Posted by bmoon8
Not to mention, I don’t think the OP fits the bill as a much younger man being preyed on by an older woman.

He’s 31.

The lady in question is probably about 42-45 and smokin hot 🔥

Stay safe and dry :/

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Posted by sweethearts
How are you coping? Are you near the floods? Keeping safe?

Hey, things are okay, calm most of the day save the driving rains, I'm not in the flooded zones, but very close nearby. I'm keeping safe, but the city is a mess, subways are trashed. My neighborhood is central BK and has decent drainage...so I'm okay. Thanks for asking ^_^.

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We have severe floods in Australia and NZ use to when I grew up. I saw the subways and that was unbelievable and going to take a while to sort through once the rains stop! What a messy few years we are all having.

Geezuz 30 years younger!!

How are you coping? Are you near the floods? Keeping safe?

Any Dxper’s from there?

Half the women’s age + 7, anyone younger you’re a cougar

Can’t remember where I heard that from… probably some young guy trying prove himself to score!

Posted by goldenfish
Context: I met a guy, Virgo sun/Aries moon/Libra venus. Early days, only 1 month of dating (including hanging at my place, cooking together, sex, etc.). He is out of town for 10 days holidays, texts me everyday (he initiated), invited to his place the day he is back in town (we live around 70 km apart). Oki-doki, I took a train ticket (confirmed with him 4 days before the trip date), bought some things (not expensive, just nice compliments for dinner, as it was his birthday we were about to celebrate at his place).

1 hour before I was supposed to take a train he asked when would I leave as he had to plan his next day. There was only 1 train available per day, so I just sent the timetable. He replied he had routine workout at 12.00 and after that he had to clean the house. The thing is that the only train back available was at 18.00. I assumed he would like me to be out of his place by 12.00, so I would have had to hang out in the city for 5 hours until my train and really did not like the vibe. So, I sent a message that he should have said before that he was on a tight schedule. His reply was "you can stay at home".

I do not like the drama, and although, he knew that I bought a ticket and it was non refundable (again, he initiated this talk 1 hour before my departure), I said "alright". Since then we did not talk. Yeah, I know it could be an ex-girlfriend suddenly back or just mood swings or "insert the reason here".

So, question: should I unfriend him (he followed me on social media) and block without saying anything? I am not into "orbiting" thing. Not sure how cool people are ending things these days.

He has been out of town for 10 days and yes needed to get things done. He probably had to restock food cupboards etc and clean which is normal to plan for your week after returning from a vacay or being away. And yes the gym is important to some of us. I read his answer of “you can stay at home “ as you can stay at his while he’s doing this. What made you think he was saying “stay home then”?

Yes, a lot of assuming instead of asking exactly what he meant and having a discussion, you got on the defensive and started to assume all sorts of crazies… ex-girlfriend showing up??

You say you don’t like drama, yet you make drama when you haven’t learned the art of communication. Ask, don’t react. Do you talk or text? Texting isn’t real communication. It’s scribble on a page with no depth!

You were together 3 months and had a month when you didn’t talk?? Were you together just in your mind and not his? Sounds more like a one sided relationship and he’s already ghosting you.

Hold your head up and just keep moving

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Posted by sweethearts
It’s funny how people read but don’t comprehend or choose their own agenda.

This thread was purely about whether “you” as an individual had changed your mind about the vaccination after 9 months and the reason why and what vaccination you took if you did.

It wasn’t another shit fight on who is right or wrong and a chance to insult people with difference of opinion. Every individual chooses their own path and has NO right to JUDGE anyone else!

Thanks to those that answered the OP.

you joined dxp in 2006 and u still hope people respect a thread ? fool

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It’s funny how people read but don’t comprehend or choose their own agenda.

This thread was purely about whether “you” as an individual had changed your mind about the vaccination after 9 months and the reason why and what vaccination you took if you did.

It wasn’t another shit fight on who is right or wrong and a chance to insult people with difference of opinion. Every individual chooses their own path and has NO right to JUDGE anyone else!

Thanks to those that answered the OP.

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Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MrNobody
I'm fully vaccined.

