virgo's best qualities is their purity. Whatever it is that makes a virgo a virgo leads to a quality of purity. This could also be viewed as innocence or a quality of being "untouched". Hence the title "virgo the virgin"

My armchair analysis: Pisces is underactive conscious self/overactive unconscious self. Virgo is obviously the opposite. For virgo this sort of means that she has a lack of feelers. Because of this virgos have to guard their precious few feelers viscously... because if even one gets damaged then its game over, they just can't cope. They can't let just anything "in".

As a pisces, the universe whispers "what things should be" into my subconscious. I know what females SHOULD be, what they were MEANT to be. This does not exist in today's world. The only place i've ever found it is in virgo females who have not yet become.... evil virgos. Evil virgos are the worst.

Comprende?

I see, thanks for the response! Well, I have a Pisces Moon and am an empath, so I'm not your classic Virgo I'd say. I am logical but having a Pisces Moon and being an empath balances me out but it does get hard sometimes because being an empath is so intense. So you're right about closing up when emotions get hurt more and more.

I wouldn't say all of us Virgos are evil. Every sign has both light and dark, positive and negative and kind and toxic people. I've met my fair share of creepy and stalkerish Pisces. But I've also met truly kind Pisces who are great listeners and advice givers.

I've dated 2 Virgos in the past as a Pisces and they both had a lot of similarities to each other like both were attracted to me before I was in them, both were quite willing to experiment things sexually, both used to get clingy, and both had their dark sides as well.

eh, every human needs a light and dark side. The yin to our yang. The salt to our pepper. It balances us out ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

What are your placements?

Virgo Sun, Gemini Rising, Pisces Moon, Libra Venus and Leo Mars. I guess those are the main placements. Make of it what you will, but overall I like my placements

The only thing I like there is the Leo mars.

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hah I didn't ask you to like anything but fair enough 😆 care to share what your placements are since we're in the topic now?

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Posted by allrounder
You can't really predict your partner based on YOUR birth chart about YOU. The closest you can get with it is looking at your Juno sign which tells you about marriage, and what you look for in a committed partner and I thought mine was pretty accurate because mine's Aquarius in Juno meaning I like someone who's unconventional and quirky but fun and adventurous.
If you want the predictions you asked for, I'd recommend looking at general pick a card tarot readings on YouTube, or purchasing a personal tarot reading from one of the tarot YouTubers you resonate most with.

It says 20 Scorpio 19' 2 in that little table on the left on my natal chart infront of Juno... What exactly should I look for now? Juno in scorpio?
I do try card tarot reading on YouTube somwtimes but I wonder if they're super generic and hence relatable? 🤔
Thank you though!! Your input helps!!

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I honestly don't know how to read these circle charts too well, so I just use calculators online. Literally type up Juno sign calculator and it'll come up, all you need is your birth date I think. Pretty easy stuff and it'll tell you the meaning on most sites too.

Yeah so general pick a card tarot readings are for the general public, but if you've picked the card based on your true intuition and what is calling to you then your message you need to hear will be in there, and if not, it's either not your correct pile or just not the reading for you since it's a general public reading. If you REALLY want a prediction that's personal to you, buy a personal tarot reading from any of the tarot readers on there that you resonate with. I really resonate with these 3 tarot readers from YouTube: The Crystal Girl, Chloe Verae and Lemos Marion. I've bought readings from all 3, they're very very good spiritual mediums and are kind souls.