Geez reading these forums helps to see how desperate girls can be! Whether someone has a SO, children or not they really don't care at all. So ready to pounce on any man that looks at them. Real sad!!! Girls like this, I hope get chewed up by real man eaters and then when they do find someone, I hope they sit and watch in vain how their men are getting hit on by newer toys!

He already thinks little of me.....and what do you mean by "if you left any doubt for the guy"?

I hope he contacts me, I really do!

Libra the scales....what we have weighed up in our minds in order to make a decision can be quite definite at the time but after a week or longer especially with no contact from that person can make those scales start tipping in the opposite direction which makes us doubt our original conviction! I'm not saying it is the case here but a definite possibility. Done this myself sooooo many times that when in doubt I come back to DXP land!

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There's only one way to treat Libra males : Treat them mean to keep them keen! By all means never show him how lost you are without him. It's pressure to him. Just go on with your life as if you just could care less what is going on. He will come back to you.

And yes if he does come a calling, mean as in, you have moved on and oh really didn't expect to hear from you again. Give him attention but after you have done whatever you were doing before he decided to call you back again and certainly don't let him know you are dropping everything to be at his beck and call....or he will become bored quickly

beauty is in the eye of the beholder Shaks and he's got that Bruce Willis die hard hot look

I got a response from him today. That hes sorry if he hurt me, but i smothered him beyond repair. That he will leave money in my mailbox for his presents. That i couldnt go 8 hours without contacting him & to never contact him again.

What are you thinking...or not at all!! He doesn't communicate well yet he has communicated enough to tell you directly to "never contact him again"

Read and listen, if you contact him he will think very little of you. You're only chance if you left any doubt for the guy, is to do exactly as he has asked. If he contacts you again after searching his own soul and realising he was too impulsive, then and only then should you act!

Sucks that it ruined your Christmas Day though...sorry for that

3rd opinion would be helpful!! F**k I'm a Libra and you both make sense in what you are saying, it's already gone around in my head...

He was sick late last October, i went to see him in January when I was in the same country. No not with mum. He bounced and went home not long after I had visited but was quite well when I went anyway. I last spoke to him on father's Day, for no reason I decided to call but I never left my new contact details as I didn't want him calling whenever he wanted.

I also don't feel a loss as such but I think the tears are just all the emotions and all the thoughts and coming to terms with it all being over...

but also because I went through it alone, he didn't care enough to be here or contact me, I'm very aware that his actions are speaking volumes right now!

It's the middle of the night now...I wake up and start crying, yes, been drinking

it hits me that I'm all alone....my bf has chosen to celebrate Xmas with his mates. Only received one text from him after I told him, asking if I was alright. Of course I was at the time...

Not sure how I feel about that? Am I about to over react??

BIGGEST DRAMA QUEEN gemfirechick, but fuck she was funny and had balls!!!
BIGGEST DRAMA KING KOL
BIGGIST PRICK (NOT A BODY PART) any of the guys that describe themselves as King of....
BIGGIST HO All the over 39ers!!
MEMBER WHO RUN'S THERE MOUTH THE MOST AND SAYS NOTHING Eden
MEANIST MOTHER treetrunkER ON THE BOARDS Tubby/Cal
PERSON YOU WOULD KILL IF YOU COULD GET YOUR HANDS ON THEM no one that I can think of at the moment but bound to be a Scorp!!!
MOST FULL OF butter TOC, true blue Aussie!!
BIGGEST WHINER (PERSON WHO WHINES THE MOST I DON'T LIKE THIS I DON'T LIKE THAT CHANGE THIS CHANGE THAT)
I DON'T WANT THIS TO BE A COMPLETE DOWNER BEST LOOKING WOMAN IN A PIC OR UGLIST MAN. Women...Pesco Man Walter, but don't think that is his real pic!

Wow!!! Did I hit a soft spot with the ferocious 69er???

lmao, I'm a frequent reader ;P

thanks for your input...isn't it funny how some of us can break the cycle....I fall off the wagon ALOT!!!

I'm not lost anymore...I don't need answers, I'm at peace with it all.

This was my private funeral, thanks for those that cared to come.

He is at rest

Mine just died last night. I had laid him to rest in my mind more than 5 years prior but I struggled with it most of my life.

He wanted forgiveness and he knew he had messed up... unfortunately too little too late for 3 of his 4 children. When I told my own children this morning one of them cried which bought a single tear to my eye because she hadn't known him well but she was picked as his favourite.

If you have children whether you are with the mother or not, it's time to step up and be a REAL DAD. Too many of you make bullshit excuses why you aren't their for your children and when you are old and start to realise what you have done it can be all too late as it was with me and my brothers. In the meantime, we the children suffer a good deal from Abandonment issues! It messes with our relationships if we don't get a handle on it quickly.

I'm not going to the funeral, I would if it was easy to get to, especially this time of year. Not sure why, apart from the fact that he was my father. He had a new family, and I'm curious to know what they thought of him. He was a typical cold Army man....guess the cold has rubbed off on me.

But anyway Father, I hope for the most of it you were satisfied with your life and yes, I did abandon you as you did we...

And I do wish you to Rest in Peace

Yes please, draw some for me

Posted by venusianbull
Are you actually hearing yourself Dom? "I can't allow myself to be happy because of a fake tree and a shit ton of boxes underneath it." Quit being a puckerstring over the whole affair and just like who you like. Quit trying to logistically map out every holiday and pitfall before they even occur. SELF! Meet DEFEAT. Pffffft, just stop that nonsense. NAO.

It's fitting VB...what else would you expect from Dom?

First he has never made the cut, now, no one else will measure up! Still a lot of soul searching needed to be happy!

How old are you? serious question, don't think you should be dating at this age. Wait a few more years or you're likely to end up pregnant!!

I believe the "vibe" someone would get is only for those that you aren't interested in. You would throw off that vibe sub-consciencely not intentionally..

How many guys do you really find attractive or someone you would consider dating 1 in 100?? If that?

Don't be so worried about what someone else percieves from you, the right one will get you