Ya'll dumb for choosing to be unvaccinated.

actually you're not. You need a booster shot and will most likely need to get it every 6months or whatever bullshit they sell you.

Do you need a booster every 6 months? They aren’t saying that down under, we are way behind the rest of the world here with only 24% of the population vaccinated.

yeah here in the US they want you too get a booster shot,I just made up the months part but it wouldn't surprise me if its every 6 months or a year.

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lol you know that’s like Chinese whispers hey?

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Posted by Saul_of_Tarsus

Posted by MrNobody
I'm fully vaccined.

Ya'll dumb for choosing to be unvaccinated.

I am definitely dumb and taking my chances. If I die, I die. Prolly earlier than expected, but when have anyone's expectations ever been met?

I'm waiting for Pluto in Aquarius to make a second judgement on the vaccine. Literally nothing will change my mind.

https://www.fda.gov/patients/drug-development-process/step-3-clinical-researchWhile preclinical research answers basic questions about a drug’s safety, it is not a substitute for studies of ways the drug will interact with the human body.Clinical trials follow a typical series from early, small-scale, Phase 1 studies to late-stage, large scale, Phase 3 studies.Phase 3
Study Participants: 300 to 3,000 volunteers who have the disease or condition

Length of Study: 1 to 4 years

Purpose: Efficacy and monitoring of adverse reactions

Approximately 25-30% of drugs move to the next phase


@sweethearts If we are using this system to designate what phase the medical intervention for the virus is at then it is still in phase 2 regardless of what spew the mass media is showing. Long term effects for me are 3-4 years.

Just a question, no judgement. What makes you more concerned about the long term effects of the vaccine but not the virus itself?

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Good question.

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Posted by MrNobody
I'm fully vaccined.

Ya'll dumb for choosing to be unvaccinated.

I am definitely dumb and taking my chances. If I die, I die. Prolly earlier than expected, but when have anyone's expectations ever been met?

I'm waiting for Pluto in Aquarius to make a second judgement on the vaccine. Literally nothing will change my mind.

https://www.fda.gov/patients/drug-development-process/step-3-clinical-researchWhile preclinical research answers basic questions about a drug’s safety, it is not a substitute for studies of ways the drug will interact with the human body.Clinical trials follow a typical series from early, small-scale, Phase 1 studies to late-stage, large scale, Phase 3 studies.Phase 3
Study Participants: 300 to 3,000 volunteers who have the disease or condition

Length of Study: 1 to 4 years

Purpose: Efficacy and monitoring of adverse reactions

Approximately 25-30% of drugs move to the next phase


@sweethearts If we are using this system to designate what phase the medical intervention for the virus is at then it is still in phase 2 regardless of what spew the mass media is showing. Long term effects for me are 3-4 years.

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I understand your caution, however, will it change when the majority of the population is vaccinated and are free to move about in the “new norm” and you are limited in the things you can do because you are un-vaccinated?

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I was against it at first. But im now fully vaxxed with both shots. I won't rush to give my children the vaccine until I'm fully aware of long term side effects, if there are indeed any.

Which vaccine did you get?

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by MrNobody
I'm fully vaccined.

Ya'll dumb for choosing to be unvaccinated.

actually you're not. You need a booster shot and will most likely need to get it every 6months or whatever bullshit they sell you.

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Do you need a booster every 6 months? They aren’t saying that down under, we are way behind the rest of the world here with only 24% of the population vaccinated.

9 months ago, GC11 made this thread and the majority of you said no you wouldn’t take the vaccine until you saw how it affected the ones that did.

If that was you, have you had it now?
Has your opinion changed?
If you have, which one did you choose and why?

Posted by GC11_
If you are offered this vaccine, would you take it? Why or why not?

A. Yes, give it me ASAP.

B. Ehh, I’ll wait to see how it effects other people first.

C. No, I don’t trust it.

Posted by pooface222
So far No-One has actually answered my question!!

He's come back into my life, and is behaving in ways that seem to want to make me jealous.

Would a Pisces man do this?

That’s because like Centaur, you’re only looking for validation to go back to this guy who is using you and non committal. We see that clearly but you are waiting for the 1 in 50 of us to say… go for it, wants you and can’t live without you!

