Posted by jru2
Anyways, I'm trying to be straight up with the girl I'm with now. I've already ruined a couple of evenings talking about how someday we might have to experiment with other people. She don't like the idea, but at the same time, I totally see her as being like I get a few years into a relationship ... a little bored, maybe feeling neglected, and bam ... a wonderful op presents itself! I don't think she will be able to resist any more than I, so why don't we just be upfront about it and give each other a pass? Then at least we know that no one is sneaking around on the other lying. For me, that's just the easiest way for me to trust her ... she has the freedom to do whatever the hell she wants, so why wouldn't she always be honest with me about it? Of course, I would expect to be able to enjoy the same freedoms from time to time.
Posted by sweethearts
Well it depends what you want from her??
Dropping her like a hotcake can reverse things IF she has had any thoughts of something other with you. You were the one that first initiated contact several times. After she told you to back off, was she the one to initiate contact again to keep you falling all over her? If so, fall over someone else in front of her and be blas? with her and her texts etc. This could promote a 360 on her part...and if it doesn't you haven't lost anything.
But one things for sure, we don't like losing our admirers. Makes us feel special!
Posted by Galileia428
That's easy..they don't. They'd rather pretend like nothing is ever wrong.