No they don't work...eventually there has to be a reality check.
If it were meant to be it would come together fairly quickly and it wouldn't be difficult to start asking and answering the hard questions ie: who is moving to be with whom and willing to make the sacrifice.
Posted by sweethearts Yes I agree, BUT when is it ever an equal standing? It's always ever the heart ruling or the head!
Head is safer than heart. It is odd for me to say that too, I've always followed the heart (when it had an opinion ). I can analyze and/or rationalize my way through just about any problem if it is a non-emotional issue. Once the heart gets involved the brain takes a backseat and just laughs.
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That's why I now question it! The heart normally rules and makes me question whether I am making the right decision.
This is weird, because this guy is on paper everything i have been (thinking) I want...but I feel nothing from the heart. I know I don't know him yet and this is all looking too far ahead but I'm scared that he may be too perfect and I'm not sure I'm even ready for a relationship!! Stupid huh? Mama always says be careful what you wish for, you may get it!!!
Things haven't worked out LS...my heart aches for someone, yes, but it's not going to happen, so I'm moving on! I don't think I need to tell him that.
However, I will apologise for my forward behaviour the first time we met, I feel embarrassed about it. Kissing someone I had only just met, not my normal thing. My only excuse was dumb and drunk, so I'll make sure I don't over indulge when we go out. And I hope it hasn't given him the wrong idea of me.