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Or trying to be I think!

And its only neen this year that I'm finally healing and feeling quite ok with out him.

SO I THOUGHT!!!

And I have a question to ask...Pisces Men mainly.

I have talked LOADS about this Pisces man here over the years. But maiy mainly around 5yrs,ago.

Anyhoo..its been 7yrs since he came into my life and he is STILL with his,partner!
STILL complaining about her!
And now I feel is up to his old tricks again.
He played with my heart earlier this year.
Jan/Feb he called me and asked "When are we seeing each other?"
I went to stay the night with him at a house he bought for his son to live in while studying at uni. So as his,son was away he invited me over for dinner etc.
Anyway..a month later in March, he said "dont call me or text me or WhatsApp me. My partner wants to see my phone!"
WTFF?!
I was allowed to email him at work though!
He had the cheek to come over to mine to return something of mine so I gave him a HUGE piece of my mind!
I had had ENOUGH of his bs for years!

He kept apologising and began taking me out for lunch again. ..to talk etc.

And we've barely spoken since.
2 weeks ago he began coming to the gym to see me in my classes - like he always used to - but i gave him the look from hell as was not happy to see him with his AUDACITY at turning up to take part in my fitness class that i teach!

Recently over the last week he has been hanging round me when he sees me at the gym. And has called me Gorgeous and also Lover, just like he used to!
🤦‍♀️
However..on the phone I asked him straight out..
"Are we going to be together? Or do you just want to be friends?"
He replied..
"Lets be friends and see where it goes. Bye Lover. I'll be thinking of you."
😫
.SERIOUSLY??
WTFFF?!??

So..
Today he called me twice. But i had blocked him! My phone shows blocked calls.. hence why i know he called.
He texted me saying he went for a walk with a friend. Hmmm..a woman?
I callled hom back. He didn't answer. He then texts "sorry i missed you. Will call in 30mins"
He never called. So my anxiety set in. Along with my reawakened love too.
And I've texted him 4 times. Just chit chat. And called him 4 times too!
FFS!

In the past he has mentioned he was with his partner or with a male friend. He would mention his name.

My question is..
Would a Pisces man say this to try and make me jealous, to make me want him again?

I've been playing it cool with him since starting to heal. But TODAY...OMG its like I'm falling in love with him all over again..and the anxiety from his games is returning!

HELP!

I lost my marriage over this guy because 7yrs ago and for 7yrs he has been telling me how unhappy in his relationship he is.
And as I was unhappy too we shared our pain and fell in love!

So seeing as he is returning to my classes. Calling me. Calling me Lover and Gorgeous..while I've been playing it cool..

Would a Pisces man try to make a woman jealous in this way if he feels he isn't getting her attention?
I just know how indirect, passive as hell, avoidant, he is so...

Wtf pooface, you didn’t say he was married!!!

Don’t even go back there, ever!!! Block this wanker!! Pisces are jerks they want you hanging around dropping everything for them but only ever give you crumbs. He was doing that for 7 years and all while he was still married and you wasted those years in him. Wake up, as my daughter so gallantly put it to me one day…

Why, would you put on yesterday’s underwear 🤣

But she made sense!!

Noooo!

I was the one who was married!

He was in a long-term relationship.

I don't know how you thought he was the married one!?

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He was still in a relationship, whether a piece of paper was signed or not

From my observation, younger guys like the challenge of an older women, they say, they like that they aren’t demanding and insecure and know what they want. These guys look after themselves physically which is the appeal to older woman however, they lack worldly experience and substance.

Older men, let themselves go and no longer try. A great deal don’t care too much about appearance yet still chase the hottest women in the room and can have issues downstairs… or they are committed/married and are looking for a fling.

Still looking for a happy medium myself.

Of course, I’m generalising but this ^^^ through my experiences and that of a few single friends.

A 30 year old is Adult enough to make up their own mind, I don’t know anyone that has a relationship with this age gap… either that or you just don’t notice with couples. Oh yeah, my ex husband and his wife, she is around 14 years younger I think. Wouldn’t know at all. They have a beautiful daughter together and are in it for life. I don’t think there was any issues about theirs ages from the beginning.