I hope so Tiki, most people have to go through and learn their own lessons. But it still kills me inside having to bite my tongue and watch as she struggles with him. She earns great money for her age, but barely enough to support two with high priced habits!

However, under NO circumstances will she be moving back into my home with or without him! I've come out of this having learnt my own lesson...one which I knew going in but was too nice to say No!

Update : They were excepted for the flat she applied for They will be moving this Saturday. Soooo relieved.

And yes, VB think you are spot on there, his Mama made him the boy he is today. Before coming here he hadn't worked at all and sat around home being catered to. Once here he performed for about 8 weeks and then left his job without a replacement and has been sitting around ever since!!

Because of the work conditions I wouldn't have minded but then there was no effort on his part to help himself better himself or do anything to help her out. The other day they were pulled over in their car which isn't road worthy and they have 2 weeks to get it right. A week later and come Saturday morning, he's sleeping in and she's up at a sparrows fart sorting the car out!!! I mean wtf?? That's when I really lost it. I don't and won't sit there and watch her live that life style . Her choice and thank goodness she is taking it elsewhere so I can concentrate on my own love life. Which by the way is just perfect with my Leeb

Haha, you guys are so funny! How could he possibly be Libra, we might be lazy at times but I don't think filthy... except of minds

His birthdate is 18th May 1993 making him Taurus.

I'm ready to pack their bags and put them out the door. I spoke with her this morning about how he is making her do everything and how her friend and boss both have my view on him. Told her he has to man up and that he isn't my man so there is no reason that I need to put up with his shit! If she wants to be treated that way then that's her choice but my younger daughter and I don't want them around anymore.

There is little saved money but her dad is prepared to put up bond for them and I have given her numbers this morning to a beautiful camping ground that rent units long term. This is the easiest was for them to get out and cheapest too. I am forcing the issue and also making it very unpleasant for them to be here in my home. Her problem with leaving is she thinks she has choices because I have provided a lavish life style which they have used and abused for too long now. I take blame for being too nice but that's part of my personality and my downfall. However now I'm over being that person in this situation and I am forcing them out!

My girls and I often bump heads about their situations with their friends/bf's and they have never appreciated how I don't hold back on my opinions and yes there has been many a cat fights with us but at the end of the day they know I love them and we have a unbreakable bond. Whether I like their men or not, their choices in life are their own to make and I keep out mostly unless they are under my roof!

And no to the person that thought that I ever let any man treat me like this...would never and has never happened!

Hey Tiki, I was actually thinking of PMing you but decided to put it here

He is scared of me and hides especially if there is only the two of us around. Every week day he leaves the house to drop her off to the bus stop and doesn't return until he picks her up again. And yes I have told them right from the start if he isn't working by Xmas then he has to go back home. She is trying to get their own place before then so they can stay here. I'm just getting tired of seeing what she is going through as I know if the two of them together were working they would do well. He really isn't that bad as a person...or should I say there is something a bit sketchy about him but I can't put my finger on it. And it's not enough to ring alarm bells.

What annoys more is that he is lazy and dirty and has that "me man you woman mentality" and that is what is getting to me more and more as I see him letting her do everything, even after a long days work, 12 hours. After all she is my daughter and really has come a long way ( she was a horrible teenage)and I have finally got her back on track and doing sooo well and then this Handbrake!! Arrrg!

I have made a rod for my own back here by talking to her about things I want him/them to do and I think it is time to voice my opinion directly to him. I only hope he doesn't take it out on her because if I see this happening then I will be forced to throw them out. I guess I can live with her hating me tempararily. But it's never easy to involve yourself in anyone's relationship and especially not your own children!

My daughter has bought home a LOSER! She is working and making good money, he is spending it all, (alcohol and dope, I believe) doesn't have a job and makes little effort to finding one and lately is throwing hissy fits at her! He's lazy and dirty with bad habits and orders her around. Tbh, I'm totally dumbfounded as to why she puts up with his crap! I certainly never take shit from any man!

