@Stazy1378 Of course yes, actually I supposed to be the one who got angry because when I had a bike crash, everything happened so fast and I was lying on the street already. He didn't make a move and he said it was cause of the crowded traffic. It wasn't him who crashed me, but I still put it on him for being oblivious. I went straight 2 weeks silence for self-healing, and when I'm done with my thoughts, I decided to give us one more shot.

He thought I dumped him, so he updated his dating app profile, and when he saw my text again after 2 weeks, things went like this:

Me: So are we over or not?
Him: I want you to dump me, so that you don't suffer, and I'm questioning myself if I can have feelings for anyone else. After the day you crashed, I realized I'm drained. So I don't want you to be sad anymore because of me to be honest. I lost my feelings in general.

That does not look like he's ending things, and after that I explained that I'm still in this rship with him and I love him so I will try my best for this rship. Many days after we still text and he even sends me an IQ game. Just that he isn't initiated anymore, he used to text first everything. Maybe he scares he would hurt me again. So 80% intuitively I believe he's more depressed than wanting to cut things off.

Now that you have more details, how do you think?

@WolfInRamsClothing I know but our romantic interest is the reason why he was depressed, I just need to know if those are Aries's depressing symtoms cause he is not energetic as he was. And for 3 months we were together before the incident he was still pretty much falling for me, the matter in fact, the night of the incident he asked me out.

So if he isn't into me anymore means: after seeing how useless he was when I had a bike crash and he blamed himself for that, he then decided he wasn't into me anymore...for sth he could not do...??? it doesn't make sense. If I do sth, or am being clingy or mushy I can understand but this time it was his doing, I'm still the same before and after having the incident.

@LadyNeptune 3 months we were together girl, read it carefully. We've only been quiet for 10 days after the incident, he thought I was the one who dumped him so when I reached out he told me he wished I would dump him for real cause he was drained of love in general. And if there's anything I know about Aries if he doesn't like it he would have stayed silent or agreed to cut off when I clearly asked him about our rship status....I'm the last person to wait on anyone for 1 month of silence, not to mention 3 months. The situation is upside down what you're thinking. Read it carefully.

@Stazy1378 thks for the tips, but I'm still thinking if this is him being depressed or not into me anymore. Cause I'm more convinced if he doesn't he would be more cruel like answering after 1, 2 days or complete distance himself, or even when I asked him how our rship was he would have ended it already....

But he still is in contact though, just doesn't take initiative anymore. And last Sunday he even agreed to eat out with me in a restaurant right next to my house while he drove like 8km from his house. If he really doesn't into me anymore he would have cancelled it, or tried his best to avoid meeting right?

Hi, this is rather an awkward topic. But here it goes.

Long story short: He had a one-year rship then he was dumped by his previous love, and afterwards we dated for 3 months now > one day he was in oblivious mood after long day at work and I had a bike crash right in front of him without having him protecting me > I confronted him why he was ignorant, he only said few caring things for my injuries > I went completely mad and silent with him for 2 weeks and he was quiet too, I thought we've broken up > I reached out 2 weeks later, asking if we were over or not, he said he wanted me to dump him cause he was terrible when I had a bike crash, he blamed himself that was drained, unable to feel love and that would make me suffer.

Currently:
- Aries is clear and straight to the point. If he's been angry, he would have told me. If he wanted to cut off, he would have ignored the text, or bluntly answered my question. But he explained himself.
- I don't know if he's in the stage of depression cause I haven't seen a depressed Aries. But blaming himself is nothing like an Aries' signature move.
- He still responded my text, but slowly and tenderly not eagerly, and no intiative, but right when he saw my text. Like I ask him sth, he would answer but doesn't want to expand the conversation or express any emotions. Like he's withdrawing himself and just be a loner.

Are those symtoms sound like my Aries is depressed? Is it true we heal depressed Aries with care and patience?

@Timon His moon is Aquarius Timon, soft at heart. It doesn't involve much about actions though, but his rising explains a lot, it's Cap and Capricorn is the idle sign, taking-time sign. Other signs in his chart are watery so it all comes out a cool, tender manner.

@DMV Yes, I can pretty much sympathize with your man's trails of thoughts and wish you all the best. Maybe things around him mark a certain level, and when it moves up level 10 for alert he will sure handle it well to protect his lady love. Mine is...urgh. I was sitting there bleeding on my arm, trying to hold it together and putting out nicest words anybody could imagine. But he just...listened, like a baby listening to something attentively. Ah yes, at least he paid attention without going through his phone. You see, my signs are all mixed up. This point he cared, that point he didn't, so confusing. But then again, I guess we see different levels of hurt here. I was hurt of him not being there for me, and he was hurt that I broke it up later on. Aries is the most flexible and one of the smartest signs but I don't know why mine was so oblivious, like he didn't understand which hurt was more than the other. It's obvious cause of his ignorance I was disappointed and led to the breaking up thing. Now he's just silent as hell and as usual, I felt somehow this is part of my fault that I had bad judgement and pointed things towards him so much.

@bkbella86 @Superman77 @IamAries Yes me too you guys, I thought this Aries is...you know, Aries! He has several watery signs in his chart and his rising is Capricorn, so I understand the low-key-not-rush-things life style . He's not too outgoing or active about things, sometimes his nature even causes me to doubt him in certain things since he's so...introvert, like 40% introvert. He still goes places, enjoys and finds new things but his emotional expression doesn't get a hang of anything. He's just quiet and cool most of the time, but I expect he would be different when things come up, especially with this loved one. Maybe he doesn't experience this kind of incident before, or it was late and he had to drive for 10km from work to home so he's really tired...I don't know. I'm not clingy to him, but I'm clinging to the fact that he did show a tiny bit of care only after things passed. And being with someone occassionally show over-the-top emotions, I know this is huge for him. This whole description from me may seem boring in compare to general Aries, but I can feel the connection and somehow it's enough for me. He still takes care of me subtly like paying for restaurants or always saying "go home safe" or stuff, like said, subtly. But anyway, part of my energy evaporated so I don't have enough drive to initiate contact with him. But not completely drained to touch my emotional core, so basically I'm just numb now. And it's been 11 days already he didn't say a word, didn't active on his facebook either (he always is an active facebook user like posting stories and new statuses or sharing something). Intuitively I know he would come around, but I don't know, things are vague now and can't promise anything. Just I believe if he loves me he would come back. Just heading for the possibility and wonder the chance he may reach out haha, silly me.

2 weeks ago, I had a bicycle crash. My Aries boyfriend was cycling right behind me, and when a guy suddenly walked into the street, my break was not fast enough to dodge him and I ended up lying on the street, half of my body was injured with scratches. I crumbled up, picked up my bike and asked the guy where he was looking at. And during this whole scene, I realized my Aries was just sitting still on his bike without a move. Since it was near our diner, I cycled towards and then confronted him when we were waiting on our food. I told him it was not his fault, but I was really disappointed when I saw him sitting there without any action, even if he couldn't prevent the incident, at least he could help me getting up or something, or at least...stepped out of his bike or confronted the walking guy or anything. He did nothing. I rhetorically asked him if something went worse, would he only witness things happening to me just like that and not do a thing. I was heart-broken, to see my man could not protect me or care for me so I told him about my disappointment.

During which, he sat still listening to me, no phone, no looking elsewhere, because I knew for the fact he knew this was serious. It was definitely serious since my hand was bleeding as hell. He said I crashed somewhere in the middle of the street so it was far of his reach. And from the start to when we parted, he said 3 lines:
- Cleanse your hand with water.
- Is there any other part with injuries?
- Do you want me to drive you home?
He cared, I awared and eventhough there were only 3 subtle lines, but AFTER I was almost die with the crash. The street was very crowded with big cars and motocycles, it was light-rainy and it was dark.