They are living with me and have been for 5 months as he has moved from our hometown. I have told them to find their own place but because he isn't working it is hard to get anything. Short of killing him or throwing them out on the streets, I'm at a loss as to what I can do. I've held my tongue for the last 6 weeks since he lost his first job but my patience is wearing really thin and I am starting to hate the guy! Rant over!

Fundamental for the guy and

Gingerscorp for the girl...

Neither are here anymore

He's already purchased it or at least paying it off so perhaps he can still exchange it.

Honesty it is, with more force this time. I've never dated anyone that has totally flipped out like this before. Right from the start we both spoke of never marrying again...I know I was serious! I havent even said those words yet!

Your a friend still keep it that way for now. We don't let go of our exs that quickly and the bigger the jerk he was the harder to get over it. You're her sounding board atm and of course a distraction when she is lonely. Perhaps let her know you'd like more when she has sorted out herself with the ex and you'll wait for her.

Despite my protests of taking things slowly my Leeb of 2 1/2 months powers ahead. Our birthdays are coming up and he has told me he is splashing out on an extravagant ring for me.

This makes me really uncomfortable as I shed all my jellewry after my marriage as it felt to me like ownership.

How can I get through to him without crushing him, I know he just wants to rock my world. But I also know that I can't wear his ring at this point in the relationship.

QUESTIONS
1. Long
2. 75!25 white/red
3. Get him myself
4. Bed
5. Awake
6. Short

Libra

My libra loves me and says it sometimes. He'd say it more often if I said it back but I haven't yet. But I know when I do I will mean it... He could be waiting a while...

Thailand is one of the most amazing cheap luxurious places I've been to so far! Definitely worth a visit if you want to be pampered for your every whim!! I love it here. EEE you have to make the trip and strangely I dreamed I met you here last night. Lmao :/

Don't be a dumb fuck!!

Doesn't matter how a baby is created because if the guy hasn't covered his end then he is just as much to blame for creating a new life. A woman can't get pregnant on her own and when a child comes into the world whether the parents are together or not they are both responsible to see this child grow up.

Being an arrogant obnoxious weed that decides that it's only because she is a dumb slut changes nothing. His life has now changed too because of his actions...somewhere down the track he will meet someone that he wants to spend his life with and doesn't consider just a trick in bed and he will have to explain that he has a child or maybe even 3 if he is that STUPID and have a few baby's mamma's to deal with!

I can guarantee you that what you are picking up on is intuitive...

from experience listen very carefully!

I'm dating someone now with 2 younger children 11 & 8. My youngest is 16 and I'm thankful I'm nearly at the end of the worst years!

At this stage I'm not interested in meeting them although the issue has been raised a number of times.

For so many reasons.

1. I think it's too early in the relationship to involve his younger children even though he has met mine and they all like him, they are older. They understand that sharing time with someone doesn't necessarily mean marriage etc

2. His ex is and quickly moved someone into their family home. Too much too soon.

3. He only has them every 2nd weekend and because he works 6 full days I think that time should be for him and his kids only. They get a Saturday night stay over and are home again by Sunday at 5pm. No holidays unless he takes leave during the school holidays.

4. I myself came from a split marriage and I had step dads that were around from one night stands to a couple of weeks/months and eventually my step dad who has been with us for 30 years now. And unless I'm totally certain I don't want to be a fly by nighter in their lives.

Posted by Nemesis
if you read a few of p-angels older posts - she used to give quite valid advice, actually she was fairly "nice". when and why did she become so mean and rude? that is something only she can answer.

See I don't see mean and rude just blunt and to the point. And Yes I have been opened eyed on a few of my own threads. Opinions are just that!

What's suspicious abut being nice?

And does P belong in this equation, she's just a straight shooter doesn't try to be all nice... I kinda get one of these people is not like the others...the sesame street song! lol

They looked just as bad first time around!

There are some fashion that shouldn't ever come back.