I drove home, waiting for 2 more hours to see if he texted me or not about the incident. He didn't do a thing, it was like the incident caught him off guard so hard to the point he felt angry, somehow he got blame for what he did not intent. I texted him...with many flaws before that (he used 3, 4 still-active dating apps), I held my stand until this very day and always forgave him. But with this incident, I was really tired and thanked him for these past months we were together. The breakup text was nice enough, I'm not the angry-attitude-with-angry-mind kind of girl.

He's been silent all the way, I know he is angry so 1 week past I visited him. He opened his door, we were lying on the bed but he didn't want to touch or hold me. Either way, I held him close and kissed him. It's my thing of reconnecting and he didn't say much, just lying there let me hold him. Sometimes he looked me in the eyes but that was it, everything was me initiating and he was quiet. 1 hour past, I didn't get any response/saying from him so I went home. Cause there was no point and I'm not clingy. We were silent for a week now and he didn't text or say anything. He is not active on his dating apps, or post anything his social media. I know he's processing things.

We've been though so many things, I know when he gets angry he will NOT want anything to touch him and he would be incredibly irritated, annoyed and said mean words. But this is not the case when I visited him last week. I know he still has feelings for me but the incident is like a wall between us and he didn't know how to process things. And no, this incident is not entirely his fault for me to blame him at. Just get myself together and get over with the disappointment, either I still love him or not. I don't do ding-dong with emotions, must be clear.


His past relationships always end up blocking contacts. So I know I'm still in the game, just don't want to be contacted 3 months later like other Aries stories I've heard about. Should I initiate asking him watching a movie?
Should I give him more time? Or this is the end of us?

@ScorpioTruth Arghh, he is kind of introvert so when we clicked, we kept talking for 2 hours straight. "Cracked" is the slang phrase for starting a conversation with someone that is so quiet.

No, when we first said hello, we talked on last Tuesday and he said he had lots of work during the week. So 3 days later, I was surprised by how he asked me out and I seriously thought the conversation was dropped from Tuesday.

We met on Saturday, then he was quiet from Sunday til now. I'm convinced he is busy, but at least he should have said or initiated contact or something. Now I only feel like I didn't meet his standard and there would be no chance, he would be quiet forever.

No, he's not married or involved.

Hi guys, I have a story to share and need some advice. I met this Capricorn man on a dating app last week, his bio was very vague about finding someone to share the meaning of life with. So I cracked him and we hit it off very well, we even set karaoke date and mini jokes in our conversation. Everything happened in a day, and after which he went silent.

A week later, he asked me out on Saturday night. I did not see it coming, since it's kind of rules dating strangers on the app if they went silent. I seriously thought he was not into me anymore and he explained he was so busy on weekdays. So with new perspective, I gave us a shot at a coffee shop he chose.

After we'd met, we talked for 2 hours straight without realizing the time. We were so surprised by the time passed and we were so clicked to each other, but I had to excuse him to go home cause it was late. We kinda set a next date hanging out with his friends during our conversations, but it was still unclear cause we did not confirm or have any specific time for the date. It was just like a fun idea meeting up again to talk about many things we hadn't had the chance to. Then, when checked out, he offered to pay for me and he said "Next time will be your turn to pay" when I asked him to let me split the bill. So with all the signs, his kind attitude and our things in common, I have hope for us.

I drove home, but our rendezvous was so far from my home so I asked him to tell me the way. He showed me the way and drove side by side, after then, I asked him which direction he would take. He told me he would turn right and I needed to go left in order to get home, but when we stopped at the traffic light he waited behind me until it turned green to take his right. I seriously believed he cared somehow?

Sunday passed, and Monday came but still, I heard nothing from him. Even so, I did not bother or text him and I carried on with my busy workload. I am a Pisces so we are kinda compatible a lot, and I heard Cap men are shy and take longer to do things. So is there still hope, or I need to wait til this weekend to see if he's interested? Should I initiate contact?